Geirus needs a bridge din of 3, so not sure what you mean by 2?
Tell that to the guy who said two is enough..
Never said you need 2, I'm not pretending to know Hilchos Geirus etc but who says Haskel Lookstein is not a kosher Dayan for this purpose all I said was the fact that Herschel Shacter was on the bais din is good enough for me to say the geirus was good regardless and I'm sure he didnt not lower his standards to haskell's
you gave a specific scenario which would not be a heter, you can say there were other reasons... there is no reason to believe there was pikuach nefesh if she would not have attended the ceremonies after shkia
For this scenario it's not all that difficult to be dan lkaf zchus... I'm not sure why you're so bent on that she's not jewish and that she definitely had no heter if she is... unless you have personal reasons s like that it's more convenient to actually be muttar to speak loshon hara about her