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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #200 on: April 21, 2017, 12:31:16 AM »
Isn't like the whole point of chassidus that you can be a simple farmer and still be a chossid and a tzaddik, unlike the loony litvaks where being a talmid chochom was only accessible to the elite?

Or: isn't like the whole point of shlichus that you go out wherever you are needed and treat every yid with Ahavas Yisroel, even if they are not frum and look nothing like you - and (gasp!) even if they look exactly like you.

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #201 on: April 21, 2017, 01:02:08 AM »
Isn't like the whole point of chassidus that you can be a simple farmer and still be a chossid and a tzaddik, unlike the loony litvaks where being a talmid chochom was only accessible to the elite?
v'lo am haaretz chosid is a mishna iinm

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #202 on: April 21, 2017, 01:04:33 AM »
v'lo am haaretz chosid is a mishna iinm

The mishna is using the word in a different meaning. 

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #203 on: April 21, 2017, 01:13:40 AM »
The mishna is using the word in a different meaning.
which word? AH or chosid

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #204 on: April 21, 2017, 01:44:44 AM »
which word? AH or chosid

Chosid.  The mishna was written over a thousand years before the Baal Shem Tov.  The "chassidim harishonim" in the mishna in brachos were not the maggid of mezeritch.  There is no reason to believe they would have felt more at home in Lubavitch than in Vilna. 

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #205 on: April 21, 2017, 03:09:36 AM »
The mishna is using the word in a different meaning.
See here and here.
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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #206 on: April 21, 2017, 06:40:18 AM »
In both this comment and my previous one I did not get into what are the actual appropriate levels of טהרת הקודש, neither for our mosdos nor for college education.
Again, sorry for the ignorance, but what does taharas hakodesh mean in this context?
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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #207 on: April 21, 2017, 06:51:28 AM »
Again, sorry for the ignorance, but what does taharas hakodesh mean in this context?
keeping schools/yeshivas free of (excessive, or any) secular studies, avoiding (where possible? almost everyone?) college education

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #208 on: April 21, 2017, 08:28:11 AM »
Again, sorry for the ignorance, but what does taharas hakodesh mean in this context?

Not sure,  but I've gathered from the discussion on the last few pages that its a chosson teacher.

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #209 on: April 21, 2017, 08:43:36 AM »
keeping schools/yeshivas free of (excessive, or any) secular studies, avoiding (where possible? almost everyone?) college education
My uneducated guess is that the reason chabadskers struggle so much with this directive, is because it is contradicted by the general chabbad directive to "get out there and mingle"...

In beney berak for eg, there is no such contradiction. Educational institutions are dedicated only to Torah study, preparing students for a life dedicated to Torah study. It's simple.

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #210 on: April 21, 2017, 08:46:01 AM »
My uneducated guess is that the reason chabadskers struggle so much with this directive, is because it is contradicted by the general chabbad directive to "get out there and mingle"...

In beney berak for eg, there is no such contradiction. Educational institutions are dedicated only to Torah study, preparing students for a life dedicated to Torah study. It's simple.
All that means is to find a proper balance.
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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #211 on: April 21, 2017, 09:50:30 AM »
All that means is to find a proper balance.
Walking a tightrope over the Grand Canyon is easy. All it needs is finding a proper balance.

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #212 on: April 21, 2017, 10:21:45 AM »
Yup, and going to a mesivta like PIT sets one up for failure. No appreciation for hashem, his torah, or the awareness that אין עוד מלבדו.
Because other mesivtas and Zal only have 100% unadulterated לימוד תורה.
Having gone to pit, do you feel that you were on the same level of learning as your classmates when you entered LA? I definitely wasn't. Given the lackluster secular curriculum at pit (and most other chabad mesivtas offering secular edu), is it really worth forgoing a serious סדר גרסא (instead of just 40 min with הרב) so you can draw maps with Mr J and talk football with Mr ski?

With the options practically available, I don't think getting a GED post smicha plus you that far behind (if at all) a chabad high school graduate.
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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #213 on: April 21, 2017, 10:30:20 AM »
Having gone to pit, do you feel that you were on the same level of learning as your classmates when you entered LA? I definitely wasn't. And given the lackluster secular curriculum at pit (and most other chabad mesivtas offering secular edu), is it really worth forgoing the a serious סדר גרסא (instead of just 40 min with הרב) so you can draw maps with Mr J and talk football with Mr ski?
Now we're getting to the meat of the matter. Some years we had great teachers and rabbeim, other years we didn't. Harav and Rabbi Green were great, though the latter was long gone when you were around.

But yes, I do have a problem with the lackluster curriculum. There's no reason it has to be that way and if there are no better solutions to the issue within 5 years from now maybe I'll do something about that myself.

It took some time in LA, but did catch up with the "Chicago guys" who had a very strong l"k background within a few months there.

I don't think that I'd have a 3.98 mba gpa without having gone to pit, but who knows.
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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #214 on: April 21, 2017, 10:34:12 AM »


There's no reason it has to be that way and if there are no better solutions to the issue within 5 years from now maybe I'll do something about that myself.

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #215 on: April 21, 2017, 11:02:02 AM »
Chosid.  The mishna was written over a thousand years before the Baal Shem Tov.  The "chassidim harishonim" in the mishna in brachos were not the maggid of mezeritch.  There is no reason to believe they would have felt more at home in Lubavitch than in Vilna.
i did not realize when you said this
Isn't like the whole point of chassidus that you can be a simple farmer and still be a chossid and a tzaddik, unlike the loony litvaks where being a talmid chochom was only accessible to the elite?
you meant the modern day chosid

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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #216 on: April 21, 2017, 11:19:41 AM »
Isn't like the whole point of chassidus that you can be a simple farmer and still be a chossid and a tzaddik, unlike the loony litvaks where being a talmid chochom was only accessible to the elite?
Becoming a talmud chochom is accessible to all.
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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #217 on: April 21, 2017, 11:30:29 AM »
Not sure,  but I've gathered from the discussion on the last few pages that its a chosson teacher.
You been listening to Aaron moss lectures?
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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #218 on: April 21, 2017, 11:34:19 AM »
Walking a tightrope over the Grand Canyon is easy. All it needs is finding a proper balance.
Finding the right balance for things is never easy, but that is with millions of aspects of life. This may be something which involved more of a fine line  and delicate balance for Lubavitch, but there are other things which other groups have a difficult time finding the precise balance. To make the need for a proper balance into a contradiction is disingenuous.
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Re: Shlichus Addiction?
« Reply #219 on: April 21, 2017, 11:49:51 AM »
Becoming a talmud chochom is accessible to all.
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Is hillel mechayev everyone to learn torah, or to become a talmid chochom? I'd assume the former.