Would love to hear from @Ergel here.
I've stopped reading/posting on DDF (taking too much of my time), but got a notification so I'll respond and check back to follow up a couple of times.
I've only been here 8 months, but this is what I see so far.
Tuition is obviously much cheaper or free.
Professional Services are much cheaper (instead of $100 minimum charge for a plumber, it will be 150₪
Health Care is free. It's not an American PPO obviously but I think it's ok. You don't need to wait to see doctors. We have additional health Care which will cover surgery at any doctor and all possible medications and isn't super expensive (still working on, but likely my employer will cover this)
Housing in yerushalayim/RBS is VERY expensive, compare to the most expensive places in NYC
Car ownership is prohibitively expensive, between cost of the car, gas, insurance, registration fees, etc.
Food - some things are more expensive, some are less. Overall it's probably similar to Toronto, which is to say a tad higher than NYC.
In terms of employment, BH I've been very lucky to be able to keep my job abroad and work remotely. From what I understand, if you work in tech (which BH, I do), salaries are extremely competitive and similar to the US. Law/accounting apparently salaries aren't competitive. My wife is in education and honestly we are just looking to break even on costs associated with her working.
But in general, people live a simple lifestyle here. Not that everyone is a parush, it's just the way of life.
We could not be happier, BH.