Thank you for laying out my pov.
Beards are very uncomfortable both physically and for many young men not able to adapt to it, yet if they trim or shave, various frum sects will basically treat you as evil.
Tzitzits is very uncomfortable In the summer.. yeah if you say that people will say well they make so many different types that are comfortable etc You're just being lazy.
Honestly, people who don't wear a mask are lazy.
The difference is, you're doing it at the expense of the community.
And yes they will kick out a married woman who has her hair uncovered because they will say "we can't daven with erva"