Author Topic: The Future of Lakewood  (Read 532371 times)

Offline yuneeq

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jan 2013
  • Posts: 8885
  • Total likes: 4062
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 10
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Location: NJ
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2520 on: January 04, 2023, 04:54:02 PM »
I haven't heard of it and would now not consider getting it for my kids. Why would I bdavka go against the roshei yeshiva?

If your kids were consuming entertainment that was even a bit less kosher and/or using a less appropriate device, would you not consider it better for your home? Would the RY approve of the less appropriate entertainment options?
Visibly Jewish

Online avromie7

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Feb 2014
  • Posts: 8344
  • Total likes: 2765
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 6
    • View Profile
  • Location: Lakewood
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2521 on: January 04, 2023, 04:57:42 PM »
S/He is 6 going on 16. Eventually he is likely to find out about it. Possibly a lot sooner than you expect when s/he tells or shows a friend about it who asks a parent that answers they won't go against the roshei yeshiva and the friend reports back to your child.

Are you discussing the service or the device?
I just heard about this today and don't fully understand what it includes. It sounds like I would only care about the service, they can watch it on any device.
I wonder what people who type "u" instead of "you" do with all their free time.

Online JMHO

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Platinum Elite
  • *******
  • Join Date: Apr 2020
  • Posts: 1542
  • Total likes: 1295
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 0
    • View Profile
  • Location: NYC
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2522 on: January 04, 2023, 07:16:52 PM »
Not everyone is Meshubad to the Roshei Yeshivas of BMG and definitely not to TAG.
100% but that's not what I said.

Offline EliJelly

  • Dansdeals Presidential Platinum Elite
  • ********
  • Join Date: Jan 2019
  • Posts: 3246
  • Total likes: 3699
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 1
    • View Profile
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2523 on: January 04, 2023, 08:09:10 PM »
If your kids were consuming entertainment that was even a bit less kosher and/or using a less appropriate device, would you not consider it better for your home? Would the RY approve of the less appropriate entertainment options?

That option is called בוחר הרע במיעוטו, why not give your kids what is wholly appropriate? I'm not opining on the 24six just on this sentiment.

Offline yuneeq

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jan 2013
  • Posts: 8885
  • Total likes: 4062
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 10
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Location: NJ
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2524 on: January 04, 2023, 08:45:23 PM »
That option is called בוחר הרע במיעוטו, why not give your kids what is wholly appropriate? I'm not opining on the 24six just on this sentiment.

For anyone that doesn’t have texting and isn’t challenged with using 100% kosher entertainment this isn’t for them anyways. For the rest, this is a decent option.
Visibly Jewish

Offline yesitsme

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Dec 2014
  • Posts: 5121
  • Total likes: 2238
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 4
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2525 on: January 04, 2023, 08:54:50 PM »
["-"]

Online aygart

  • Dansdeals Lifetime 10K Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *******
  • Join Date: May 2008
  • Posts: 18784
  • Total likes: 14883
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 14
    • View Profile
    • Lower Watt Energy Brokers
  • Programs: www.lowerwatt.com
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2526 on: January 04, 2023, 09:21:04 PM »
Feelings don't care about your facts

Online aygart

  • Dansdeals Lifetime 10K Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *******
  • Join Date: May 2008
  • Posts: 18784
  • Total likes: 14883
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 14
    • View Profile
    • Lower Watt Energy Brokers
  • Programs: www.lowerwatt.com
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2527 on: January 04, 2023, 11:00:29 PM »
For anyone that doesn’t have texting and isn’t challenged with using 100% kosher entertainment this isn’t for them anyways. For the rest, this is a decent option.

Nothing in between?
Feelings don't care about your facts

Offline Euclid

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jun 2010
  • Posts: 5066
  • Total likes: 6234
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 5
    • View Profile
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2528 on: January 04, 2023, 11:15:34 PM »

Online aygart

  • Dansdeals Lifetime 10K Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *******
  • Join Date: May 2008
  • Posts: 18784
  • Total likes: 14883
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 14
    • View Profile
    • Lower Watt Energy Brokers
  • Programs: www.lowerwatt.com
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2529 on: January 04, 2023, 11:18:36 PM »
For example?
Someone with a flip phone with text
Feelings don't care about your facts

Offline Pony

  • Dansdeals Silver Elite
  • **
  • Join Date: Jul 2022
  • Posts: 69
  • Total likes: 261
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 0
    • View Profile
  • Location: Toms River
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2530 on: January 04, 2023, 11:21:26 PM »
The same reason I vote against anyone the VAAD endorses.

Is there not a distinction between political endorsements and rabonim making the public aware of something that can potentially be harmful to our children?

Offline Euclid

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jun 2010
  • Posts: 5066
  • Total likes: 6234
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 5
    • View Profile
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2531 on: January 04, 2023, 11:24:05 PM »
Someone with a flip phone with text
Ah I thought you meant an alternative for the device/service

Offline yuneeq

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jan 2013
  • Posts: 8885
  • Total likes: 4062
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 10
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Location: NJ
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2532 on: January 05, 2023, 12:35:35 AM »
Nothing in between?

Someone with a flip phone with text

That option is called בוחר הרע במיעוטו
Visibly Jewish

Offline yuneeq

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jan 2013
  • Posts: 8885
  • Total likes: 4062
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 10
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Location: NJ
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2533 on: January 05, 2023, 12:54:41 AM »
Just looked at the website and the letter again. Seems like the main issue is the device which they’re unsure of the risks. But even the content they have an issue with as well. Though after reading how it works, the app starts off with arguabky kosher content, and then lets you filter out exactly what you don’t want your kids to see. If we don’t trust parents to choose appropriate content, then banning this app makes no difference to the world.

And if the app is trief because of the content, what does that say about the artists? We should ban them as well. And ban any of the artists that don’t disassociate themselves from this treif endeavor. And finally ban anyone that dare question the effectiveness of this ban.
Visibly Jewish

Offline WAM

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Platinum Elite
  • *******
  • Join Date: May 2010
  • Posts: 1394
  • Total likes: 307
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 1
    • View Profile
  • Location: Location, location, location.
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2534 on: January 05, 2023, 04:01:48 AM »
Just looked at the website and the letter again. Seems like the main issue is the device which they’re unsure of the risks. But even the content they have an issue with as well. Though after reading how it works, the app starts off with arguabky kosher content, and then lets you filter out exactly what you don’t want your kids to see. If we don’t trust parents to choose appropriate content, then banning this app makes no difference to the world.

And if the app is trief because of the content, what does that say about the artists? We should ban them as well. And ban any of the artists that don’t disassociate themselves from this treif endeavor. And finally ban anyone that dare question the effectiveness of this ban.
Mods, please ban yuneeq for trying to convince the banners to ban the not yet banned.

Online avromie7

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Feb 2014
  • Posts: 8344
  • Total likes: 2765
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 6
    • View Profile
  • Location: Lakewood
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2535 on: January 05, 2023, 06:14:06 AM »
Is there not a distinction between political endorsements and rabonim making the public aware of something that can potentially be harmful to our children?
I am now aware and will proceed with the appropriate caution.
I wonder what people who type "u" instead of "you" do with all their free time.

Online aygart

  • Dansdeals Lifetime 10K Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *******
  • Join Date: May 2008
  • Posts: 18784
  • Total likes: 14883
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 14
    • View Profile
    • Lower Watt Energy Brokers
  • Programs: www.lowerwatt.com
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2536 on: January 05, 2023, 06:53:17 AM »
Just looked at the website and the letter again. Seems like the main issue is the device which they’re unsure of the risks. But even the content they have an issue with as well. Though after reading how it works, the app starts off with arguabky kosher content, and then lets you filter out exactly what you don’t want your kids to see. If we don’t trust parents to choose appropriate content, then banning this app makes no difference to the world.

And if the app is trief because of the content, what does that say about the artists? We should ban them as well. And ban any of the artists that don’t disassociate themselves from this treif endeavor. And finally ban anyone that dare question the effectiveness of this ban.
The letters make no mention of the app at all and discuss the device exclusively. Even that is only discussed regarding giving one to a kid.
Feelings don't care about your facts

Offline dasmo801

  • Dansdeals Platinum Elite
  • ****
  • Join Date: Apr 2013
  • Posts: 306
  • Total likes: 783
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 0
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Location: Lakewood, NJ
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2537 on: January 05, 2023, 08:18:50 AM »
The letters make no mention of the app at all and discuss the device exclusively. Even that is only discussed regarding giving one to a kid.

I received a technology related email from my son's school last night and among other things, they clarified that the issue that they and 40 plus mosdos signed against was specifically the device. They wrote that the app is certainly a step up for those that may currently be giving their children access to Spotify or the like.

Offline Yehuda57

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jan 2014
  • Posts: 5328
  • Total likes: 15087
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 6
    • View Profile
    • Squilled
  • Location: Brooklyn
  • Programs: Official Dansdeals salad correspondent
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2538 on: January 05, 2023, 08:22:50 AM »
The letters make no mention of the app at all and discuss the device exclusively. Even that is only discussed regarding giving one to a kid.

I rest my case.

Offline yuneeq

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jan 2013
  • Posts: 8885
  • Total likes: 4062
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 10
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Location: NJ
Re: The Future of Lakewood
« Reply #2539 on: January 05, 2023, 09:31:57 AM »
The letters make no mention of the app at all and discuss the device exclusively. Even that is only discussed regarding giving one to a kid.

Quote
Of particular concern is the fact that use of this device brings with it exposure to music and videos with content that often runs contrary to the values and with which we bring up our children.

Visibly Jewish