wow...So i got super lucky today...was checking randomly and found one way ticket FROM LIH (KAUAI) to NYC in business class for 37,500 each on January 4, 2012 which was exactly what I was looking for. So 75,000 for my wife and I for half way there.5 minutes after I booked it availability was gone.
Now I have to find one way tickets there, hotel, and car....wow this trip planning ain't easy!!! Thanks for the advice Momo...I appreciate it