I don’t have a problem with him yelling but you do have a valid question. I do NOT visit my parents or in laws except through closed doors or windows.
I did not visit for 5 weeks. Only from outside etc .
We did get a little lax over pesach a little in backyard, I'm not here to lie.
I wasn't happy and mostly it was just one siblings, his wife and the kids playing and my mom came out for a bit said hi, brought food etc.
I did protest and do but see here's the thing, there's minyan which is not sticking to porches, there's people in Miami keeping 6-10 feet etc and there's kibbud av v'em which is d'oraysa and minyan which is?
The 6 feet slows the spread yes. I'm aware of everything.. I'm not gonna fight with my siblings and parents, I don't think it's a great idea and no one in my family besides my grandmother is at risk.
Almost everyone stays home, those of us that go out avoid people, mask, gloves, sanitizer etc and I'm not even gonna use the Miami excuse.
I spent 5 weeks of agnoy and fighting with my parents. .
But this is way safer than people doing play dates or street minyan