Are you familiar enough with the administration of kashrus in a hotel to know all questions to ask and judge whether the answers are adequate? If you feel you are then great. The vast majority of people are not and therefore their saying there is a difference is based on hearsay.
Personally, probably not.
But I asked someone I trust who looked into it thoroughly and told me that it was acceptable. And yes, it was nice to see Avraham Fried eating Shabbos dinner at the table next to us. If we both go to hell for it, at least I'll hear some nice nigunim