why don’t you think that it wasn’t a factor? Because the decision was different of what you were expecting??
Did you read what I wrote? People who didn’t skip a beat, and jumped from one excuse to the next without bothering to even so much as pause and think, exhibited an attitude toward life that is unacceptable.
If someone paused, consulted doctors and Rabbanim, and then made a decision, then I may or may not disagree, but at least I can see where they are coming from.