and you daven with them?
Me? I'm very bad at dragging my tush to shul. I also have very bad ADD.
I go most weeks Shabbat. I used to love prayers at the kotel and mearat hamachpela. Personally standard chabad prayers aren't my style, need chabad house or young Israel.
It is what it is. when we moved to the new building where did the beginning we started a policy that nobody's allowed to go in or out during the rabbi's speech..
You would be amazed at how people really didn't get it for the first 25 times.
In addition it was a big problem of people going in and out during aliyos. So we instituted that you can only go in and out in between aliyos.
This is the policy in young Israel I grew up davening at.
I much rather someone sit in shul and read John grisham during davening than talk.