I live on the East Coast, though I'm not from here, and will readily tell you this place is crap.
I dismiss out of hand those people who comment on the objective and absolute beauty and allure of their home town, while at the same time admitting they've never seen anywhere south of Lakewood or Philly. So, no, I try to stay away from DDMS comments.
No one with their head on straight can tout the benefits of NY/NJ beyond: 1) Jewish convenience (restaurants, schooling options, etc), and 2) bustling business center.
The end.