I have watched his YouTube motivational videos. It's more like him making you feel like a peice of garbage and then giving you a big push for future success at the same time. The way he talks is incredible imo.
In the book intro it really speaks to me. They discuss that life isn't all fun and games. Tragedies occur, people die etc.
As a Jew or anyone with a reasonable conscience these are things often discussed. For me it was revelationary. I have had life be rough at times but my parents didn't coddle me and I'm grateful for that.
I cannot conceive being a child of the 21st century being put in safe zones where you don't ever have to hear something you don't like.
Probably that person would be in denial and disbelief if told they have cancer lo aleinu.
I just read something about how to find humility, you should spend time in the Great Outdoors. Obviously from my perspective it's easier to envision a mighty god outdoors but the challenge is to see the hand of god in the small things.
But you can certainly understand the bracha of yotze ohr etc in context of putting us humans into place I. God's kingdom.
The more I read from truly great writers etc you find a common theme with Judaism.
I don't think it clashes, the magid of dubna workrd 150 years ago and today different things help one balance.. So what, if we can learn kibud av v'eim from dama Ben nesuna, we can learn from honest writers and thinks about our purpose and direction