As a white African born American, Jewish, frum, Chassidic, Chabad, child of a mixed FFB-BT marriage, I'm used to being in the minority and EVERYONE ELSE BEING STONE COLD WRONG.
Taruvos explains it all. 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈
(Seriously though this isn't a grammatical debate, it's a common use debate, so if most people use it one way you can't argue that they are wrong, because the debate is about what most people do...)