meaning- public aveilus is not noheg but private aveilus is noheg, just like during shiva, private things are assur but public things are mutar
i know what he meant, but it doesnt really have ramifications
what are you not going to do this shabbos thats different than any other shabbos?
dont say learning tomorrow afternoon, bc many are meikil about that. and i give you a lot of credit if you could learn only tisha bav appropriate material tomorrow afternoon and sunday, and not miss a beat. for some of us who are a bit weaker, we need to rely on the meikilim for tomorrow afternoon.
going for a walk for pleasure? ok maybe ill give you that
tashmish? mechaber is meikil and some ashkenasim arent noheg like the rama.
but anything else?