As a single, I would NOT want to get married right now at all.
Not because of the wedding. Actually having a small backyard wedding is my dream.
But because I cannot imagine, under any circumstances, how this could be a healthy way to start a marriage.
In fact, I think it can have long term detrimental effect. I think divorce is extreme, but I do think it will make something that is hard, that much harder.
Getting used to living with someone is hard enough. To do so when:
A: you are in each other's faces ALL. THE. TIME. This is not good for even the healthiest of marriages. You need routine. You need SPACE
B: it's overall a very stressful time for almost everyone, regardless of how you have been affected
C: you can't even go away for Shabbos or anything, which is hard for young girls to suddenly spring into full on housework like that
My main reason is A. If I was engaged right now, no matter how much we 'loved' each other (no I don't think that's possible in frum circles), I would do whatever I can to push the wedding.