Post by: AJK on August 17, 2011, 03:23:31 PM
Need suggestions for a hotel on my wedding night.
Getting married in NJ, so need hotel in either NJ or NYC.
Random thoughts:
I'd love to have a jacuzzi in the room.
I'd love not to spend a boat load.
I am a Hyatt Diamond member until 8/31.
I have ~100,000 Chase UR points.
I have ~12,000 Starwood points.
Thoughts?
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 17, 2011, 03:32:41 PM
Post by: Hudi on August 17, 2011, 03:43:01 PM
Post by: madopo on August 17, 2011, 03:43:52 PM
Post by: Dan on August 17, 2011, 03:44:48 PM
Mandarin OrientalDid you totally skip over his random thoughts?
W Hoboken for SPG or Andaz 5th Ave or Wall St. for Hyatt all should be great.
You'd have to call about getting upgraded to a room with a Jacuzzi.
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 17, 2011, 03:53:37 PM
Did you totally skip over his random thoughts?
W Hoboken for SPG or Andaz 5th Ave or Wall St. for Hyatt all should be great.
You'd have to call about getting upgraded to a room with a Jacuzzi.
Just "Joshing"
What about:
The Westin New York at Times Square
Element New York Times Square West
Le Parker Méridien New York
W New York
All are 12k for one night
*NO MATTER WHO YOU CHOOSE..CALL AND TELL THEM YOU ARE ON YOUR HONEYMOON...SOMETIMES THEY GIVE YOU EXTRAS...
I have been on my "honeymoon" for the past 6 years:)
Post by: Columbiadorm on August 17, 2011, 04:32:58 PM
Did you totally skip over his random thoughts?
W Hoboken for SPG or Andaz 5th Ave or Wall St. for Hyatt all should be great.
You'd have to call about getting upgraded to a room with a Jacuzzi.
+1 on the W Hoboken.
Very nice hotel ! Know many people who've stayed there on their wedding night.
Post by: AJK on August 17, 2011, 04:47:25 PM
Maybe Andaz 5th or Wall Street is the way to go?
Also @twentie4hrs -- yea, I've heard that tip about the wedding night from a few people; definitely gonna try it.
Post by: Jkhein on August 17, 2011, 04:51:32 PM
+1 on the W Hoboken.
Very nice hotel ! Know many people who've stayed there on their wedding night.
I was pretty unimpressed with the W hoboken was nothing exciting - well maybe I just saw the standard room although I was told its an upgraded one as a gold member.
I would recommend the Sheraton in Edison NJ very cheap with points, and they have only one suite, which is very very nice they dont give it out easily but they gave it to me and enjoyed it!
Post by: Dan on August 17, 2011, 04:52:06 PM
So two votes for W Hoboken, but the only issue is I don't get to utilize my Diamond Status as a bargaining chip to upgrade to a room with a jacuzzi.Call up and ask for the GM to see if they're willing to make a bride and groom happy on their wedding night with an upgrade to a room with a jacuzzi.
Maybe Andaz 5th or Wall Street is the way to go?
Also @twentie4hrs -- yea, I've heard that tip about the wedding night from a few people; definitely gonna try it.
I don't think you can go too wrong with any of those hotels I mentioned though.
Post by: Jkhein on August 17, 2011, 04:54:14 PM
Post by: AJK on August 17, 2011, 04:57:25 PM
Call up and ask for the GM to see if they're willing to make a bride and groom happy on their wedding night with an upgrade to a room with a jacuzzi.
I don't think you can go too wrong with any of those hotels I mentioned though.
So what would be the best way to get the room without spending a boatload? Buy a standard room, get upgraded to a suite using one of my free suite upgrades, and then call GM at that point?
Post by: Chaikel on August 17, 2011, 04:58:37 PM
Post by: YudiG on August 17, 2011, 05:01:35 PM
I think a jacuzzi is a waste for your wedding night. Save it for your honeymoon
+1
Post by: Dan on August 17, 2011, 05:37:51 PM
So what would be the best way to get the room without spending a boatload? Buy a standard room, get upgraded to a suite using one of my free suite upgrades, and then call GM at that point?Assuming you mean at Andaz? Book a standard room and then call the GM. Ask him what suite he can book you into considering that its your wedding night and that you will use a suite upgrade. Normally the suite upgrade only goes for the lowest suite, but a manager and for sure the GM can make it go much farther than that.
Post by: Simcha89 on August 17, 2011, 06:28:46 PM
Post by: MarkS on August 17, 2011, 07:29:00 PM
*NO MATTER WHO YOU CHOOSE..CALL AND TELL THEM YOU ARE ON YOUR HONEYMOON...SOMETIMES THEY GIVE YOU EXTRAS...I could just picture walking in with a bunch of kids and saying you're on a honeymoon!!
I have been on my "honeymoon" for the past 6 years:)
Post by: momo on August 17, 2011, 08:48:16 PM
Post by: AJK on August 17, 2011, 08:57:59 PM
A lot of suites may only have 1 king bed so...
+1... gotta work that out...
Assuming you mean at Andaz? Book a standard room and then call the GM. Ask him what suite he can book you into considering that its your wedding night and that you will use a suite upgrade. Normally the suite upgrade only goes for the lowest suite, but a manager and for sure the GM can make it go much farther than that.
And if I book at Wall Street? Or a different hotel? Would the procedure be different?
I stayed in the palace in NYC. booked a regular room and was upgraded to a presidential suite. Total was under $300 for the night
Sounds good. Any chance there was a jacuzzi in the room?
Post by: elikay on August 17, 2011, 09:30:17 PM
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 17, 2011, 10:06:56 PM
Would an email to GM work as well? How do you get GMs email?I can attest to the fact that emails to the GM do work, many times, better than phone calls
Post by: AJK on August 17, 2011, 10:10:01 PM
I can attest to the fact that emails to the GM do work, many times, better than phone calls
Which hotels did they work on for you? And how did you manage to get the GM's email address?
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 17, 2011, 10:32:02 PM
Sometimes there are blogs out there..Worked at the W in manhattan and sheraton towers
Post by: Deal Guy on August 18, 2011, 04:03:58 PM
If there is only one suite, why did they give it to you? Was it on your wedding night?
I would recommend the Sheraton in Edison NJ very cheap with points, and they have only one suite, which is very very nice they dont give it out easily but they gave it to me and enjoyed it!
Post by: ganizzy on August 18, 2011, 09:27:19 PM
A lot of suites may only have 1 king bed so...
yup, walk in with wedding gown, ask for newlywed suite...
but insist on 2 beds :)
Post by: Dan on August 18, 2011, 09:35:05 PM
yup, walk in with wedding gown, ask for newlywed suite...We've all been there, done that...
but insist on 2 beds :)
A nice suite should have a couch anyway, often a pull-out.
Post by: AJK on August 19, 2011, 09:37:33 AM
Suggestions for, recommendations of, experiences with great hotels for wedding night, and the best possible way of getting a suite...
thanks all
Post by: Dan on August 20, 2011, 11:06:43 PM
Thanks.
Post by: Armadillo on August 21, 2011, 04:41:41 AM
Post by: AJK on August 21, 2011, 03:17:02 PM
From experience, stick to a hotel that's closer to a) the hall and/or b) the place where you'll need to end up the next day (especially when getting married Thursday night...)
Good advice... that's why we're looking in NYC or NJ (which is closer to the hall).
Post by: Dan on August 21, 2011, 07:14:05 PM
Post by: Nitantnel on August 21, 2011, 07:28:18 PM
NO MORE DISCUSSION OF THE JACUZZI, PERIOD.
Hay... I missed the fun!! :( :( :( :(
Post by: sawlw on August 21, 2011, 07:46:08 PM
I could just picture walking in with a bunch of kids and saying you're on a honeymoon!!Sure zivug sheini ;D
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 21, 2011, 08:02:13 PM
Sure zivug sheini ;D
nice one, but I doubt anyone takes their kids on a honeymoon.
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 21, 2011, 08:46:35 PM
Sure zivug sheini ;D
keep the kids in the car while you check in..
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 21, 2011, 08:49:32 PM
keep the kids in the car while you check in..sounds like a major C"h when they walk out.
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 21, 2011, 09:07:51 PM
sounds like a major C"h when they walk out.
ok..I'll take that into consideration .... ???
Post by: damaxer91 on August 21, 2011, 09:27:15 PM
sounds like a major C"h when they walk out.
Since when did C"H get in the way of anyone on these forums saving a buck or two?
Post by: Dan on August 21, 2011, 09:35:31 PM
Since when did C"H get in the way of anyone on these forums saving a buck or two?There a fine line between a c"h and a C"H and that crosses it.
Post by: damaxer91 on August 21, 2011, 09:41:41 PM
There a fine line between a c"h and a C"H and that crosses it.
Sort of like the difference between a lie and white lie :) ?
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 21, 2011, 09:50:11 PM
Post by: sawlw on August 22, 2011, 12:38:20 AM
sounds like a major C"h when they walk out.
many many hotels have more then one entrance, u checkin and you schlep the gantza meshpacha through a diff door.... tht simple :o
Post by: damaxer91 on August 22, 2011, 05:54:44 AM
only lying to goyim is ok, as opposed to C'h, so ones an ok lie and ones a bad lie
I'm not sure if you are being serious or not
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 22, 2011, 07:44:25 AM
I'm not sure if you are being serious or not
I guess that depends if the reader is a yid or not :D
Yes, presumably
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 22, 2011, 10:22:12 AM
I guess that depends if the reader is a yid or not :D
Yes, presumably
Did you hear the one about the yid or told the other yid they were doing something wrong?
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 22, 2011, 10:30:15 AM
Did you hear the one about the yid or told the other yid they were doing something wrong?
just pointing out the various elements of your 'trick'.
then again, at least we agree the lying part is ok.
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 22, 2011, 10:31:28 AM
just pointing out the various elements of your 'trick'.
then again, at least we agree the lying part is ok.
Is it Platinum "Guy" or Platinum "Goy"?
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 22, 2011, 10:41:43 AM
Is it Platinum "Guy" or Platinum "Goy"?
Just to understand your position, do you think claiming you're on a honeymoon with 5 kids is not a C'h? or do you think C'h is ok?
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 22, 2011, 10:43:45 AM
Just to understand your position, do you think claiming you're on a honeymoon with 5 kids is not a C'h? or do you think C'h is ok?
I think this is not a/your halachic playground...let people do what they want to do, IMHO
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 22, 2011, 10:46:38 AM
...let people do what they want to do, IMHOI think voicing an opinion comes under that category.
Post by: Dan on August 22, 2011, 10:50:36 AM
Don't claim it's your honeymoon if you're bring kids!
Sheesh...
Post by: mercaz1 on August 22, 2011, 11:30:21 AM
Can we use some common sense here folks?
Don't claim it's your honeymoon if you're bring kids!
Sheesh...
whether you bring kids or not its a lie
Post by: Dan on August 22, 2011, 11:33:09 AM
whether you bring kids or not its a lieWhy is that? People go on honeymoons for a while after a wedding when they are able to travel. It's doesn't have to be right away.
Besides if you can't tell the different between two lies (where 1 is blatantly obvious and the other isn't at all) than I simply don't know what to say.
Post by: mercaz1 on August 22, 2011, 11:36:44 AM
ive done it myself plenty of times but i dont try and fool myself into thinking that im not lying to the hotel.
Post by: Dan on August 22, 2011, 11:47:57 AM
im just saying that if its not really your honeymoon and you say it is then it is a lie, whether a small lie or big lie its still a lieAnd you see no difference between whether you bring kids or not after saying its your honeymoon?
ive done it myself plenty of times but i dont try and fool myself into thinking that im not lying to the hotel.
Post by: aussiebochur on August 22, 2011, 11:49:23 AM
Post by: mercaz1 on August 22, 2011, 11:50:22 AM
And you see no difference between whether you bring kids or not after saying its your honeymoon?yeah if you bring kids then your an idiot
Post by: Dan on August 22, 2011, 11:51:38 AM
yeah if you bring kids then your an idiotty
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 22, 2011, 11:59:08 AM
ty
I dont understand everyones logic here???
Has noone ever seen someone with kids get married before?
Post by: mercaz1 on August 22, 2011, 12:02:38 PM
I dont understand everyones logic here???
Has noone ever seen someone with kids get married before?
ppl with kids get married all the time they just dont usually bring the kids on thier honeymoon
Post by: ChAiM'l on August 22, 2011, 12:03:10 PM
I dont understand everyones logic here???
Has noone ever seen someone with kids get married before?
That's not the point. Did anyone that had kids when they got married, take the kids along on the honeymoon? This conversation is getting ridiculous. Dan, time for another cleanup...
Post by: Dan on August 22, 2011, 12:09:43 PM
I dont understand everyones logic here???You don't understand our logic?
Has noone ever seen someone with kids get married before?
More like nobody understands your logic.
"90 year old Herman Epstein was driving down a Florida freeway when his cell phone rang. Answering, he heard his wife Selma's voice urgently warning him, "Herman, I just heard on the news that there's a car going the wrong way on Highway 401. Please be careful!"
"Selma, you won’t believe it," said Herman, "It's not just one car. It's hundreds of them!""
Post by: mercaz1 on August 22, 2011, 12:12:59 PM
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 22, 2011, 12:19:47 PM
Someone who brings their kids on a honeymoon is obviously not romantic enough to qualify for a free suit.
Post by: ChAiM'l on August 22, 2011, 12:26:09 PM
Someone who brings their kids on a honeymoon is obviously not romantic enough to qualify for a free suit.
Do they give free shirts as well?
I couldn't resist
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 22, 2011, 12:31:27 PM
Do they give free shirts as well?lol
I couldn't resist
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 22, 2011, 12:36:05 PM
Some people never take a honeymoon so the vacation they take can be considered that.
Some people take 10 honeymoons...there is no clear cut definition,
Post by: E on August 22, 2011, 01:31:46 PM
Post by: moish on August 22, 2011, 01:54:28 PM
Looking for someone with diamond suite upgrade, I'll book thru your account for friends wedding night august 29th pm please.pm dealer
Post by: MnM1130 on August 30, 2011, 01:07:35 AM
Post by: twentie4hrs on August 30, 2011, 07:45:50 AM
Post by: Dan on August 30, 2011, 10:59:09 AM
Post by: AJK on September 01, 2011, 12:22:12 AM
Where did you wind up AJK?
Took your recommendation: Andaz 5th Ave.
Booked regular room; used suite upgrade; then called manager to upgrade us to the splash suite (great room by the way).
A wonderful time was had by all!
Thanks for the help
Post by: Dan on September 01, 2011, 12:26:32 AM
Booked regular room; used suite upgrade; then called manager to upgrade us to the splash suite (great room by the way)Awesome!
Post by: Chez on September 04, 2011, 10:03:23 AM
Post by: dwkl on September 05, 2011, 03:07:27 PM
Post by: AJK on June 25, 2012, 12:51:35 PM
Andaz 5th is sold out ( a big :( )
Andaz Wall Street only has rooms ~$500+
Hyatt 48 Lex only has room $550+
Grand Hyatt is sold out.
I guess I'm looking for Hyatt recommendations in NJ...
Thoughts?
Post by: Chaikel on June 25, 2012, 01:19:45 PM
Have a friend getting married on Tuesday night.I went to Jersey city for my wedding night
Andaz 5th is sold out ( a big :( )
Andaz Wall Street only has rooms ~$500+
Hyatt 48 Lex only has room $550+
Grand Hyatt is sold out.
I guess I'm looking for Hyatt recommendations in NJ...
Thoughts?
Post by: AJK on June 25, 2012, 01:33:16 PM
I went to Jersey city for my wedding night
If you're mentioning it here, I'm assuming you liked it?
What room did you get?
EDIT: Darn, looks like it's also sold out. What the heck is going on in NYC on Tuesday/Wednesday??
Post by: myb821 on June 25, 2012, 02:26:53 PM
If you're mentioning it here, I'm assuming you liked it?why dont u use gold passport for the rooms at 48 lex or wallstreet
What room did you get?
EDIT: Darn, looks like it's also sold out. What the heck is going on in NYC on Tuesday/Wednesday??
Post by: Dan on June 25, 2012, 02:38:52 PM
There's always the Aloft Brooklyn for 7K :D
Post by: AJK on June 25, 2012, 02:49:39 PM
why dont u use gold passport for the rooms at 48 lex or wallstreet
I'd like to 1) get a revenue stay in, and 2) apply a suite upgrade without using HGP for it.
Something definitely going on Tuesday, I looked for that earlier today.
There's always the Aloft Brooklyn for 7K :D
<shudders>
Post by: jack2act on July 10, 2012, 07:46:08 AM
Post by: Jkhein on July 10, 2012, 07:49:23 AM
Post by: steeeveknowsbest on July 10, 2012, 09:00:36 AM
I do remember such recommendations on the forums. You must do a search, and will find it.+1
welcome to the forums!
people get rather annoyed when new members ask questions that were discussed before, use the search box often!
here is a freebie:
Ajk started this thread a while back, this should answer your question sufficiently
http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=9553.0 (http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=9553.0)
Post by: jack2act on July 10, 2012, 10:41:21 AM
I am looking for NORTH Jersey recommendations.
I also get annoyed when people don't read the question and assume they are BRILLIANT.
NORTH Jersey includes Paramus / Route 8- and North.
Thank you so much
Post by: Ergel on July 10, 2012, 10:43:26 AM
Post by: dhalpern1 on July 10, 2012, 10:58:47 AM
I saw the hotels that mentioned NYC and Jersey city, Hoboken.
I am looking for NORTH Jersey recommendations.
I also get annoyed when people don't read the question and assume they are BRILLIANT.
NORTH Jersey includes Paramus / Route 8- and North.
Thank you so much
Do you mean Route 80? There isnt a route 8 near Paramus. There also arent many big chain hotels in the paramus area.
Sheraton Crossroads in Mahwah if you are SPG
Crystal Springs Resort
The NYC, Jersey City and Hoboken hotels would be better for this, specifically W Hoboken like in the other thread.
Post by: MisterHock on July 10, 2012, 12:46:51 PM
Having attitude ain't gonna win good will to encourage people to help you.
+1!
Post by: AJK on July 10, 2012, 06:10:24 PM
+1!
+1
Man, what an entitlement society we live in.
Post by: sky121 on July 10, 2012, 06:20:05 PM
+1+100
Man, what an entitlement society we live in.
Post by: steeeveknowsbest on July 10, 2012, 08:18:50 PM
I saw the hotels that mentioned NYC and Jersey city, Hoboken.no, thank you for showing your true colors so soon after joining DDF, im'h that will be the last time i will offer you any help.
I am looking for NORTH Jersey recommendations.
I also get annoyed when people don't read the question and assume they are BRILLIANT.
NORTH Jersey includes Paramus / Route 8- and North.
Thank you so much
Post by: meshugener on July 10, 2012, 10:19:17 PM
Because:
Hey, you never know.
Post by: steeeveknowsbest on July 10, 2012, 11:21:47 PM
Post by: mek on July 11, 2012, 12:06:25 AM
glen point Marriott
sheraton crossroads (mahwah)
sheraton meadowlands
wycliffe lake hilton
Post by: smurf on July 11, 2012, 01:28:23 AM
I saw the hotels that mentioned NYC and Jersey city, Hoboken.nonetheless you should've posted in that thread
I am looking for NORTH Jersey recommendations.
I also get annoyed when people don't read the question and assume they are BRILLIANT.
NORTH Jersey includes Paramus / Route 8- and North.
Thank you so much
Post by: harry on July 11, 2012, 02:17:39 AM
I saw the hotels that mentioned NYC and Jersey city, Hoboken.
I am looking for NORTH Jersey recommendations.
I also get annoyed when people don't read the question and assume they are BRILLIANT.
NORTH Jersey includes Paramus / Route 8- and North.
Thank you so much
There are always the days inn and motel 8's.
Post by: jack2act on July 11, 2012, 06:46:28 AM
Thank you for your help especially # 12
pearl river hilton
glen point Marriott
sheraton crossroads (mahwah)
sheraton meadowlands
wycliffe lake Hilton
To all the others who took offense at my curt language, Please accept my apologies.
I will attempt to curtail my POV to the subject matter and not accept the help offered with Taam.
Post by: SrulyP on September 09, 2013, 01:44:20 PM
I am also SPG GOLD and Hyatt Platinum and Hilton Gold ( I don't mind paying cash for hotel...)
At which hotel group am i the most likely to get upgraded with my status and where is the best bang for my buck?
I dont wanna use my two free nights at a hyatt as I would like to save those for a honeymoon...
Post by: sky121 on September 09, 2013, 01:48:53 PM
Or open a PC card?
Post by: Hudi on September 09, 2013, 03:58:37 PM
However it was mentioned many times that you can email ahead of time that it is your wedding night and you may get an upgrade.
Post by: SrulyP on September 09, 2013, 05:57:47 PM
You could buy a free Intercontinental night off someone.
Or open a PC card?
I wish i could open up another card! i just did a 4bm!
Post by: doublejay on October 07, 2013, 02:21:35 PM
However it was mentioned many times that you can email ahead of time that it is your wedding night and you may get an upgrade.
Wanna try this... Wedding is in a little over a month. I would assume it's too early for them to promise an upgrade because they don't yet know if they will have paid booking. Correct?
Should I email now?
I made an SPG reservation for a basic room in 3 SPG properties for wedding night (W hoboken, Tarrytown, and Parsippany). Gonna see which will offer an upgrade.
Post by: AnonymousUser on November 01, 2013, 12:30:19 AM
Post by: sky121 on November 01, 2013, 12:40:29 AM
A friend called me to ask if I had any ideas for a hotel to go to in Baltimore the night of his chasuna. Does anyone have any suggestions? He's not looking for anything overly fancy, he's looking to spend under $200.
Would he drive to Washington? Is that too far? If not there are the hotels by the Harbor or a few others I have to look up.
Post by: AnonymousUser on November 01, 2013, 12:49:55 AM
Would he drive to Washington? Is that too far? If not there are the hotels by the Harbor or a few others I have to look up.Washington is too far. I suggested the DoubleTree/Hilton at Reisterstown Rd and the Beltway, but I'm wondering if there's anything nicer that won't cost a fortune and isn't too far.
Post by: sky121 on November 01, 2013, 12:57:31 AM
Washington is too far. I suggested the DoubleTree/Hilton at Reisterstown Rd and the Beltway, but I'm wondering if there's anything nicer that won't cost a fortune and isn't too far.
Hyatt by the Harbor. Category 4 can be bought for $150.
Post by: Ergel on November 01, 2013, 01:00:44 AM
Hyatt by the Harbor. Category 4 can be bought for $150.Second guest on a wedding night ::)
Post by: Dan on November 01, 2013, 01:02:05 AM
Second guest on a wedding night ::)Have anyone checkin earlier in the day.
Just don't lose the keys!
Post by: sky121 on November 01, 2013, 01:02:19 AM
Second guest on a wedding night ::)
I doubt they'd turn down a groom and his bride.
:)
OR there is the Sheraton that can be had with points as well. Though depending on the date it may be cheaper with cash.
Post by: sky121 on November 01, 2013, 01:03:29 AM
Post by: Ergel on November 01, 2013, 01:04:01 AM
Have anyone checkin earlier in the day.Eh, better off having it registered under his own name and getting upgraded
Just don't lose the keys!
Post by: PlatinumGuy on November 01, 2013, 08:15:38 AM
EDIT: Darn, looks like it's also sold out. What the heck is going on in NYC on Tuesday/Wednesday??NYC often sells out during the week.
W Hoboken should be pretty nice.
Post by: Ergel on November 01, 2013, 08:49:17 AM
NYC often sells out during the week.AJK got married over a year ago
W Hoboken should be pretty nice.
Post by: PlatinumGuy on November 01, 2013, 08:51:06 AM
AJK got married over a year agoWhoops.
W Hoboken is still relevant to this years conversation.
Post by: AnonymousUser on November 01, 2013, 09:41:45 AM
Second guest on a wedding night ::)I don't get it :(
What date is the wedding?Thursday night, Nov. 14.
Post by: smbalt on November 01, 2013, 01:16:34 PM
Hotels downtown Baltimore (Hyatt, Sheraton, Marriott Waterfront), Hunt Valley, MD (Embassy Suites, Marriott -- changed names, not sure new name) or consider Columbia, MD.
Post by: AnonymousUser on November 03, 2013, 07:46:08 AM
There has to be something nicer than the Hilton by the Beltway.Thanks for the suggestions, everyone. He decided to go with the Embassy Suites. Now, what's the best mehalch to try to get upgraded to a suite? He doesn't have elite status or anything like that. As per upthread, call the GM several days before the chasuna? TIA.
Hotels downtown Baltimore (Hyatt, Sheraton, Marriott Waterfront), Hunt Valley, MD (Embassy Suites, Marriott -- changed names, not sure new name) or consider Columbia, MD.
Post by: AJK on November 03, 2013, 08:20:08 AM
Post by: AnonymousUser on November 03, 2013, 03:09:27 PM
Embassy suites are just that. All suites.I'm no expert, but they look like regular hotel rooms to me. Anyway, they do have fancier rooms, so what's the best way to get upgraded to those?
Post by: meshugener on November 03, 2013, 03:19:38 PM
Embassy suites are just that. All suites.There are many types of suites.
Presidential/Executive suites are not standard suites.
Post by: SPGGUY on November 04, 2013, 11:21:13 PM
I told them I have a triple A discount (but I don't really)
I got it for 296 before tax.
Couple questions.
I only have 10800 spg points, the room is 14500. I was fr'ed by amex and failed and shut down my cards, so no legroom there.
Is there any way to get a AAA # and are they going to ask for it, or any other idea to get a nicer/better hotel or room for a better rate. Are there any jacuzzis in any hotel in jersey for under $500 (but not in a motel). is there a way to get a cot or second bed free?
Also, I have 16000 Chase ur.
I would really appreciate the help as I've done a lot of research and this is the best I could come up with and I'm involved in a lot of things for the wedding right now.
Thank you so much.
Post by: DovtheBear on November 04, 2013, 11:30:29 PM
I have nothing to say on the matter, but would suggest deleting this thread and posting here (http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=9553.90).
Mazal Tov and Hatzlachah Rabah.
Post by: Ephcc90 on November 04, 2013, 11:57:24 PM
Welcome to the forums!Just because he's a chosson:) ur best bet will prob be to buy a Hyatt night off someone(about $200) to use in the nicest Hyatt in your area and you can prob get an upgrade by asking for one.
I have nothing to say on the matter, but would suggest deleting this thread and posting here (http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=9553.90).
Mazal Tov and Hatzlachah Rabah.
Post by: Ergel on November 05, 2013, 01:21:24 AM
Just because he's a chosson:) ur best bet will prob be to buy a Hyatt night off someone(about $200) to use in the nicest Hyatt in your area and you can prob get an upgrade by asking for one.
Second guest on a wedding night ::)
Have anyone checkin earlier in the day.
Just don't lose the keys!
Eh, better off having it registered under his own name and getting upgraded
Post by: Moishebatchy on November 05, 2013, 07:07:06 AM
Post by: bubbles on November 05, 2013, 07:37:49 AM
Post by: Moishebatchy on November 05, 2013, 07:57:10 AM
Looks like the original jacuzzi discussion was erased from the beginning of this thread lol
Pretty sure that happened a while ago.
Post by: mlomni on November 05, 2013, 10:30:36 AM
Hi . I'm getting married next week and booked a newport king at the jersey city westin.
I told them I have a triple A discount (but I don't really)
I got it for 296 before tax.
Couple questions.
I only have 10800 spg points, the room is 14500. I was fr'ed by amex and failed and shut down my cards, so no legroom there.
Is there any way to get a AAA # and are they going to ask for it, or any other idea to get a nicer/better hotel or room for a better rate. Are there any jacuzzis in any hotel in jersey for under $500 (but not in a motel). is there a way to get a cot or second bed free?
Also, I have 16000 Chase ur.
I would really appreciate the help as I've done a lot of research and this is the best I could come up with and I'm involved in a lot of things for the wedding right now.
Thank you so much.
I did that once in a hotel and they did ask to see your AAA card in order to get the AAA discount.
Post by: E-MAN on November 05, 2013, 10:48:19 AM
Based on what I've read I don't think the Waldorf is worth the price.
Does anyone have any other suggestions for someone paying for a night at a hotel in NYC that will get him a nice room at a reasonable rate?
Thanks
Post by: Ergel on November 05, 2013, 10:52:34 AM
I have a friend getting married in a few weeks and he was going to book a night in the Waldorf Astoria in Midtown.the Ritz battery park is beautiful. Expensive though
Based on what I've read I don't think the Waldorf is worth the price.
Does anyone have any other suggestions for someone paying for a night at a hotel in NYC that will get him a nice room at a reasonable rate?
Thanks
No access to 22k Hyatt points?
Post by: DrDanny on November 05, 2013, 10:54:37 AM
Would you rather a nice suite with a king size bed and spend the night on the couch or a regular room with two double or queen size bed.
I've been dealing with this as I haven't found any nice Hyatt hotels in NYC that have two beds in a suite.
Post by: E-MAN on November 05, 2013, 10:57:27 AM
the Ritz battery park is beautiful. Expensive thoughNo, I don't think he has any points.
No access to 22k Hyatt points?
Andaz 5th for 22k?
Post by: Dan on November 05, 2013, 10:58:55 AM
Here's a question I've been dealing with when I booked my last couple of chassanim.Gonna need a poll for that one, how many needed the couch/extra bed on their first night :P
Would you rather a nice suite with a king size bed and spend the night on the couch or a regular room with two double or queen size bed.
I've been dealing with this as I haven't found any nice Hyatt hotels in NYC that have two beds in a suite.
Post by: myb821 on November 05, 2013, 11:02:11 AM
Gonna need a poll for that one, how many needed the couch/extra bed on their first night :Plets not go there lol ;D
Post by: AJK on November 05, 2013, 11:20:42 AM
Gonna need a poll for that one, how many needed the couch/extra bed on their first night :P
Gotta say, I don't think I expected a post like this from you...
Post by: myb821 on November 05, 2013, 11:26:34 AM
Gotta say, I don't think I expected a post like this from you...lol
Post by: @Yehuda on November 05, 2013, 11:34:33 AM
No, I don't think he has any points.
Andaz 5th for 22k?
Again this thread exists here -- http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=9553.105
Mods want to lock this thread?
ETA: Comment was posted in the other thread that got merged with this one. Please don't lock THIS thread! :-)
Post by: skyguy918 on November 05, 2013, 12:19:28 PM
Gonna need a poll for that one, how many needed the couch/extra bed on their first night :PProbably true, but you should obviously still arrange for it just in case. You can argue though that one king + couch/rollaway is a better idea for that reason though.
Post by: Dan on November 05, 2013, 12:30:23 PM
Gotta say, I don't think I expected a post like this from you...Lol. Heard it from a big rov so...
Probably true, but you should obviously still arrange for it just in case. You can argue though that one king + couch/rollaway is a better idea for that reason though.Yup.
Post by: @Yehuda on November 05, 2013, 12:45:34 PM
Getting married on a Sunday in January in Lakewood, iy"h (!) and have been weighing the pros and cons of where to stay the night/how to get there. Can I hear your thoughts? Should I find somewhere near Lakewood so I don't need to travel far (like NYC), or are all the really nice places going to be as far as Jersey City/NYC so I should just look there? I'd like a jacuzzi in the room.
2nd Q on this topic is the idea of taking a limo or driving yourself. I've heard that if you take a limo, you don't have a way to get home in the morning, so I could either drive my car to the hotel on day of the wedding, which I'm SURE I'll plenty of time to do that day, or otherwise you need to take a cab home. Or I can just drive my car to the wedding and then drive to the hotel after the wedding.
Thoughts?
Post by: Dan on November 05, 2013, 12:49:47 PM
I'd like a jacuzzi in the room.I should really restore those posts for a day ;)
Post by: myb821 on November 05, 2013, 12:50:40 PM
Post by: Super Speed on November 05, 2013, 12:50:54 PM
So... now that I got my Tallis, etc. it's time to hit up this thread, as promised!Google 'The Bungalows' its in Deal 2 friends of mine went. Its supposed to be very nice and different they have about 24 rooms. I'm not sure though what the situation is since Sandy. I highly doubt you're going to use the Jacuzzi. Take a Limo and have a friend drive your car the day before to the hotel.
Getting married on a Sunday in January in Lakewood, iy"h (!) and have been weighing the pros and cons of where to stay the night/how to get there. Can I hear your thoughts? Should I find somewhere near Lakewood so I don't need to travel far (like NYC), or are all the really nice places going to be as far as Jersey City/NYC so I should just look there? I'd like a jacuzzi in the room.
2nd Q on this topic is the idea of taking a limo or driving yourself. I've heard that if you take a limo, you don't have a way to get home in the morning, so I could either drive my car to the hotel on day of the wedding, which I'm SURE I'll plenty of time to do that day, or otherwise you need to take a cab home. Or I can just drive my car to the wedding and then drive to the hotel after the wedding.
Thoughts?
Post by: Super Speed on November 05, 2013, 12:54:20 PM
Probably true, but you should obviously still arrange for it just in case. You can argue though that one king + couch/rollaway is a better idea for that reason though.I heard from multiple people who teach Chassanim that using the rollaway bed is not a good idea as your lowering yourself. I'm not saying I understand that as I don't but this is what I've heard.
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 05, 2013, 01:02:08 PM
I heard from multiple people who teach Chassanim that using the rollaway bed is not a good idea as your lowering yourself. I'm not saying I understand that as I don't but this is what I've heard.I've heard that people say that and I dont understand it either, but if it really bothers you you can make HER sleep on the rollaway... :P
Post by: @Yehuda on November 05, 2013, 01:02:44 PM
Google 'The Bungalows' its in Deal 2 friends of mine went. Its supposed to be very nice and different they have about 24 rooms. I'm not sure though what the situation is since Sandy. I highly doubt you're going to use the Jacuzzi. Take a Limo and have a friend drive your car the day before to the hotel.
Not a bad idea with the driving, but I would need 2 friends to drive it there (so one could drive the other to the wedding afterwards). Bungalows looks cool from the site, but I left this part out, I want to go with points if I can. I have:
2 free nights from the Hyatt cc.
50K UR
50K SPG (just have to finish hitting the thresholds)
Post by: Super Speed on November 05, 2013, 01:05:25 PM
I've heard that people say that and I dont understand it either, but if it really bothers you you can make HER sleep on the rollaway... :PThat was a definite no no. They were only discussing the option of the guy sleeping on it and even on that they said no.
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 05, 2013, 01:07:13 PM
That was a definite no no. They were only discussing the option of the guy sleeping on it and even on that they said no.Hence the :P
I was kidding in a major way....
Post by: Super Speed on November 05, 2013, 01:07:49 PM
Hence the :PDidn't see that...
I was kidding in a major way....
Post by: Moishebatchy on November 05, 2013, 01:18:47 PM
Gonna need a poll for that one, how many needed the couch/extra bed on their first night :P
I doubt anyone's gonna answer that one (not truthfully, anyway), but two data points:
1) I remember my chassan teacher telling me that in his experience, a whopping 98% of chassanim don't end up needing it. :o
2) Based on reports and anecdotes I've been hearing, more and more young couples actually avoid "needing it" on purpose (v'hamayvin yavin). :o :o :o
(Mods, feel free to delete this if you think it's any more inappropriate than Dan's post. :P)
Post by: Moishebatchy on November 05, 2013, 01:23:14 PM
I heard from multiple people who teach Chassanim that using the rollaway bed is not a good idea as your lowering yourself. I'm not saying I understand that as I don't but this is what I've heard.
I've heard that people say that and I dont understand it either
Next time you guys come to a DO, I'll be happy to explain it to you. I'm not a psychologist (not yet, anyway...), but I've seen and heard enough in my time that I have the theory behind that statement pretty much worked out.
Post by: @Yehuda on November 05, 2013, 01:24:04 PM
Post by: AJK on November 05, 2013, 01:30:20 PM
I should really restore those posts for a day ;)
Oiy.
Post by: SuperFlyer on November 05, 2013, 01:41:19 PM
I just say: Enjoy the 7 brochos.
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 05, 2013, 01:41:35 PM
I doubt anyone's gonna answer that one (not truthfully, anyway), but two data points:That number sounds a bit large but it's def a big majority...
1) I remember my chassan teacher telling me that in his experience, a whopping 98% of chassanim don't end up needing it. :o
Post by: Moishebatchy on November 05, 2013, 01:57:08 PM
I know they might want you to rush things.
I just say: Enjoy the 7 brochos.
Like I said...
2) Based on reports and anecdotes I've been hearing, more and more young couples actually avoid "needing it" on purpose (v'hamayvin yavin). :o :o :o
Post by: Moishebatchy on November 05, 2013, 01:58:29 PM
That number sounds a bit large but it's def a big majority...
It sure does. But I asked him if it was an exaggeration, and he assured me it was quite accurate. His exact words were "maybe 2 out of every 100 chassanim".
Post by: churnbabychurn on November 05, 2013, 02:20:22 PM
It sure does. But I asked him if it was an exaggeration, and he assured me it was quite accurate. His exact words were "maybe 2 out of every 100 chassanim".they say that for a reason...
Ask today
Post by: SamKey on November 05, 2013, 02:34:18 PM
Post by: Solomon on November 05, 2013, 03:30:42 PM
(Mods, feel free to delete this if you think it's any more inappropriate than Dan's post. :P);D
Post by: DrDanny on November 05, 2013, 05:50:39 PM
Okay leaving the halachic and awkward issues aside... where should I go? lolhttp://www.innonmainmanasquan.com
Is what I recommend.
Post by: DrDanny on November 05, 2013, 05:55:45 PM
I doubt anyone's gonna answer that one (not truthfully, anyway), but two data points:I'm still a bochur so I don't know all that much about this but sometimes I book chassanim for two nights the night of their wedding and the next so they it seems would definitely want two beds it seems.
1) I remember my chassan teacher telling me that in his experience, a whopping 98% of chassanim don't end up needing it. :o
2) Based on reports and anecdotes I've been hearing, more and more young couples actually avoid "needing it" on purpose (v'hamayvin yavin). :o :o :o
(Mods, feel free to delete this if you think it's any more inappropriate than Dan's post. :P)
Post by: churnbabychurn on November 05, 2013, 06:23:05 PM
Leave the fancy rooms for later.
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 05, 2013, 06:29:50 PM
IMHO the best thing for WN is a Hilton homewood suites, you get a nice little apartment with a kitchen etc.+1
Leave the fancy rooms for later.
My not-so-humble opinion agrees, you'll enjoy the fancy rooms much more on the honeymoon...
Post by: @Yehuda on November 05, 2013, 07:26:39 PM
+1
My not-so-humble opinion agrees, you'll enjoy the fancy rooms much more on the honeymoon...
Why is there a limit on how many fancy nights one can enjoy?
Post by: @Yehuda on November 05, 2013, 07:29:42 PM
http://www.innonmainmanasquan.com
Is what I recommend.
Actually looks really nice. Associated with any chains so I can pay with points?
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 05, 2013, 07:31:33 PM
Why is there a limit on how many fancy nights one can enjoy?Most people posting here sound limited on points etc.
Post by: @Yehuda on November 05, 2013, 07:38:47 PM
Most people posting here sound limited on points etc.
Spend 'em on the first night and by the time the honeymoon comes around, there's no reason why there can't be new points in your accounts :)
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 05, 2013, 07:44:34 PM
Spend 'em on the first night and by the time the honeymoon comes around, there's no reason why there can't be new points in your accounts :)Now that there's another SS# involved...
Post by: @Yehuda on November 05, 2013, 08:40:19 PM
Now that there's another SS# involved...
;)
Post by: DrDanny on November 06, 2013, 03:37:20 AM
Actually looks really nice. Associated with any chains so I can pay with points?No, but it's really not that expensive I think the rooms go from $150 - 199
Post by: @Yehuda on November 06, 2013, 10:12:30 AM
No, but it's really not that expensive I think the rooms go from $150 - 199
Right, that's what I see.
So the general consensus is that it's a bad idea to limo from Lakewood to NYC? Just find somewhere near Lakewood?
Post by: Ergel on November 06, 2013, 10:35:47 AM
Right, that's what I see.Definitely. Don't want to be sitting two hours in a car
So the general consensus is that it's a bad idea to limo from Lakewood to NYC? Just find somewhere near Lakewood?
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 06, 2013, 10:51:27 AM
Definitely. Don't want to be sitting two hours in a carKeep in mind this is after a long day (and night) for both of you...
Post by: Ephcc90 on November 06, 2013, 11:30:07 AM
Post by: whacked1 on November 06, 2013, 12:17:35 PM
Right, that's what I see.
So the general consensus is that it's a bad idea to limo from Lakewood to NYC?
Definitely. Don't want to be sitting two hours in a carLol reminds me of my friend. He was taking a limo to the city and they got a flat, the guy claimed it would only take twenty minutes to be fixed. The next thing my friend knew, he woke up in the limo 4AM, he and his wife konked out and they were still waiting for the flat to be fixed!!! (he ended up getting out and taking a cab.)
Post by: @Yehuda on November 06, 2013, 01:32:22 PM
Post by: DrDanny on November 06, 2013, 03:07:13 PM
Ok got it. Let's stay near Lakewood. Inn on Main looks nice, thanks DrDanny (and that's a good price)! Any other ideas for somewhere I could use my SPG or UR to stay at?If you decide to go with them, you should know they have a secret 3rd floor which they will probably give you if you tell them it's your wedding night.
Post by: SamKey on November 06, 2013, 03:17:11 PM
Lol reminds me of my friend. He was taking a limo to the city and they got a flat, the guy claimed it would only take twenty minutes to be fixed. The next thing my friend knew, he woke up in the limo 4AM, he and his wife konked out and they were still waiting for the flat to be fixed!!! (he ended up getting out and taking a cab.)OMG
Post by: whacked1 on November 06, 2013, 03:19:42 PM
OMGYa it was insane, mind you we paid $700 for that limo. (I'm not sure if the company gave him back the money because of the incident)
Post by: sky121 on November 06, 2013, 03:55:55 PM
$700 for the limo? I think I'd be happier driving myself.
Post by: whacked1 on November 06, 2013, 03:58:10 PM
Wow what a crazy funny story. Fun things to tell the grandkids. :)LOL, it was really annoying raising the money for that limo!!!
$700 for the limo? I think I'd be happier driving myself.
Post by: Ergel on November 06, 2013, 03:58:58 PM
LOL, it was really annoying raising the money for that limo!!!Raising money for a limo ride? Am I missing something?
Post by: whacked1 on November 06, 2013, 04:01:00 PM
Raising money for a limo ride? Am I missing something?In a lot of circles the chosson's friends pay for the limo. Its like the wedding present that they give and it usually isnt hard to raise, most of the time about $10 a guy and its fully covered with extra carry change to start the guy off with. But when the chosson gets greedy...
Post by: sky121 on November 06, 2013, 04:13:17 PM
But when the chosson gets greedy...
....his limo breaks down? :)
Post by: whacked1 on November 06, 2013, 04:14:54 PM
....his limo breaks down? :);D I didnt say it! (I hope he doesnt go on ddf, or read this thread!!!)
Post by: ayman on November 06, 2013, 07:09:07 PM
Post by: sammy n on November 06, 2013, 07:35:09 PM
LOL, it was really annoying raising the money for that limo!!!I think it's a waste of money, it's such a short time and not worth it
Post by: whacked1 on November 06, 2013, 07:36:20 PM
I think it's a waste of money, it's such a short time and not worth itIn general of davka that amount of money?
Post by: Armadillo on November 07, 2013, 02:41:29 PM
I heard from multiple people who teach Chassanim that using the rollaway bed is not a good idea as your lowering yourself. I'm not saying I understand that as I don't but this is what I've heard.I also heard people say to step on her foot under the chuppa "והוא ימשול בך" :o
I don't teach chassanim either 'segula'
(Aside for extreme inappropiateness in sending her to the cot, there is quite possibly a halachic problem as well, ודי לחכימא or you can pm me)
Post by: Armadillo on November 07, 2013, 02:45:03 PM
It sure does. But I asked him if it was an exaggeration, and he assured me it was quite accurate. His exact words were "maybe 2 out of every 100 chassanim".
Maybe his 'experience' reflects on theirs... :P
Post by: alpicone on November 07, 2013, 02:45:38 PM
I think it's a waste of money, it's such a short time and not worth it
My limo ride from the wedding hall in BP to the city was 15 minutes... Minimum for the limo is 3 hours. :'(
Post by: Armadillo on November 07, 2013, 02:48:24 PM
they say that for a reason...Maskim, but it's still pretty high. Most cases they'd do a lot better if they listened to the advice they were given.
Ask today
Post by: Armadillo on November 07, 2013, 03:05:11 PM
I know they might want you to rush things.Spoken like a true SuperFlyer.
I just say: Enjoy the 7 brochos.
Let's just say that al pi Chazal it's pretty clear that first night is ideal (barring extenuating circumstances). If you want to hear my shiur on the subject, you're going to have to ask privately (or better yet, pay for the shmooze...)
Post by: Super Speed on November 07, 2013, 03:19:25 PM
I also heard people say to step on her foot under the chuppa "והוא ימשול בך" :oSefardim generally keep this practice. I personally couldn't get to my wife's foot! (She didn't pull it away tho!)
I don't teach chassanim either 'segula'
(Aside for extreme inappropiateness in sending her to the cot, there is quite possibly a halachic problem as well, ודי לחכימא or you can pm me)
Post by: Ergel on November 07, 2013, 03:30:15 PM
Spoken like a true SuperFlyer.Either post what you're saying or don't post at all. Your holier than thou hints are not helpful
Let's just say that al pi Chazal it's pretty clear that first night is ideal (barring extenuating circumstances). If you want to hear my shiur on the subject, you're going to have to ask privately (or better yet, pay for the shmooze...)
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 07, 2013, 03:31:56 PM
Sefardim generally keep this practice. I personally couldn't get to my wife's foot! (She didn't pull it away tho!)How would anyone find the foot under a massive gown without making a scene? ???
Post by: meshugener on November 07, 2013, 03:52:06 PM
How would anyone find the foot under a massive gown without making a scene? ???They're asking the kallah to push out her foot ;D
Post by: good sam on November 07, 2013, 03:55:45 PM
Post by: Achas Veachas on November 07, 2013, 04:47:08 PM
Did not know we had a chosson teacher on hand. Can we make separate thread?A Yungerleit board? ;)
Post by: aygart on November 07, 2013, 04:53:10 PM
Maybe his 'experience' reflects on theirs... :PI heard 90% from a VERY reliable source bishem R Yaakov Kamenetzky
Post by: Super Speed on November 07, 2013, 06:11:45 PM
How would anyone find the foot under a massive gown without making a scene? ???They usually know about it to put their foot out.
Post by: stevendre on November 08, 2013, 01:15:58 AM
Post by: Armadillo on November 08, 2013, 09:46:30 AM
Either post what you're saying or don't post at all. Your holier than thou hints are not helpfulWhy holier than thou? I just happen to have learned the sugyos in depth and trained under some of the bekiim. I don't think this is the forum for all details, but I want people to know what there is to know
Post by: churnbabychurn on November 08, 2013, 09:49:15 AM
So what hotels do people recommend for wedding night near Lakewood. The only one i can think of is ocean placeread upthread!
Post by: @Yehuda on December 08, 2013, 06:00:56 PM
There are some hotels in Tom's River, which acc to Google is right next to Lakewood. Does anyone know anything about them? The "nicest" I found so far is a Ramada that has a king room with a Jacuzzi for $113. Is that going to be a joke because it's Ramada? Also, what points work with Ramada?
Post by: Dan on December 08, 2013, 06:02:58 PM
Save it for the honeymoon.
Post by: @Yehuda on December 08, 2013, 06:05:48 PM
Forget about Jacuzzis on your wedding night.
Save it for the honeymoon.
I understand that (as others mentioned it before), just happens to be the Ramada's king room has one. Can Ramada be booked with UR/Starpoints? Do I want to avoid Ramada on a wedding night? lol
Post by: Dan on December 08, 2013, 06:08:07 PM
Post by: @Yehuda on December 08, 2013, 06:11:22 PM
I wouldn't go into a Ramada jacuzzi on any night ;P+1
Now I know to avoid Ramada. Once I'm saving the nice places for the honeymoon, should I just pick any of the "inns & suites" in Tom's River so I pay with points? Other options suggested (The Bungalow Hotel, Inn on Main) were 1/2 drives and would cost $200.
Post by: efflpetzel on December 08, 2013, 07:59:34 PM
I should really restore those posts for a day ;)please do, please!!
Post by: Frostboot on December 08, 2013, 08:42:20 PM
I wouldn't go into a Ramada jacuzzi on any night ;P
Some say (joke) that it all goes downhill after the wedding night. Where will that leave you if your pinnacle is a Ramada Jacuzzi ?!?!
Post by: @Yehuda on December 08, 2013, 10:12:30 PM
Some say (joke) that it all goes downhill after the wedding night. Where will that leave you if your pinnacle is a Ramada Jacuzzi ?!?!
I hear you. :) So where do I want to start near Lakewood where I can also use points?
Post by: Frostboot on December 08, 2013, 10:38:08 PM
I hear you. :) So where do I want to start near Lakewood where I can also use points?
From a quick look on Kayak, it doesn't seem like there are many "points" options or "upscale popular brands" (nothing really in SPG, Hyatt, Hilton dept.) Appreciating right now the fact that I got married in NYC area :) What do people in Lkwd do?!?!
On Kayak there seems to be some "boutique" hotels within driving distance. If you are in Lkwd area I would say take a day and check them out. They seem to be priced pretty reasonably and with these type of hotels it is much easier to develop a relationship with management and get the exact experience you are looking for. While these may not have the "commercial" "big-time" setting a Ritz-Carlton may have, they could provide for a really great experience. You could end up really getting the "royal treatment" at one of these places for a lot cheaper than a 5-star NYC hotel.
For example check this place out: http://www.expedia.com/Freehold-Hotels-American-Hotel.h3827060.Hotel-Information?chkin=01%2F22%2F2014&chkout=01%2F23%2F2014&rm1=a2&hwrqCacheKey=2cf89add-7a50-470f-a143-75b9663aeebaHWRQ1386560037252&c=1b972209-0b5d-4560-a24e-558d8e8f1b32&
I even see a nice jacuzzi in one of the pics.
Not that expensive, close to Lkwd and may (I would check it out before) be really "quaint and nice"
IMHO if there is ever a time to "splurge" (that term differs for every individual) it is your wedding night. YOLO. (iy"h)
Post by: @Yehuda on December 08, 2013, 11:16:52 PM
From a quick look on Kayak, it doesn't seem like there are many "points" options or "upscale popular brands" (nothing really in SPG, Hyatt, Hilton dept.) Appreciating right now the fact that I got married in NYC area :) What do people in Lkwd do?!?!
On Kayak there seems to be some "boutique" hotels within driving distance. If you are in Lkwd area I would say take a day and check them out. They seem to be priced pretty reasonably and with these type of hotels it is much easier to develop a relationship with management and get the exact experience you are looking for. While these may not have the "commercial" "big-time" setting a Ritz-Carlton may have, they could provide for a really great experience. You could end up really getting the "royal treatment" at one of these places for a lot cheaper than a 5-star NYC hotel.
For example check this place out: http://www.expedia.com/Freehold-Hotels-American-Hotel.h3827060.Hotel-Information?chkin=01%2F22%2F2014&chkout=01%2F23%2F2014&rm1=a2&hwrqCacheKey=2cf89add-7a50-470f-a143-75b9663aeebaHWRQ1386560037252&c=1b972209-0b5d-4560-a24e-558d8e8f1b32&
I even see a nice jacuzzi in one of the pics.
Not that expensive, close to Lkwd and may (I would check it out before) be really "quaint and nice"
IMHO if there is ever a time to "splurge" (that term differs for every individual) it is your wedding night. YOLO. (iy"h)
Wow! Thanks for looking into it! Yeah, from what I saw there are no big chains. Others have suggested other, similar boutique places within 1/2 drive. I guess it's just a matter of picking one. Thanks again!
Post by: Armadillo on December 09, 2013, 05:05:28 AM
Some say (joke) that it all goes downhill after the wedding night.Not a very good joke. With proper hadracha it keeps getting better, much better (though different) than anything served up on the silver screen
Post by: Frostboot on December 09, 2013, 02:22:51 PM
Not a very good joke.
Like most things in life if you take it too seriously you are in trouble. If you could joke about you are in a good place….At least that works for me...But as they say "different strokes for different folks…"
Post by: Super Speed on December 09, 2013, 06:06:10 PM
Like most things in life if you take it too seriously you are in trouble. If you could joke about you are in a good place….At least that works for me...But as they say "different strokes for different folks…"+1
Post by: semper fi on December 10, 2013, 12:37:51 PM
Post by: mek on December 12, 2013, 01:29:51 AM
In Asbury park about 1/2 hr from lakewood
Post by: Super Speed on December 12, 2013, 10:04:47 AM
http://www.berkeleyhotelnj.com/Not such a nice hotel IME.
In Asbury park about 1/2 hr from lakewood
Post by: mek on December 12, 2013, 10:44:33 PM
Not such a nice hotel IME.
oh. never been there but pictures looked decent
Post by: @Yehuda on December 17, 2013, 11:07:19 AM
I just booked the American Hotel in Freehold, which is ~25 min from Lakewood. Thanks Frostboot for the suggestion and the idea to browse Expedia.
Via Expedia, I booked a room with king bed for $140 incl. tax/fees (much cheaper than when I called the hotel directly for pricing). I saw some reviews that mentioned there's a lounge/restaurant that gets loud at times b/c of concerts that go past midnight, but that if the room is on the 3rd floor, you don't hear anything. I called the hotel, and they said the room's already on the 3rd floor, and there are no concerts on Sunday nights anyway so it's usually quiet on Sundays. I then told them it's my wedding night and... they're going to try to upgrade us to a suite if it's available and give us late checkout, 1PM!!!
Thanks so much for all your advice and help guys, you rock!!
Also, just booked a limo for $252 incl. tax/tip. Iy"h this night only happens once in your life, so for $392 why not make it awesome, right!? :)
Post by: AJK on December 17, 2013, 11:26:53 AM
Hey, it's only once (one hopes).
Post by: Frostboot on December 17, 2013, 11:34:57 AM
UPDATE:
I just booked the American Hotel in Freehold, which is ~25 min from Lakewood. Thanks Frostboot for the suggestion and the idea to browse Expedia.
Via Expedia, I booked a room with king bed for $140 incl. tax/fees (much cheaper than when I called the hotel directly for pricing). I saw some reviews that mentioned there's a lounge/restaurant that gets loud at times b/c of concerts that go past midnight, but that if the room is on the 3rd floor, you don't hear anything. I called the hotel, and they said the room's already on the 3rd floor, and there are no concerts on Sunday nights anyway so it's usually quiet on Sundays. I then told them it's my wedding night and... they're going to try to upgrade us to a suite if it's available and give us late checkout, 1PM!!!
Thanks so much for all your advice and help guys, you rock!!
Also, just booked a limo for $252 incl. tax/tip. Iy"h this night only happens once in your life, so for $392 why not make it awesome, right!? :)
Mazel Tov! :)
Post by: Frostboot on December 17, 2013, 11:37:29 AM
Well, if that the approach, why not just get a chopper instead of a limo? :P
Hey, it's only once (one hopes).
If I didn't have a sense of humor I would say...
Not a very good joke. With proper hadracha it keeps getting better, much better (though different) than anything served up on the silver screen;)
Post by: AJK on December 17, 2013, 11:47:43 AM
Post by: @Yehuda on December 17, 2013, 03:19:53 PM
Well, if that the approach, why not just get a chopper instead of a limo? :P
Hey, it's only once (one hopes).
The limo is driving to the chopper, which is then flying us to JFK where we're catching a flight to EWR and then taking a cab to Freehold.
Post by: hertzinstl on December 17, 2013, 03:44:23 PM
The limo is driving to the chopper, which is then flying us to JFK where we're catching a flight to EWR and then taking a cab to Freehold.A cab from ewr?! ??? :P
Post by: AJK on December 17, 2013, 03:45:57 PM
The limo is driving to the chopper, which is then flying us to JFK where we're catching a flight to EWR and then taking a cab to Freehold.I would expect no less. After all, it's a once in a lifetime type'a thing!
Post by: Ergel on December 17, 2013, 03:47:30 PM
I would expect no less. After all, it's a once in a lifetime type'a thing!
(one hopes).
Post by: whacked1 on December 17, 2013, 04:02:03 PM
Post by: AJK on December 17, 2013, 04:17:50 PM
MT!
Post by: Armadillo on December 18, 2013, 11:08:47 PM
If I didn't have a sense of humor I would say...I just reread the last couple pages and realized we are understanding things differently. My comment was very specific for what I understood you to be joking about. I see you probably meant otherwise. My guess is you're not married. My apologies.
;)
Now joke away :D
Post by: Frostboot on December 19, 2013, 01:06:12 AM
I just reread the last couple pages and realized we are understanding things differently. My comment was very specific for what I understood you to be joking about. I see you probably meant otherwise. My guess is you're not married. My apologies.
Now joke away :D
I probably should refrain but here goes. I will do this methodically so we don't speak past each other.
First off, I am very happily married and wouldn't trade my married life for my single years any day of the week. (Well maybe one day a week - there I go again making bad jokes about marriage!!).
Premise 1
While I am very happily married and in a loving committed relationship I am not going to kid myself and say that there isn't every once in a while a moment when I look back with nostalgia at my single days ("the freedom to do what I want when I want etc."). Some (naive, unrealistic ) people would be horrified by such a thought, as if marriage is supposed to be the answer to all the world's problems and eternal sunshine and bliss. The obvious fact is that marriage makes your life more complicated (duh, you are adding a whole other person to your person + hopefully kids and more responsibilities). The same way there are good days and bad days before you are married there will be good days and bad days after you are married. I agree with you that married life is different and better than single life. Married life is a richer deeper more meaningful life and therefore there is the opportunity for it to be "better", but the flip side to that is that it also has the opportunity to be more "difficult" at times (More difficulty=more enjoyment).
Premise 2
How to cope or deal with the difficult times (in life/in marriage/in everything)? I personally find that staying positive, not taking things too seriously, and being able to laugh about things (especially w/ regard to married life) helps me keep things in perspective and live a positive balanced life. While I definitely believe in different strokes for different folks I sometimes wonder how people could be soooooo serious and not be depressed (or maybe they are). I think everyone would agree we should all aim for balance.
Now that brings me back to my JOKE (I hope you didn't think I was serious) that "after the wedding it all goes downhill" in connection with trying to encourage someone to look at his wedding night as a really special night and to "spring" a couple extra bucks to make it a night to remember forever. It stinks to have to explain a joke but I guess I was referring to the fact that life gets more complex and difficult (and also so much better) with marriage. Every once in a while it is nice to look back to the beginning (your wedding night) when things were so simple and not complex and that one may want that reflection to be something more than a Ramada Jacuzzi (Dan had a funny reaction to that). Granted the joke was not SNL worthy, but I thought it was a bit funny.
While I am sure I misunderstood your reaction…it came across as wayyyy tooooo serious…..at least for me and it warranted a "chillax"!!. I apologize if my subsequent comment offended you as I should've kept it to myself and stuck to my "different strokes for different folks" idea. If being super serious works for you..then by all means...
Anyways, enough seriousness for me :D I am starting to get depressed and I probably used up my posting limit for the year on this post, but just wanted to clarify. I am also thinking that this may be the wrong thread to discuss all this ;D
Post by: meshugener on December 19, 2013, 01:17:01 AM
But I think I'm gonna have to RTM yehoshuas post:
He said that he reserved a...
...king bed
Post by: Frostboot on December 19, 2013, 01:21:55 AM
Well said.
But I think I'm gonna have to RTM yehoshuas post:
He said that he reserved a...
...king bed
I will help you get a nice room, but once you close the door you are on your own ;)
Post by: Myccrabbi on December 19, 2013, 01:29:36 AM
I probably should refrain but here goes. I will do this methodically so we don't speak past each other.wow, I need a nap.
First off, I am very happily married and wouldn't trade my married life for my single years any day of the week. (Well maybe one day a week - there I go again making bad jokes about marriage!!).
Premise 1
While I am very happily married and in a loving committed relationship I am not going to kid myself and say that there isn't every once in a while a moment when I look back with nostalgia at my single days ("the freedom to do what I want when I want etc."). Some (naive, unrealistic ) people would be horrified by such a thought, as if marriage is supposed to be the answer to all the world's problems and eternal sunshine and bliss. The obvious fact is that marriage makes your life more complicated (duh, you are adding a whole other person to your person + hopefully kids and more responsibilities). The same way there are good days and bad days before you are married there will be good days and bad days after you are married. I agree with you that married life is different and better than single life. Married life is a richer deeper more meaningful life and therefore there is the opportunity for it to be "better", but the flip side to that is that it also has the opportunity to be more "difficult" at times (More difficulty=more enjoyment).
Premise 2
How to cope or deal with the difficult times (in life/in marriage/in everything)? I personally find that staying positive, not taking things too seriously, and being able to laugh about things (especially w/ regard to married life) helps me keep things in perspective and live a positive balanced life. While I definitely believe in different strokes for different folks I sometimes wonder how people could be soooooo serious and not be depressed (or maybe they are). I think everyone would agree we should all aim for balance.
Now that brings me back to my JOKE (I hope you didn't think I was serious) that "after the wedding it all goes downhill" in connection with trying to encourage someone to look at his wedding night as a really special night and to "spring" a couple extra bucks to make it a night to remember forever. It stinks to have to explain a joke but I guess I was referring to the fact that life gets more complex and difficult (and also so much better) with marriage. Every once in a while it is nice to look back to the beginning (your wedding night) when things were so simple and not complex and that one may want that reflection to be something more than a Ramada Jacuzzi (Dan had a funny reaction to that). Granted the joke was not SNL worthy, but I thought it was a bit funny.
While I am sure I misunderstood your reaction…it came across as wayyyy tooooo serious…..at least for me and it warranted a "chillax"!!. I apologize if my subsequent comment offended you as I should've kept it to myself and stuck to my "different strokes for different folks" idea.
Anyways, enough seriousness for me :D I am starting to get depressed and I probably used up my posting limit for the year on this post, but just wanted to clarify. I am also thinking that this may be the wrong thread to discuss all this ;D
Post by: Frostboot on December 19, 2013, 01:34:27 AM
wow, I need a nap.
Was meant to help people fall asleep..considering the hour :)
Post by: meshugener on December 19, 2013, 01:42:06 AM
You get married, and as a result:
Your wife is pregy, and as a result:
You have a baby, and as a result:
The baby cries, and as a result:
You're up at night, and as a result:
You browse DDF, and as a result:
You read tips on dating and wedding night.
Ok, baby is calming down after 1 1/2 hour non-stop crying
Post by: Myccrabbi on December 19, 2013, 01:45:05 AM
That's what happens when you get engaged, as a result:as a result.....
You get married, and as a result:
Your wife is pregy, and as a result:
You have a baby, and as a result:
The baby cries, and as a result:
You're up at night, and as a result:
You browse DDF, and as a result:
You read tips on dating and wedding night.
Ok, baby is calming down after 1 1/2 hour non-stop crying
U become meshuga...:P
Post by: Frostboot on December 19, 2013, 01:48:17 AM
as a result.....
U become meshuga...:P
I wasn't going to say it….
Post by: meshugener on December 19, 2013, 01:48:36 AM
Hey! Why are YOU up so late?
Post by: Frostboot on December 19, 2013, 01:51:01 AM
And then?
Hey! Why are YOU up so late?
Too many jokes for me tonight. My kid is sick and is also crying…don't think he is going to sleep anytime soon though. Are we scaring off all the engaged guys looking for hotels?
Post by: raphy781 on December 19, 2013, 03:56:49 AM
Too many jokes for me tonight. My kid is sick and is also crying…don't think he is going to sleep anytime soon though. Are we scaring off all the engaged guys looking for hotels?That probably happened pages ago:P
Post by: WAM on December 19, 2013, 09:58:14 AM
That's what happens when you get engaged, as a result:+1000!
You get married, and as a result:
Your wife is pregy, and as a result:
You have a baby, and as a result:
The baby cries, and as a result:
You're up at night, and as a result:
You browse DDF, and as a result:
You read tips on dating and wedding night.
Ok, baby is calming down after 1 1/2 hour non-stop crying
Post by: AnonymousUser on December 19, 2013, 10:03:51 AM
I probably should refrain but here goes. I will do this methodically so we don't speak past each other.+10^100
First off, I am very happily married and wouldn't trade my married life for my single years any day of the week. (Well maybe one day a week - there I go again making bad jokes about marriage!!).
Premise 1
While I am very happily married and in a loving committed relationship I am not going to kid myself and say that there isn't every once in a while a moment when I look back with nostalgia at my single days ("the freedom to do what I want when I want etc."). Some (naive, unrealistic ) people would be horrified by such a thought, as if marriage is supposed to be the answer to all the world's problems and eternal sunshine and bliss. The obvious fact is that marriage makes your life more complicated (duh, you are adding a whole other person to your person + hopefully kids and more responsibilities). The same way there are good days and bad days before you are married there will be good days and bad days after you are married. I agree with you that married life is different and better than single life. Married life is a richer deeper more meaningful life and therefore there is the opportunity for it to be "better", but the flip side to that is that it also has the opportunity to be more "difficult" at times (More difficulty=more enjoyment).
Premise 2
How to cope or deal with the difficult times (in life/in marriage/in everything)? I personally find that staying positive, not taking things too seriously, and being able to laugh about things (especially w/ regard to married life) helps me keep things in perspective and live a positive balanced life. While I definitely believe in different strokes for different folks I sometimes wonder how people could be soooooo serious and not be depressed (or maybe they are). I think everyone would agree we should all aim for balance.
Now that brings me back to my JOKE (I hope you didn't think I was serious) that "after the wedding it all goes downhill" in connection with trying to encourage someone to look at his wedding night as a really special night and to "spring" a couple extra bucks to make it a night to remember forever. It stinks to have to explain a joke but I guess I was referring to the fact that life gets more complex and difficult (and also so much better) with marriage. Every once in a while it is nice to look back to the beginning (your wedding night) when things were so simple and not complex and that one may want that reflection to be something more than a Ramada Jacuzzi (Dan had a funny reaction to that). Granted the joke was not SNL worthy, but I thought it was a bit funny.
While I am sure I misunderstood your reaction…it came across as wayyyy tooooo serious…..at least for me and it warranted a "chillax"!!. I apologize if my subsequent comment offended you as I should've kept it to myself and stuck to my "different strokes for different folks" idea. If being super serious works for you..then by all means...
Anyways, enough seriousness for me :D I am starting to get depressed and I probably used up my posting limit for the year on this post, but just wanted to clarify. I am also thinking that this may be the wrong thread to discuss all this ;D
Maybe someone should start a wiki.
Post by: Frostboot on December 19, 2013, 11:16:00 AM
+10^100
Maybe someone should start a wiki.
On Marriage?!? It would never end ;)
Post by: AnonymousUser on December 19, 2013, 04:12:26 PM
On Marriage?!? It would never end ;)No, silly. On where to go for the wedding night.
Post by: Armadillo on December 19, 2013, 06:26:41 PM
Premise 1
While I am very happily married and in a loving committed relationship I am not going to kid myself and say that there isn't every once in a while a moment when I look back with nostalgia at my single days ("the freedom to do what I want when I want etc."). Some (naive, unrealistic ) people would be horrified by such a thought, as if marriage is supposed to be the answer to all the world's problems and eternal sunshine and bliss. The obvious fact is that marriage makes your life more complicated (duh, you are adding a whole other person to your person + hopefully kids and more responsibilities). The same way there are good days and bad days before you are married there will be good days and bad days after you are married. I agree with you that married life is different and better than single life. Married life is a richer deeper more meaningful life and therefore there is the opportunity for it to be "better", but the flip side to that is that it also has the opportunity to be more "difficult" at times (More difficulty=more enjoyment).
Premise 2
How to cope or deal with the difficult times (in life/in marriage/in everything)? I personally find that staying positive, not taking things too seriously, and being able to laugh about things (especially w/ regard to married life) helps me keep things in perspective and live a positive balanced life. While I definitely believe in different strokes for different folks I sometimes wonder how people could be soooooo serious and not be depressed (or maybe they are). I think everyone would agree we should all aim for balance.
So I actually agree with pretty much everything you're 'premising'. There are also many people here that can vouch for my lack of super seriousness. When you said 'all goes downhill', I didn't realize you meant in the context of life getting stressful. Being a chosson teacher, I was reacting sensitively to an area that you apparently weren't referencing, but is often misunderstood.
For further discussion, I will gladly respond to pm's(, from you or anyone else who is now confused).
Post by: Dave321 on December 19, 2013, 06:50:16 PM
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him with peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his
movements
So whats so hard about that
?
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
It's really not too difficult but.... To make a
woman happy, a man only needs
to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments
regularly
45. Go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU
MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time,
especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never
worrying about where she goes.
BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY
IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes
Post by: SamKey on December 19, 2013, 07:14:35 PM
Post by: Moishebatchy on December 19, 2013, 07:44:22 PM
AROFLMAO!
You no longer have an @$$?!?! :o
Post by: HP58 on December 19, 2013, 07:46:16 PM
AROFLMAO!+1. Wow! Your own? Pretty comprehensive... :D
Post by: SuperFlyer on January 22, 2014, 07:51:57 PM
There are many inyonim, and in fact they can be added in every subject ad infinitum.
So here my thought.
If you kept the rules, and are allowed to touch a/the girl for the first time in your life, and immediately jump to the act after which you are barred access for 2 weeks, after which she starts throwing up if all is well....
Let's just try to be smart...
Post by: Chief Rabbi of New York on January 22, 2014, 08:55:52 PM
Couldn't resist guys :P
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY
1. Feed him
2. Sleep with him
3. Leave him with peace
4. Don't check his phone (Msgs)
5. Don't bother him with his
movements
So whats so hard about that
?
HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN HAPPY
It's really not too difficult but.... To make a
woman happy, a man only needs
to be:
1. a friend
2. a companion
3. a lover
4. a brother
5. a father
6. a master
7. a chef
8. an electrician
9. a plumber
10. a mechanic
11. a carpenter
12. a decorator
13. a stylist
14. a sexologist
15. a gynecologist
16. a psychologist
17. a pest exterminator
18. a psychiatrist
19. a healer
20. a good listener
21. an organizer
22. a good father
23. very clean
24. sympathetic
25. athletic
26. warm
27. attentive
28. gallant
29. intelligent
30. funny
31. creative
32. tender
33. strong
34. understanding
35. tolerant
36. prudent
37. ambitious
38. capable
39. courageous
40. determined
41. true
42. dependable
43. passionate
WITHOUT FORGETTING TO:
44. give her compliments
regularly
45. Go shopping with her
46. be honest
47. be very rich
48. not stress her out
49. not look at other girls
AND AT THE SAME TIME, YOU
MUST ALSO:
50. give her lots of attention
51. give her lots of time,
especially time for herself
52. give her lots of space, never
worrying about where she goes.
BUT MOST OF ALL IT IS VERY
IMPORTANT
53. never forget
*birthdays
*anniversaries
*valentine
*arrangements she makes
if u have marriage problems, the Chief Rabbi of New York will help you ;)
Post by: chicken on January 22, 2014, 10:13:34 PM
At Armadillo: I checked on tripadvisor your rating as groom-instructor and you are doing just fine asking your friends to vote for you.
There are many inyonim, and in fact they can be added in every subject ad infinitum.
So here my thought.
If you kept the rules, and are allowed to touch a/the girl for the first time in your life, and immediately jump to the act after which you are barred access for 2 weeks, after which she starts throwing up if all is well....
Let's just try to be smart...
So just go to sleep?
Post by: HP58 on January 23, 2014, 01:42:48 AM
So just go to sleep?Seriously?! You became a member to post that?
Post by: Crazy tools on January 23, 2014, 02:35:51 AM
In general it Seems like most suites have only 1 bed...
Post by: Dr Moose on January 23, 2014, 05:01:35 AM
Does the Andez, or W hoboken have 2 beds in the suite??
In general it Seems like most suites have only 1 bed...
Gonna need a poll for that one, how many needed the couch/extra bed on their first night :P
Post by: Super Speed on January 23, 2014, 09:29:07 AM
Post by: philbenjoe on January 23, 2014, 10:29:29 AM
Post by: skyguy918 on January 23, 2014, 10:32:34 AM
+1. If you can get a much nicer room don't agonize over it, just go with the suite and ask for a rollaway. As Dan points out, most of the time it doesn't get used anyway (I can't vouch for that very scientific estimation of the the percentages ;D, but as others have mentioned, that's what many chosson teachers and rabonim who pasken on these inyonim will tell you is the case). The rollaway is not so terrible as a backup option.Does the Andez, or W hoboken have 2 beds in the suite??
In general it Seems like most suites have only 1 bed...Gonna need a poll for that one, how many needed the couch/extra bed on their first night :P
Post by: kalzone on January 23, 2014, 12:05:38 PM
Post by: Dan on January 23, 2014, 12:06:36 PM
Post by: SamKey on January 23, 2014, 12:36:58 PM
Post by: AJK on January 23, 2014, 12:39:15 PM
Post by: Lou Bob on January 23, 2014, 12:40:21 PM
Don't? ;DBrooklyn or marriage? :D
Post by: skyguy918 on January 23, 2014, 12:48:10 PM
So I'm getting married I'm Brooklyn any ideas?Where in Brooklyn? If it's Williamsburg, just go with something in the city.
Post by: Ergel on January 23, 2014, 01:01:33 PM
FTFYWhere in Brooklyn? If it's Williamsburg,just go with something in the city.
Post by: Dan on January 23, 2014, 01:02:58 PM
FTFYLol. Was about to post the same thing.
Post by: SamKey on January 23, 2014, 03:13:42 PM
Post by: AJK on January 23, 2014, 03:16:38 PM
Post by: Dan on January 23, 2014, 03:17:47 PM
If you're coming into city, just do the Andaz 5th and be done with it.Yup
Post by: whacked1 on January 23, 2014, 03:30:33 PM
If you're coming into city, just do the Andaz 5th and be done with it.Is it possible to use a free night certificate there? (sorry if its a real noob q)
Post by: AJK on January 23, 2014, 03:31:18 PM
Post by: Dan on January 23, 2014, 03:50:01 PM
Is it possible to use a free night certificate there? (sorry if its a real noob q)Better off with 12.5K+$150 (or a cheap rate if its on a weekend) and a DIA upgrade cert.
Post by: SamKey on January 23, 2014, 03:56:56 PM
Better off with 12.5K+$150 (or a cheap rate if its on a weekend) and a DIA upgrade cert.Do they have 2 bed suites?
Post by: Ergel on January 23, 2014, 03:57:24 PM
Do they have 2 bed suites?Sleep on the couch. It's good preparation
Post by: Crazy tools on January 23, 2014, 04:34:12 PM
I guess they don't want her feeling bad that you have to sleep on the couch.
Post by: Super Speed on January 23, 2014, 06:07:20 PM
I'm not chosson yet, but have helped some friends book rooms, and some of these chosson rabbeim say that you must get 2 beds. No roll aways or couches.... :-\Totally agree, it's that plus more.
I guess they don't want her feeling bad that you have to sleep on the couch.
Post by: MC on January 23, 2014, 06:30:50 PM
I'm not chosson yet, but have helped some friends book rooms, and some of these chosson rabbeim say that you must get 2 beds. No roll aways or couches.... :-\
I guess they don't want her feeling bad that you have to sleep on the couch.
Definitely. As part of the (small) female population on ddf, let me just say that I would feel very bad and have heard from married friends that they felt the same
Post by: SamKey on January 24, 2014, 04:59:15 PM
I guess they don't want her feeling bad that you have to sleep on the couch.Doubt she will ::) :P 8)
Post by: @Yehuda on January 26, 2014, 06:56:28 PM
It's been 2 weeks since the wedding!! I figured I would follow up on my trip report (if I can call it that?) especially since Expedia found something wrong with my review and rejected it. ???
The American Hotel in Freehold worked out beautifully for our Lakewood wedding. My friend drove (in a separate car) to the hotel the morning of with me. We checked in, took a peek at the room and then took his car to the hall. As I said before, they upgraded us - once I said it was our wedding night - to late-checkout and a suite which had a king size bed and a couch (going to avoid commenting on whether it was used or not ;) ) Bathroom did not have the separate shower/tub situation that was pictured on Expedia but the shower was humongous and had 3 heads coming from different directions (again, will avoid commenting on whether we used it or not ;) ). The limo was beautiful, driver did not care at all that we were running a little late and the ride was about 20-25 minutes as expected. As per a friend's suggestion, I brought Moscato "champagne" and flutes (that he toveled for me) for the limo ride. That experience was definitely fun, and as I said, it was worth it for the once-in-a-lifetime event, but I could hear why someone would save the money and skip it. We already had the key when we got to the hotel, so we just waved to the front desk clerk (who said "Oh, it's the newlyweds!" Was kinda nice how several employees knew it was our special night) and went upstairs. I had her favorite flowers waiting in the room - great suggestion from my Chosson teacher, and the hotel referred me to the local florist and took care of setting them up in the room. Caterer gave us packed food + plastic utensils which was great, but I also picked up snacks earlier that morning for dinner/breakfast. Late checkout was awesome, took our time leaving until we went to Sheva Brachos.
Thanks for the all the suggestions! Follow me in "Up In The Air" as I plan our Israel/Eurotrip honeymoon for this summer!
Post by: whacked1 on January 26, 2014, 07:12:08 PM
Heyo!Most def will, was thinking about doing a similar thing! Keep us posted
Thanks for the all the suggestions! Follow me in "Up In The Air" as I plan our Israel/Eurotrip honeymoon for this summer!
Post by: philbenjoe on January 26, 2014, 07:23:32 PM
Heyo!congrads!!
It's been 2 weeks since the wedding!! I figured I would follow up on my trip report (if I can call it that?) especially since Expedia found something wrong with my review and rejected it. ???
The American Hotel in Freehold worked out beautifully for our Lakewood wedding. My friend drove (in a separate car) to the hotel the morning of with me. We checked in, took a peek at the room and then took his car to the hall. As I said before, they upgraded us - once I said it was our wedding night - to late-checkout and a suite which had a king size bed and a couch (going to avoid commenting on whether it was used or not ;) ) Bathroom did not have the separate shower/tub situation that was pictured on Expedia but the shower was humongous and had 3 heads coming from different directions (again, will avoid commenting on whether we used it or not ;) ). The limo was beautiful, driver did not care at all that we were running a little late and the ride was about 20-25 minutes as expected. As per a friend's suggestion, I brought Moscato "champagne" and flutes (that he toveled for me) for the limo ride. That experience was definitely fun, and as I said, it was worth it for the once-in-a-lifetime event, but I could hear why someone would save the money and skip it. We already had the key when we got to the hotel, so we just waved to the front desk clerk (who said "Oh, it's the newlyweds!" Was kinda nice how several employees knew it was our special night) and went upstairs. I had her favorite flowers waiting in the room - great suggestion from my Chosson teacher, and the hotel referred me to the local florist and took care of setting them up in the room. Caterer gave us packed food + plastic utensils which was great, but I also picked up snacks earlier that morning for dinner/breakfast. Late checkout was awesome, took our time leaving until we went to Sheva Brachos.
Thanks for the all the suggestions! Follow me in "Up In The Air" as I plan our Israel/Eurotrip honeymoon for this summer!
Post by: Moishebatchy on January 26, 2014, 08:30:46 PM
If you're coming into city, just do the Andaz 5th and be done with it.
Brooklyn or marriage? :D
Post by: htg123 on January 26, 2014, 08:40:59 PM
Post by: Frostboot on January 27, 2014, 01:25:22 AM
Heyo!
It's been 2 weeks since the wedding!! I figured I would follow up on my trip report (if I can call it that?) especially since Expedia found something wrong with my review and rejected it. ???
The American Hotel in Freehold worked out beautifully for our Lakewood wedding. My friend drove (in a separate car) to the hotel the morning of with me. We checked in, took a peek at the room and then took his car to the hall. As I said before, they upgraded us - once I said it was our wedding night - to late-checkout and a suite which had a king size bed and a couch (going to avoid commenting on whether it was used or not ;) ) Bathroom did not have the separate shower/tub situation that was pictured on Expedia but the shower was humongous and had 3 heads coming from different directions (again, will avoid commenting on whether we used it or not ;) ). The limo was beautiful, driver did not care at all that we were running a little late and the ride was about 20-25 minutes as expected. As per a friend's suggestion, I brought Moscato "champagne" and flutes (that he toveled for me) for the limo ride. That experience was definitely fun, and as I said, it was worth it for the once-in-a-lifetime event, but I could hear why someone would save the money and skip it. We already had the key when we got to the hotel, so we just waved to the front desk clerk (who said "Oh, it's the newlyweds!" Was kinda nice how several employees knew it was our special night) and went upstairs. I had her favorite flowers waiting in the room - great suggestion from my Chosson teacher, and the hotel referred me to the local florist and took care of setting them up in the room. Caterer gave us packed food + plastic utensils which was great, but I also picked up snacks earlier that morning for dinner/breakfast. Late checkout was awesome, took our time leaving until we went to Sheva Brachos.
Thanks for the all the suggestions! Follow me in "Up In The Air" as I plan our Israel/Eurotrip honeymoon for this summer!
Glad all worked out and thanks for not sharing TMI.
Post by: @Yehuda on January 27, 2014, 10:43:57 AM
Thanks and mazalsThanks!
Glad all worked out and thanks for not sharing TMI.Thanks! Hahaa
Post by: SamKey on January 27, 2014, 09:23:05 PM
Better off with 12.5K+$150 (or a cheap rate if its on a weekend) and a DIA upgrade cert.what's with parking? are there problems using someone elses diamond account? Is $500 really worth it? (our am I overvaluing the price on a dia upgrade)
Post by: Emkay on January 27, 2014, 09:36:59 PM
Better off with 12.5K+$150 (or a cheap rate if its on a weekend) and a DIA upgrade cert.whats DIA?
Post by: AJK on January 27, 2014, 09:53:11 PM
Post by: SamKey on February 05, 2014, 04:08:12 PM
Post by: AJK on February 05, 2014, 04:10:30 PM
Post by: Emkay on February 05, 2014, 04:11:46 PM
So what's my next option if I don't want to spend $500 on the andazwhy 500? Isnt it three
Post by: churnbabychurn on February 05, 2014, 04:15:49 PM
Sleeping on a couch-bed on the night of your wedding is not the "perfect" way to end such a big night. IMHO its worth making sure that you have two comfortable beds. Even if its only a "small chance".
Post by: Ergel on February 05, 2014, 04:17:10 PM
Just wanna throw in my 2 cents.eh, it's preparation for what's to come :P
Sleeping on a couch-bed on the night of your wedding is not the "perfect" way to end such a big night. IMHO its worth making sure that you have two comfortable beds. Even if its only a "small chance".
In all seriousness-who cares, I often fall asleep on the couch
Post by: churnbabychurn on February 05, 2014, 04:18:33 PM
eh, it's preparation for what's to come :P:)
In all seriousness-who cares, I often fall asleep on the couch
Im not a good couch sleeper..
Post by: Emkay on February 05, 2014, 04:22:48 PM
Just wanna throw in my 2 cents.
Sleeping on a couch-bed on the night of your wedding is not the "perfect" way to end such a big night. IMHO its worth making sure that you have two comfortable beds. Even if its only a "small chance".
eh, it's preparation for what's to come :Pcan we not go needlessly off topic again?
In all seriousness-who cares, I often fall asleep on the couch
Post by: SamKey on February 05, 2014, 04:33:21 PM
why 500? Isnt it threehow much are you buying suite upgrades for? I just checked IC TS has nice 2 bed deluxe rooms for 50k ($350) BRG for family suite?
Post by: Emkay on February 05, 2014, 05:08:19 PM
how much are you buying suite upgrades for? I just checked IC TS has nice 2 bed deluxe rooms for 50k ($350) BRG for family suite?your not diamond?
Whats IC TS ?
Post by: Dr Moose on February 05, 2014, 05:10:11 PM
your not diamond?InterContinental Times Square?
Whats IC TS ?
Post by: SamKey on February 05, 2014, 06:57:17 PM
your not diamond?
Whats IC TS ?
InterContinental Times Square
Post by: whacked1 on February 05, 2014, 06:59:37 PM
Post by: Emkay on February 06, 2014, 01:42:17 AM
I checked out the splash suite in andaz 5th... couple of reasons why i wasnt so impressed. any other ideas?care to explain? As i was gonna go for it and would like to know about it
Post by: whacked1 on February 06, 2014, 12:22:59 PM
care to explain? As i was gonna go for it and would like to know about itI'll send you via pm.
Post by: AJK on February 06, 2014, 12:34:13 PM
Post by: meshugener on February 06, 2014, 12:46:14 PM
Why not share for the rest of DDF?Because:
This was a old secret known for all normal ppl and now came one "meshugener" and killed it for all
Thanks again DDF
Post by: AJK on February 06, 2014, 12:47:34 PM
Post by: whacked1 on February 06, 2014, 01:03:14 PM
Why not share for the rest of DDF?I have a feeling my kallah checks what I write.... if you want I'll send it to you as well...
Post by: Emkay on February 06, 2014, 01:16:02 PM
I have a feeling my kallah checks what I write.... if you want I'll send it to you as well...well then this dosnt look shady :P
Post by: skyguy918 on February 06, 2014, 01:16:26 PM
I have a feeling my kallah checks what I write.... if you want I'll send it to you as well...But checking PM's is beyond her abilities?
Post by: Dan on February 06, 2014, 01:24:47 PM
Just get a rollaway bed. And perhaps don't mention it's your wedding night if you don't want to get laughed at.
Post by: whacked1 on February 06, 2014, 01:26:55 PM
But checking PM's is beyond her abilities?she doesn't have my password....
Post by: whacked1 on February 06, 2014, 01:27:47 PM
Let me guess, because the splash suite is a king bed?more like the single bathroom and the giant tub in the living room...
Just get a rollaway bed. And perhaps don't mention it's your wedding night if you don't want to get laughed at.
Post by: myb821 on February 06, 2014, 01:29:01 PM
more like the single bathroom and the giant tub in the living room...I know im going to regret asking this but what the heck is the issue with only having a single bathroom
Post by: AJK on February 06, 2014, 01:29:19 PM
I know im going to regret asking this but what the heck is the issue with only having a single bathroom
Ha, better you than me :P
Post by: Ergel on February 06, 2014, 01:31:12 PM
Ha, better you than me :PAnd me
Post by: Achas Veachas on February 06, 2014, 01:31:33 PM
I know im going to regret asking this but what the heck is the issue with only having a single bathroomOr better yet, where you finding a hotel room with 2 bathrooms?
Post by: AJK on February 06, 2014, 01:32:09 PM
Post by: churnbabychurn on February 06, 2014, 01:41:38 PM
Post by: Dan on February 06, 2014, 01:43:56 PM
A tub in the living room is a little ambitious for day 1... :oIt's not in the living room.
Post by: myb821 on February 06, 2014, 01:45:18 PM
A tub in the living room is a little ambitious for day 1... :othat i could understand, but what is the problem with only one bathroom??????
Post by: meshugener on February 06, 2014, 02:00:55 PM
I know im going to regret asking this but what the heck is the issue with only having a single bathroomWhat do you understand. You're probably too young for that.
Post by: davidb on February 06, 2014, 03:43:59 PM
Post by: whacked1 on February 06, 2014, 03:44:49 PM
It's not in the living room.
it was right in middle of everything. Don't get me wrong, I plan on using that room in the future, just it was a little too intense for me for day1
Or better yet, where you finding a hotel room with 2 bathrooms?I saw rooms that friends got at the waldorf (jr suite) and ritz that both had 2 bathrooms. The waldorf had two full ones. They weren't as classy andaz... but I'd rather start less and build over time...
Post by: SamKey on February 06, 2014, 03:46:39 PM
that i could understand, but what is the problem with only one bathroom??????it's just a worthwhile convenience
Or better yet, where you finding a hotel room with 2 bathrooms?I know the suite in the Hilton chestnut ridge has
Post by: AJK on February 06, 2014, 03:48:00 PM
"OK, I call dibs on that bathroom! You take the other."
"What? You want the one with the full-length mirror? Fiiine, let's rock, paper, scissors for it."
"No, go ahead, take it."
"No, you take it."
"No, you take it."
{check out time arrives quicker than anticipated}
Post by: meshugener on February 06, 2014, 03:48:39 PM
it's just a worthwhile convenience:-\
Post by: SamKey on February 06, 2014, 03:50:42 PM
:-\giving her as much space as possible
Post by: meshugener on February 06, 2014, 03:51:39 PM
giving her as much space as possibleWhat do I understand.
Post by: whacked1 on February 06, 2014, 03:52:09 PM
What does one say in such a scenario?Why do u want the FULL LENGTH mirror?! :P;D
"OK, I call dibs on that bathroom! You take the other."
"What? You want the one with the full-length mirror? Fiiine, let's rock, paper, scissors for it."
"No, go ahead, take it."
"No, you take it."
"No, you take it."
{check out time arrives quicker than anticipated}
Post by: davidb on February 06, 2014, 03:55:53 PM
Post by: MC on February 06, 2014, 03:58:44 PM
עד כאן
+100000000 !!
Although it is VERY entertaining 😜
Post by: meshugener on February 06, 2014, 04:04:14 PM
What does one say in such a scenario?lol
"OK, I call dibs on that bathroom! You take the other."
"What? You want the one with the full-length mirror? Fiiine, let's rock, paper, scissors for it."
"No, go ahead, take it."
"No, you take it."
"No, you take it."
{check out time arrives quicker than anticipated}
If it only ends here.
Nu, who actually takes it?
Post by: Achas Veachas on February 06, 2014, 04:05:27 PM
lol3 years and 2 apartments later we're still fighting over it...
If it only ends here.
Nu, who actually takes it?
Post by: meshugener on February 06, 2014, 04:06:10 PM
3 years and 2 apartments later we're still fighting over it...Just so you know, that's a VERY bad sign.
Post by: Achas Veachas on February 06, 2014, 04:08:59 PM
Just so you know, that's a VERY bad sign.It's OK I fold my Tallis every Motz"sh...
Post by: AJK on February 06, 2014, 04:20:24 PM
עד כאן
...הקפה א, א, א
Post by: aygart on February 06, 2014, 05:39:56 PM
Or better yet, where you finding a hotel room with 2 bathrooms?Sochi?
ETA:
(http://i.guim.co.uk/sys-images/Guardian/Pix/pictures/2014/2/4/1391526965406/279f0401-b006-443a-8068-f0887a5cdbfa-620x372.jpeg?width=460&height=-&quality=95)
Russia is ready for the Olympics...
(https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BegNuF2CIAA6v9V.jpg)
(https://pbs.twimg.com/media/BfpGUmiCIAA6ty2.jpg)
Post by: MoGro17 on February 06, 2014, 05:49:41 PM
Sochi?+100
I saw the pics. Hilarious!
Post by: Centro on February 06, 2014, 08:22:07 PM
http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=38168.0 (http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=38168.0)
Post by: SamKey on February 06, 2014, 10:14:08 PM
Post by: Emkay on February 07, 2014, 12:44:46 AM
Anyway to use uber from wedding to hotel?why not? Regarding what?
Post by: Vosizderneias on February 07, 2014, 01:45:58 AM
A tub in the living room is a little ambitious for day 1... :ohey man, i be tubbing since day one- like a boss
Post by: tuvz on February 07, 2014, 02:06:51 AM
Anyway to use uber from wedding to hotel?
depending on availability
i would look into it before hand
if generally they have cars in that area, at that time of night etc
Post by: efflpetzel on February 07, 2014, 03:18:12 AM
hey man, i be tubbing since day one- like a bosslike that!!!!!!!!
Post by: Gets on February 07, 2014, 03:20:24 AM
Post by: HP58 on February 07, 2014, 03:22:28 AM
Post by: Emkay on February 07, 2014, 07:51:46 AM
Post by: davidb on February 07, 2014, 12:20:13 PM
Anyone have the contact info for the GM of the andaz 5th ave?GIYF
Post by: Emkay on February 07, 2014, 12:27:51 PM
GIYFcant find the current one. Maybe you can help?
Post by: Emkay on February 08, 2014, 06:47:37 PM
Anyone have the contact info for the GM of the andaz 5th ave?bump
Post by: Super Speed on February 08, 2014, 08:40:46 PM
bumpMaybe try the Corporate Contact thread. http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=31126
Post by: wonderlust on March 13, 2014, 02:00:36 AM
Discount at ritz Central Park 4 wedding night -200$ full view of Central Park . Champaine , Italian music , pic of us framed & rose pedals everywhere . They even got blue ones caus I told them wife loves blue - all this at no extra charge!! Really nice ppl there
Post by: yehuda S on March 20, 2014, 05:01:53 PM
Post by: myb821 on March 20, 2014, 05:03:32 PM
What are the chances I can book a room at a NY Hyatt for a couple on their wedding night? I know I could add one as a guest but I doubt they would fall for that if they come in fully dressed as bride and groom. ::)you can go check in earlier in the day and then just give them the room key
Post by: A3 on March 20, 2014, 05:19:41 PM
What are the chances I can book a room at a NY Hyatt for a couple on their wedding night? I know I could add one as a guest but I doubt they would fall for that if they come in fully dressed as bride and groom. ::)
Are you using points, cash, or free nights... Hyatt points you can transfer to anyone.. cash just add them as a guest. The only issue would be free night which officially aren't tranferable...
Post by: Emkay on March 20, 2014, 05:25:44 PM
cash just add them as a guest.Officially they cant be the one to check in
Post by: yehuda S on March 20, 2014, 08:27:30 PM
Hyatt points you can transfer to anyone..Was planning on using points. Thanks! I didn't know that!
Post by: A3 on March 20, 2014, 08:46:41 PM
Was planning on using points. Thanks! I didn't know that!
Call them up and ask to transferring them.. unless they need ur status if u have diamond or something... They say transfers can take a day or two, but ime it's been instatanous.
Post by: yehuda S on March 20, 2014, 08:48:25 PM
Post by: Achas Veachas on March 20, 2014, 09:14:45 PM
FWIW though, I happen to be against going to a hotel on your wedding night in most cases. Going straight to your new apartment when possible makes a lot more sense.+1M
Post by: philbenjoe on March 20, 2014, 09:20:06 PM
FWIW though, I happen to be against going to a hotel on your wedding night in most cases. Going straight to your new apartment when possible makes a lot more sense.why? Any specific reason?
Post by: srap on March 20, 2014, 11:02:20 PM
why? Any specific reason?kedusha for one
Post by: yehuda S on March 20, 2014, 11:37:11 PM
why? Any specific reason?Lots of specific reasons. I bet a lot of which I can't even think of.
For starters, a hotel is nice when you want to get away. When moving into a brand new apartment with your new spouse, you should not need to get away; you are already going somewhere new and exciting.
As exciting as it may have been made to seem (for whatever reason), a hotel stay is inherently a pain in the neck. Unless you are staying for several days, you have to worry about check out times and parking and driving a car out before the wedding. It becomes a nuisance when all you want to do is relax after the big day.
When you go to your new home, you probably have it set up before hand. You've got clothes there, a fridge full of food, and all your tchachkes that you need like your own bathroom amenities. When you go to a hotel, you'll be living out of a suitcase and chances are there are going to be things that you didn't think of bringing.
Additionally, there can be annoyances with regards to halacha because all hotels have white sheets which is something you want to avoid especially the first night. And the last thing you want to be busy with is fitting your own sheets onto a king size hotel bed.. Which brings me to the next issue:
Bridal suites, and the big rooms in general have one king or queen bed which...is an issue for a chassan and kallah.
Another issue is that though hotels can be exciting to go to, basically they are always going to have a big yuck factor if you give it any thought. All hotels have blankets that don't get washed and I've seen warnings not to sit on the couches as guests feel free to sit there without clothes on and they don't get washed.
So yeah. Hotels on wedding night: bad idea.
Go home to your brand new beds and brand new sheets, and sleep in knowing that you don't have to check out at 12:00PM
Post by: Ergel on March 20, 2014, 11:51:05 PM
Post by: aygart on March 21, 2014, 12:03:34 AM
Yawnweren't able to sleep in? :P
Post by: 12HRS on March 21, 2014, 12:14:00 AM
weren't able to sleep in? :P
The sheets were to loud ;)
Post by: ckmk47 on March 21, 2014, 12:43:56 AM
Lots of specific reasons. I bet a lot of which I can't even think of.I totally agree.
For starters, a hotel is nice when you want to get away. When moving into a brand new apartment with your new spouse, you should not need to get away; you are already going somewhere new and exciting.
As exciting as it may have been made to seem (for whatever reason), a hotel stay is inherently a pain in the neck. Unless you are staying for several days, you have to worry about check out times and parking and driving a car out before the wedding. It becomes a nuisance when all you want to do is relax after the big day.
When you go to your new home, you probably have it set up before hand. You've got clothes there, a fridge full of food, and all your tchachkes that you need like your own bathroom amenities. When you go to a hotel, you'll be living out of a suitcase and chances are there are going to be things that you didn't think of bringing.
Additionally, there can be annoyances with regards to halacha because all hotels have white sheets which is something you want to avoid especially the first night. And the last thing you want to be busy with is fitting your own sheets onto a king size hotel bed.. Which brings me to the next issue:
Bridal suites, and the big rooms in general have one king or queen bed which...is an issue for a chassan and kallah.
So yeah. Hotels on wedding night: bad idea.
Go home to your brand new beds and brand new sheets, and sleep in knowing that you don't have to check out at 12:00PM
Post by: mendoul on March 21, 2014, 12:51:24 AM
I totally agree.
+1
Post by: A European on March 21, 2014, 01:19:15 AM
Lots of specific reasons. I bet a lot of which I can't even think of.I agree
For starters, a hotel is nice when you want to get away. When moving into a brand new apartment with your new spouse, you should not need to get away; you are already going somewhere new and exciting.
As exciting as it may have been made to seem (for whatever reason), a hotel stay is inherently a pain in the neck. Unless you are staying for several days, you have to worry about check out times and parking and driving a car out before the wedding. It becomes a nuisance when all you want to do is relax after the big day.
When you go to your new home, you probably have it set up before hand. You've got clothes there, a fridge full of food, and all your tchachkes that you need like your own bathroom amenities. When you go to a hotel, you'll be living out of a suitcase and chances are there are going to be things that you didn't think of bringing.
Additionally, there can be annoyances with regards to halacha because all hotels have white sheets which is something you want to avoid especially the first night. And the last thing you want to be busy with is fitting your own sheets onto a king size hotel bed.. Which brings me to the next issue:
Bridal suites, and the big rooms in general have one king or queen bed which...is an issue for a chassan and kallah.
Another issue is that though hotels can be exciting to go to, basically they are always going to have a big yuck factor if you give it any thought. All hotels have blankets that don't get washed and I've seen warnings not to sit on the couches as guests feel free to sit there without clothes on and they don't get washed.
So yeah. Hotels on wedding night: bad idea.
Go home to your brand new beds and brand new sheets, and sleep in knowing that you don't have to check out at 12:00PM
All hotels have blankets that don't get washed and I've seen warnings not to sit on the couches as guests feel free to sit there without clothes on and they don't get washed.Now you even convinced me not to go to a hotel all together...
Post by: Saver2000 on March 21, 2014, 01:34:08 AM
Just curious, did you only post your original question just so you can rant about this topic? ::)
Post by: HP58 on March 21, 2014, 01:47:26 AM
@Yehuda sLOL. Was thinking the same... ;D
Just curious, did you only post your original question just so you can rant about this topic? ::)
Post by: wonderlust on March 21, 2014, 08:38:24 AM
Post by: PlatinumGuy on March 21, 2014, 08:39:37 AM
It is the most bazaar & strange request I think they ever heard of-
I can assure you it's not
Post by: Achas Veachas on March 21, 2014, 08:52:25 AM
Save the points/money for a month or 2, you'll appreciate all the fancy hotel has to offer way more.
Post by: churnbabychurn on March 21, 2014, 08:54:46 AM
Another point. Despite how the wedding night is romanticized, for most in our community the reality is that the first night is mostly awkward. No matter how well you (think) you know each other, you don't really know someone until you're married.That is precisely why virtually all professional recommend a hotel instead of the comfort of home where things may get delayed..
Save the points/money for a month or 2, you'll appreciate all the fancy hotel has to offer way more.
Post by: Achas Veachas on March 21, 2014, 08:59:41 AM
That is precisely why virtually all professional recommend a hotel instead of the comfort of home where things may get delayed..???
Post by: myb821 on March 21, 2014, 08:59:50 AM
Post by: Yeki89 on March 21, 2014, 09:12:10 AM
Post by: churnbabychurn on March 21, 2014, 09:18:03 AM
CUT!+1
Post by: sky121 on March 21, 2014, 09:31:17 AM
I can assure you it's not+1
Post by: Emkay on March 21, 2014, 09:43:32 AM
Lots of specific reasons. I bet a lot of which I can't even think of.here we go again........
For starters, a hotel is nice when you want to get away. When moving into a brand new apartment with your new spouse, you should not need to get away; you are already going somewhere new and exciting.
As exciting as it may have been made to seem (for whatever reason), a hotel stay is inherently a pain in the neck. Unless you are staying for several days, you have to worry about check out times and parking and driving a car out before the wedding. It becomes a nuisance when all you want to do is relax after the big day.
When you go to your new home, you probably have it set up before hand. You've got clothes there, a fridge full of food, and all your tchachkes that you need like your own bathroom amenities. When you go to a hotel, you'll be living out of a suitcase and chances are there are going to be things that you didn't think of bringing.
Additionally, there can be annoyances with regards to halacha because all hotels have white sheets which is something you want to avoid especially the first night. And the last thing you want to be busy with is fitting your own sheets onto a king size hotel bed.. Which brings me to the next issue:
Bridal suites, and the big rooms in general have one king or queen bed which...is an issue for a chassan and kallah.
Another issue is that though hotels can be exciting to go to, basically they are always going to have a big yuck factor if you give it any thought. All hotels have blankets that don't get washed and I've seen warnings not to sit on the couches as guests feel free to sit there without clothes on and they don't get washed.
So yeah. Hotels on wedding night: bad idea.
Go home to your brand new beds and brand new sheets, and sleep in knowing that you don't have to check out at 12:00PM
Post by: yehuda S on March 21, 2014, 10:37:44 AM
@Yehuda s
Just curious, did you only post your original question just so you can rant about this topic? ::)
LOL. Was thinking the same... ;D
What? No! Do you think I need an excuse to rant? :P ::)
Post by: skyguy918 on March 21, 2014, 12:34:31 PM
I definitely hear the points. The part that I never got was when a groom & bride walk in & they say they want 2 beds or worse they get bridal suite & request a cot what on earth do the hotel staff think?! It is the most bazaar & strange request I think they ever heard of- & Charlie sheen stays in hotels!! The frum mentality is never to give a 2nd thought what the Gentiles around u r thinking but that is just crazy. Case in point ; Couz worked in ritz in & he told me once staff called him & asked: we have a bride & groom & I thought they asked for a cot but I must have heard wrong caus why would they want that.. " said was awkwardest of moments ..Why would we care what the goyim think? If there's a chillul Hashem, that's one thing. But I can't see how this would be a chillul Hashem.
Post by: etech0 on March 21, 2014, 12:35:29 PM
Post by: Ergel on March 21, 2014, 12:39:35 PM
bazaar?http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bazaar
Post by: etech0 on March 21, 2014, 12:44:48 PM
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/BazaarBizarre!
Post by: wonderlust on March 21, 2014, 04:05:38 PM
Bizarre!Yes bizarre - auto fill is pain
Post by: etech0 on March 21, 2014, 04:06:10 PM
Yes bizarre - auto fill is pain:)
Post by: Super Speed on March 22, 2014, 09:41:40 PM
Lots of specific reasons. I bet a lot of which I can't even think of.I hear your points but I think the main reason why is since it's a special and different type of night it's more comfortable to take care of it out of regular circumstances. Sorry if I didn't/couldn't explain myself well enough.
For starters, a hotel is nice when you want to get away. When moving into a brand new apartment with your new spouse, you should not need to get away; you are already going somewhere new and exciting.
As exciting as it may have been made to seem (for whatever reason), a hotel stay is inherently a pain in the neck. Unless you are staying for several days, you have to worry about check out times and parking and driving a car out before the wedding. It becomes a nuisance when all you want to do is relax after the big day.
When you go to your new home, you probably have it set up before hand. You've got clothes there, a fridge full of food, and all your tchachkes that you need like your own bathroom amenities. When you go to a hotel, you'll be living out of a suitcase and chances are there are going to be things that you didn't think of bringing.
Additionally, there can be annoyances with regards to halacha because all hotels have white sheets which is something you want to avoid especially the first night. And the last thing you want to be busy with is fitting your own sheets onto a king size hotel bed.. Which brings me to the next issue:
Bridal suites, and the big rooms in general have one king or queen bed which...is an issue for a chassan and kallah.
Another issue is that though hotels can be exciting to go to, basically they are always going to have a big yuck factor if you give it any thought. All hotels have blankets that don't get washed and I've seen warnings not to sit on the couches as guests feel free to sit there without clothes on and they don't get washed.
So yeah. Hotels on wedding night: bad idea.
Go home to your brand new beds and brand new sheets, and sleep in knowing that you don't have to check out at 12:00PM
Post by: philbenjoe on March 26, 2014, 01:45:46 AM
Post by: Myccrabbi on March 29, 2014, 11:06:10 PM
Post by: SamKey on March 30, 2014, 12:22:15 AM
Hi, I'm looking for a hotel near Monsey for a friend, needs to be a suite. TiaHilton Pearl River?
Post by: yoruel on March 30, 2014, 12:23:45 AM
Hi, I'm looking for a hotel near Monsey for a friend, needs to be a suite. TiaSheraton Medowlands? Don't know what you call near.
Post by: aygart on March 30, 2014, 12:26:00 AM
Sheraton Medowlands? Don't know what you call near.now a Hilton
Post by: Myccrabbi on March 31, 2014, 10:24:58 PM
Post by: AJK on March 31, 2014, 10:34:35 PM
What are the benefits of booking in the hilton with a Dimond account?
Allow me:
http://bit.ly/1hddKfy
Post by: meshugener on March 31, 2014, 10:35:42 PM
Allow me:Old fashioned joke. Can you get something new?
http://bit.ly/1hddKfy
Post by: AJK on April 01, 2014, 12:14:05 AM
Post by: meshugener on April 01, 2014, 12:16:25 AM
Would you use a iPhone 1 because it's not broken?
Post by: Myccrabbi on April 01, 2014, 12:20:02 AM
Allow me:like:D
http://bit.ly/1hddKfy
Post by: AJK on April 01, 2014, 12:25:57 AM
It's not broken its just outdated.
Would you use a iPhone 1 because it's not broken?
Terrible comparison. But this is not a conversation for this thread. Please remain on topic.
Post by: meshugener on April 01, 2014, 12:28:32 AM
Post by: Emkay on April 01, 2014, 12:31:16 AM
Ok, back on topic. Why in the world would you want to stay in a hotel the first night after your wedding?free shampoo :D
Post by: jack12 on April 04, 2014, 12:35:04 AM
Post by: efflpetzel on April 04, 2014, 12:39:12 AM
Post by: AJK on April 04, 2014, 12:48:34 AM
Post by: CountValentine on April 04, 2014, 06:54:49 AM
Why in the world would you want to stay in a hotel the first night after your wedding?I hope you are not being serious.
Post by: Emkay on April 04, 2014, 09:03:39 AM
Ok, back on topic. Why in the world would you want to stay in a hotel the first night after your wedding?
I hope you are not being serious.I would love to see both of you battle this out :)
Post by: SamKey on April 04, 2014, 11:06:34 AM
I hope you are not being serious.+1
I ended up going to W Hoboken got a Fantastic Suite with a crazy view of NYC 2 rooms with a porch 1 1/2 bathrooms (the WOWs were unavailable but I was told if they open up I'd get it) Free bottle of Yarden wine they delivered breakfast from a nearby kosher catering place to which they gave me $30 credit there instead of their in-house restaurant (SPG PLAT) Let's just say, money well spent.
Post by: mendoul on April 04, 2014, 12:40:56 PM
+1
I ended up going to W Hoboken got a Fantastic Suite with a crazy view of NYC 2 rooms with a porch 1 1/2 bathrooms (the WOWs were unavailable but I was told if they open up I'd get it) Free bottle of Yarden wine they delivered breakfast from a nearby kosher catering place to which they gave me $30 credit there instead of their in-house restaurant (SPG PLAT) Let's just say, money well spent.
How much did it cost u?
Post by: SamKey on April 06, 2014, 11:18:44 AM
12.5k SPG
How much did it cost u?
Post by: etech0 on April 11, 2014, 12:48:02 AM
Post by: Super Speed on April 11, 2014, 01:28:13 AM
who makes breakfast??
Post by: etech0 on April 11, 2014, 01:32:07 AM
?you always hear stories about the fancy breakfast the new wife cooks her husband the day after the wedding. so i was wondering what happens it they're in a hotel
Post by: Super Speed on April 11, 2014, 01:34:29 AM
you always hear stories about the fancy breakfast the new wife cooks her husband the day after the wedding. so i was wondering what happens it they're in a hotelThen she won't cook breakfast?
Post by: etech0 on April 11, 2014, 01:35:24 AM
Then she won't cook breakfast?Guess it depends if the hotel room comes with a kitchen, and if someone feels like going shopping :)
Post by: whacked1 on April 11, 2014, 08:05:58 AM
who makes breakfast?bagels 'n green sent a gorgeous basket for me....
Post by: ushdadude on April 11, 2014, 09:59:32 AM
bagels 'n green sent a gorgeous basket for me....
My friends had some sent to me in Manhattan. They ordered the wrong kinds of food because a lot of it was soggy.
Post by: Moishebatchy on April 11, 2014, 12:21:51 PM
you always hear stories about the fancy breakfast the new wife cooks her husband the day after the wedding.
(http://www.sherv.net/cm/emo/laughing/laughing-smiley-face.gif)
We men have a name for such stories. They're called "fairy tales".
Post by: etech0 on April 11, 2014, 12:35:56 PM
(http://www.sherv.net/cm/emo/laughing/laughing-smiley-face.gif):)
We men have a name for such stories. They're called "fairy tales".
Post by: damaxer91 on April 11, 2014, 12:37:46 PM
Post by: ice man on May 27, 2014, 01:02:15 AM
+1Did you get the upgrade because you are Spg platinum? Or just because it was your wedding?
I ended up going to W Hoboken got a Fantastic Suite with a crazy view of NYC 2 rooms with a porch 1 1/2 bathrooms (the WOWs were unavailable but I was told if they open up I'd get it) Free bottle of Yarden wine they delivered breakfast from a nearby kosher catering place to which they gave me $30 credit there instead of their in-house restaurant (SPG PLAT) Let's just say, money well spent.
Post by: SamKey on May 27, 2014, 05:36:31 AM
Did you get the upgrade because you are Spg platinum? Or just because it was your wedding?I used a confirmed suite upgrade but probably would have gotten it anyway
Post by: Galitzyaner on May 30, 2014, 01:00:01 PM
Yes, I do know Andaz is not Starwood ::) ;) .
Is there any SPG hotel that gives a free kosher breakfast as well?
Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated!!
TIA!
Post by: whacked1 on May 30, 2014, 01:26:58 PM
What would be the nicest option in NYC using Starwood points?I went to the st regis, they upgraded me to a suite. All I can say, is holy crap! The room was epic!! (I didn't get free breakfast though) IMO the room was a lot nicer than the splash suite.
Yes, I do know Andaz is not Starwood ::) ;) .
Is there any SPG hotel that gives a free kosher breakfast as well?
Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated!!
TIA!
Post by: Crazy tools on May 30, 2014, 01:35:57 PM
I went to the st regis, they upgraded me to a suite. All I can say, is holy crap! The room was epic!! (I didn't get free breakfast though) IMO the room was a lot nicer than the splash suite.Was the upgrade done by check-in or by speaking to them before?
Post by: whacked1 on May 30, 2014, 01:44:44 PM
Was the upgrade done by check-in or by speaking to them before?I emailed beforehand. they told me they cant promise an upgrade, but when my friend checked in I got a whopper
ETA I'm only gold not platinum...
Post by: SamKey on May 31, 2014, 01:59:11 PM
I went to the st regis, they upgraded me to a suite. All I can say, is holy crap! The room was epic!! (I didn't get free breakfast though) IMO the room was a lot nicer than the splash suite.And how much did the room cost you?
What would be the nicest option in NYC using Starwood points?I would recommend the W Hoboken 10 min out of the city as a Platinum member they gave me credit towards the kosher breakfast they delivered to my room and I was told by the GM that if the WOW suites were available she would give it to me (but they were booked months before aleady).
Yes, I do know Andaz is not Starwood ::) ;) .
Is there any SPG hotel that gives a free kosher breakfast as well?
Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated!!
TIA!
Post by: whacked1 on May 31, 2014, 10:15:26 PM
And how much did the room cost you?30k
Post by: Galitzyaner on May 31, 2014, 10:27:39 PM
I went to the st regis, they upgraded me to a suite. All I can say, is holy crap! The room was epic!! (I didn't get free breakfast though) IMO the room was a lot nicer than the splash suite.Thanks! Appreciate the recommendation!
I would recommend the W Hoboken 10 min out of the city as a Platinum member they gave me credit towards the kosher breakfast they delivered to my room and I was told by the GM that if the WOW suites were available she would give it to me (but they were booked months before aleady).Honestly, I'd forgo the breakfast, and not have to shlep to Jersey. Cuz quite frankly it's not just the shlep for us, but more for the ones who'd pick us up and drop us off etc.. But thanks anyways!
Post by: SamKey on June 01, 2014, 04:02:03 AM
Honestly, I'd forgo the breakfast, and not have to shlep to Jersey. Cuz quite frankly it's not just the shlep for us, but more for the ones who'd pick us up and drop us off etc.. But thanks anyways!It is really not a big shlep it is a $50 uber ride and it is only 12.5k
Post by: whacked1 on June 01, 2014, 09:51:24 AM
Post by: yg1 on June 06, 2014, 12:54:52 PM
Post by: etech0 on June 06, 2014, 12:58:46 PM
im getting married in lakewood in a few weeks. i have 2 free nights in any hyatt world wide. would like it to be within 45 mins. where should i go? thanksOT but Mazal Tov!
Post by: yg1 on June 06, 2014, 01:08:40 PM
Post by: @Yehuda on June 06, 2014, 01:20:47 PM
im getting married in lakewood in a few weeks. i have 2 free nights in any hyatt world wide. would like it to be within 45 mins. where should i go? thanksI got married in Lakewood and did my research at the time. Within 45 min there are no nice chain hotels period, forget just Hyatt. Read the wiki to see more info about the American Hotel, 20 min away in Freehold. Had a very nice time there.
Post by: yg1 on June 06, 2014, 01:30:06 PM
I got married in Lakewood and did my research at the time. Within 45 min there are no nice chain hotels period, forget just Hyatt. Read the wiki to see more info about the American Hotel, 20 min away in Freehold. Had a very nice time there.thanks do they have rooms with two beds?
Post by: yg1 on June 06, 2014, 01:32:18 PM
Post by: @Yehuda on June 06, 2014, 01:32:52 PM
thanks do they have rooms with two beds?Not sure. Either way I asked for an honeymoon upgrade. They gave us a suite that had a couch.
Post by: shimino1 on June 07, 2014, 03:47:19 PM
Not sure. Either way I asked for an honeymoon upgrade. They gave us a suite that had a couch.Dont be suprised when somone askes if you used it ;-)
Post by: @Yehuda on June 07, 2014, 09:47:15 PM
Dont be suprised when somone askes if you used it ;-)See upthread. That convo clearly was begun and deleted. I will gladly ignore any q's on the topic. :)
Post by: Cw3323 on June 07, 2014, 11:02:47 PM
im getting married in lakewood in a few weeks. i have 2 free nights in any hyatt world wide. would like it to be within 45 mins. where should i go? thankshyatt New Brunswick is very nice google says it is 53min
Post by: ice man on June 23, 2014, 03:44:56 AM
Post by: SamKey on June 23, 2014, 09:51:23 AM
Is there any place to get kosher food near the W Hoboken, without going to the city?Yes the hotel even picked it up for me and brought to the room
Post by: SamDaMan on June 23, 2014, 10:15:17 AM
Yes the hotel even picked it up for me and brought to the roomwow thts super nice! Everyone in the w Hoboken is nice.
Post by: ice man on June 23, 2014, 10:28:41 AM
Yes the hotel even picked it up for me and brought to the roomAre u SPG Platinum? Or they did it for u just because u asked?
Post by: SamKey on June 23, 2014, 11:09:41 AM
Are u SPG Platinum? Or they did it for u just because u asked?I am plat
Post by: ice man on June 23, 2014, 11:22:16 AM
Post by: SamKey on June 23, 2014, 02:40:20 PM
Hmm.. I'm only gold, u think I'll get the same treatment?Call up and ask, I spoke to the GM and she told me that if available I'd get the WOW suite. They arranged everything for me.
Post by: ice man on June 23, 2014, 02:48:12 PM
Post by: SamKey on June 23, 2014, 04:38:38 PM
Do u have his number by any chance?just call the front desk
Post by: sts on June 25, 2014, 07:42:54 PM
Post by: hocker on July 11, 2014, 12:17:22 AM
Post by: @Yehuda on August 06, 2014, 07:54:35 AM
Updated wiki. If anyone has anything to add feel free.Nice job! Got rid of my piece on Lakewood, since you included it nicely in the list. Also changed my name from @Yehudah to @Yehuda ;)
Post by: hocker on August 19, 2014, 10:55:22 AM
Post by: PlatinumGuy on August 19, 2014, 10:56:38 AM
Post by: zw on August 19, 2014, 01:20:43 PM
Any input whether to go with the W New York at Times Square or the Westin New York Times Square?How about the Sheraton T sq?
Post by: Ergel on August 19, 2014, 01:21:36 PM
Post by: sammy n on August 19, 2014, 01:23:36 PM
Why times square. Wouldn't it be a little classier to go somewhere a little quieter?How about the W in Hoboken
Post by: whacked1 on August 19, 2014, 02:04:18 PM
How about the W in Hobokencheck out the wiki, IIRC samkey went
Post by: sammy n on August 20, 2014, 09:11:01 AM
check out the wiki, IIRC samkey wentSo did I.
Post by: ice man on September 29, 2014, 03:20:30 PM
Post by: Dan on September 29, 2014, 03:21:17 PM
I'm looking for a friend getting married in November in Williamsburg. The W Hoboken is booked up. Any better suggestions? Looking to pay up to 250 per night for 2 nights. TIA for any helpBuy 2 Hyatt nights?
Post by: ice man on September 29, 2014, 03:23:44 PM
Post by: Yaalili on September 29, 2014, 03:56:09 PM
How much do they go for?
Depending if you are getting a regular one or a suite one, anywhere from $150-400 I've seen. Check in the goods for sale section.
Post by: ya on November 17, 2014, 01:59:56 PM
Post by: whacked1 on November 17, 2014, 02:02:43 PM
i know im pretty lazy but does anyone have the email they sent to the hotel asking for an upgrade on the wedding night and actually got a decent upgrade? If yes can you post?I called front desk and got a suite...
Post by: ya on November 17, 2014, 02:02:50 PM
I went to the st regis, they upgraded me to a suite. All I can say, is holy crap! The room was epic!! (I didn't get free breakfast though) IMO the room was a lot nicer than the splash suite.To which suite?
Post by: whacked1 on November 17, 2014, 02:08:01 PM
To which suite?which suite or which hotel?
Post by: ya on November 19, 2014, 01:18:43 PM
which suite or which hotel?which suite. He said he stayed at the ST Regis
Post by: whacked1 on November 19, 2014, 02:04:35 PM
which suite. He said he stayed at the ST RegisI think it was called the jr suite. The thing was huge, two huge bathrooms, lrg living room, and decent sized bedroom.
Post by: ya on December 11, 2014, 04:47:16 PM
I think it was called the jr suite. The thing was huge, two huge bathrooms, lrg living room, and decent sized bedroom.got upgraded to a suite here as well.
Post by: plainbachur on December 14, 2014, 05:45:02 PM
ST Regis award night gold status
Will get upgraded wedding night?
Post by: chucksterace on December 14, 2014, 05:50:54 PM
Posting for a friend:
ST Regis award night gold status
Will get upgraded wedding night?
Which location
Post by: whacked1 on December 14, 2014, 05:51:09 PM
Posting for a friend:Look above, I got upgraded as well as other ppl
ST Regis award night gold status
Will get upgraded wedding night?
got upgraded to a suite here as well.
Post by: plainbachur on December 14, 2014, 05:51:13 PM
Which locationNYC
Post by: plainbachur on December 14, 2014, 05:51:31 PM
Look above, I got upgraded as well as other pplwhich suite?
Post by: whacked1 on December 14, 2014, 05:51:55 PM
I think it was called the jr suite. The thing was huge, two huge bathrooms, lrg living room, and decent sized bedroom.
Post by: nacho2100 on December 25, 2014, 04:15:18 PM
Getting married on Jan 4th, I know I may be late to finalize wedding night hotel details. But I was considering nabbing the hyatt card with the 50$ statement credit, and applying a free night to either the andaz 5th (crowd favorite) or the park hyatt nyc. This would be my first hotel rewards redemption and solo booking, so please forgive my naivety. I attempted to brush up on the multiple wedding night threads, but I still can't figure out if it is possible to call/email the hotel's GM before booking in order to upgrade "shop". Is this a thing?
Additionally, if we wanted breakfast, or a better chance at upgrading, does it make sense to find a diamond to book us? If so can anyone recommend said saviour?
Furthermore, with applying for the card today, when will I be able to apply the free night by? I am worried I will lose out on booking, though it seems that post new year's there is some more availability (judging by the nyc hotelweek promotions).
Thanks in advance
Post by: @Yehuda on December 25, 2014, 04:30:49 PM
I doubt you'd be able to get the card now and get the nights posted to your account with enough time to book a room, though. :-(
Diamond could help get breakfast, but they need to have a night in their account to use, I think. I don't think they can use their account to book you with your free night. I also don't think the breakfast is anything to write home about. Just bring some food in your bag with you.
Post by: Emkay on December 26, 2014, 03:23:16 AM
Post by: JayR on December 26, 2014, 04:12:45 AM
Any suggestions near monsey?
I heard pple go to sheraton hotel mahwah, nj, some got upgraded
also hilton pearl river looks nice, though idk anyone that stayed there
Post by: Emkay on December 26, 2014, 05:51:26 AM
I heard pple go to sheraton hotel mahwah, nj, some got upgradedSheraton looks extremly unappealing and doesnt even look like it has nice suites other than the presidential. The Hilton though looks nice and im going to look into that, thanks
also hilton pearl river looks nice, though idk anyone that stayed there
Post by: Twin on December 26, 2014, 05:58:25 AM
Any suggestions near monsey?
Going for a second wedding?
Post by: Emkay on December 26, 2014, 06:06:57 AM
Going for a second wedding?First one was fun, so figured why not
Post by: A3 on December 26, 2014, 07:41:16 AM
Post by: etech0 on December 26, 2014, 10:02:51 AM
Post by: real-brisker on December 26, 2014, 10:05:17 AM
25 minute drive.
Beautiful place.
Post by: sammy n on December 27, 2014, 01:54:38 PM
Glenpointe Marriott in Teaneck+1
25 minute drive.
Beautiful place.
Post by: JayR on December 27, 2014, 07:46:03 PM
Any suggestions near monsey?
If you don't want to travel at all there's a crown plaza mahwah which was newly renovated a couple of yrs ago
Post by: mek on December 27, 2014, 08:06:40 PM
Any suggestions near monsey?
From Wiki
Hilton Pearl River
Marriott Glen Point
Sheraton Crossroads (mahwah)
Sheraton Meadowlands
Hilton Woodcliff Lake
There is also the ritz carlton in westchester ~25 min from monsey
Post by: AI-TRAVEL on January 12, 2015, 10:29:37 AM
Post by: Emkay on January 12, 2015, 10:42:52 AM
Anybody end up staying in pearl river Hilton or ritz Carlton westchester? Those 2 seem the nicest within 1/2 hour of monsey?i booked the pearl river Hilton for a friend this past week, any specific questions I can ask him
Post by: AI-TRAVEL on January 12, 2015, 10:46:27 AM
i booked the pearl river Hilton for a friend this past week, any specific questions I can ask himYa. Did he get upgraded to a suite? And late checkout? I guess basically did they care that it was his wedding night. Side qustion are you Hilton diamond?
Post by: Emkay on January 12, 2015, 10:49:40 AM
Ya. Did he get upgraded to a suite? And late checkout? I guess basically did they care that it was his wedding night. Side qustion are you Hilton diamond?i spoke to the manager before and confirmed 4pm checkout. No upgrade as there is only one suite and it was booked though he booked the next largest room which was the executive king. I am not diamond just gold.
Manager seemed to want to help out as much as possible
Post by: AI-TRAVEL on January 12, 2015, 11:00:34 AM
i spoke to the manager before and confirmed 4pm checkout. No upgrade as there is only one suite and it was booked though he booked the next largest room which was the executive king. I am not diamond just gold.Ok thanks. The 1 suite is kind of a bummer.
Manager seemed to want to help out as much as possible
Post by: Emkay on January 12, 2015, 11:19:14 AM
Ok thanks. The 1 suite is kind of a bummer.i can't imagine its usually booked. It's not online and the Hilton reps can't see it, and even the actual hotel reps kept on transferring me to the central booking office who can't see it. Seems the actual hotel is the only people who can book it for you and they don't seem intent on doing that.
Post by: AI-TRAVEL on January 12, 2015, 11:30:17 AM
i can't imagine its usually booked. It's not online and the Hilton reps can't see it, and even the actual hotel reps kept on transferring me to the central booking office who can't see it. Seems the actual hotel is the only people who can book it for you and they don't seem intent on doing that.Eh... even for a diamond member?
Post by: Emkay on January 12, 2015, 02:12:42 PM
Eh... even for a diamond member?Call them and try to make a dummy booking, see what happens. Maybe I just had bad luck
Post by: AI-TRAVEL on January 12, 2015, 02:30:33 PM
Call them and try to make a dummy booking, see what happens. Maybe I just had bad luckok thanks.
Post by: moka on February 11, 2015, 09:38:25 PM
Post by: AnonymousUser on February 11, 2015, 11:00:43 PM
any ideas from long beach?Allegria?
Post by: moka on February 11, 2015, 11:35:34 PM
Allegria?you don't seem so sure about it
Post by: AI-TRAVEL on February 12, 2015, 01:15:05 AM
Allegria?Was nice when I was there 2 years ago.
Post by: moka on February 12, 2015, 09:49:52 AM
Allegria?
Was nice when I was there 2 years ago.do they have nice suites?
Is there any options out in Long Island?
Post by: emak on April 06, 2015, 01:24:19 AM
Post by: Chapshnell on April 06, 2015, 05:29:02 PM
Post by: Centro on April 06, 2015, 05:39:55 PM
Whats wrong with the Andaz 5th?
Looking for affordable, nice wedding night hotel around Manhattan. Andaz 5th is booked. Westin grand central looks nice for 12k spg, anyone been there? Some suite options that i can try to get upgraded to. Any other suggestions?
Post by: Dan on April 06, 2015, 06:31:18 PM
Post by: Chapshnell on April 06, 2015, 08:18:28 PM
Post by: emak on April 08, 2015, 12:57:11 AM
Park Hyatt?No availability for free night award on my night. :( Any other ideas?
Post by: Chapshnell on April 08, 2015, 03:19:39 PM
Post by: emak on April 08, 2015, 03:29:58 PM
Post by: Dr Moose on April 13, 2015, 02:08:55 PM
(and can we please not restart the conversation of 1 bed vs. 2 bed)
Post by: JayR on April 15, 2015, 12:16:14 AM
do any NY Hyatt hotels have 2 bed suites?Specific location?
Park Hyatt has Park Studio Suite Doubles (http://newyork.park.hyatt.com/en/hotel/rooms/suites.html)
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...that features two double beds topped in fine Italian linens...
Post by: emak on April 16, 2015, 10:31:49 AM
Post by: whacked1 on April 16, 2015, 06:46:08 PM
How's the Intercontinental Times Square? I can use an IHG free night.My friend stayed there. I checked him in, room was very small. Dont know if all the rooms are though.
Post by: Sport on April 16, 2015, 06:53:30 PM
My friend stayed there. I checked him in, room was very small. Dont know if all the rooms are though.Rooms are pretty small.. Nyc standard. I was supposedly upgraded to corner suite or something like that. It wasnt too much bigger than their standard room.
Post by: emak on April 16, 2015, 07:43:08 PM
Post by: CS91 on April 16, 2015, 08:16:14 PM
So still open to any other good ideas... ;D
I stayed at the Gansevoort NYC and really liked it. They were super nice, and even went through the effort to go out and pick up a Kosher bottle of wine to leave in our room for us as a gift.
Post by: emak on April 16, 2015, 08:34:21 PM
ETA: Looks like its out of my budget...over $400? Need a more affordable option.
Post by: CS91 on April 16, 2015, 09:03:19 PM
Never heard of it. Part of a chain or u paid cash? How much?
ETA: Looks like its out of my budget...over $400? Need a more affordable option.
It was way before I "got in the game," so I paid cash. No idea if there is a point option for it though. I think I paid ~$300, but I guess it varies depending on time of year and day of the week.
Post by: srulibe on April 17, 2015, 09:49:43 AM
Post by: emak on April 17, 2015, 10:06:13 AM
Post by: @Yehuda on April 17, 2015, 10:18:25 AM
Post by: srulibe on April 17, 2015, 10:23:39 AM
I've never done it but I've seen ppl discuss it here
Post by: emak on April 17, 2015, 10:24:51 AM
Post by: Dr Moose on April 17, 2015, 10:25:12 AM
Post by: emak on April 17, 2015, 10:26:36 AM
Post by: @Yehuda on April 17, 2015, 10:35:11 AM
Like for which hotel?Any of the Hyatt ones.
Post by: srulibe on April 17, 2015, 10:36:32 AM
Post by: Dr Moose on April 17, 2015, 10:36:34 AM
Any of the Hyatt ones.or SPG
Post by: Dr Moose on April 19, 2015, 02:09:14 PM
Specific location?thanks, but it seems to be impossible to find any points availability with that hotel
Park Hyatt has Park Studio Suite Doubles (http://newyork.park.hyatt.com/en/hotel/rooms/suites.html)
Post by: Dr Moose on April 28, 2015, 10:43:47 PM
EC: anyone have a good text to use to request the upgrade?
Post by: sams on May 01, 2015, 02:59:44 AM
Post by: chucksterace on May 01, 2015, 03:01:48 AM
Willing to spend up to 450 what's nicest place I can get? Thinking mayb buying 60k for ritz battery park or just do PH if Availble. Any thoughts guys?
Go PH. You can buy a free night cert for around $200-$259.
Post by: Ergel on May 01, 2015, 09:09:23 AM
Post by: sams on May 01, 2015, 12:07:38 PM
Ritz battery park is beautiful. Make sure to take a walk in the park. You should be able to get a revenue room for $450thanx guy. Revenue room is 750 for that night ..can just use points
Post by: Yitz on May 28, 2015, 10:19:20 AM
Post by: lunatic on May 28, 2015, 10:25:58 AM
looking for a Hotel in Williamsburg Brooklyn, any ideasPark Hyatt in Manhattan
Post by: Yitz on May 28, 2015, 12:30:53 PM
Post by: damaxer91 on May 28, 2015, 02:05:21 PM
Thanks, Great choice not the answer I was looking for. I know they have a decent Hotel in Williamsburg. That is what I am looking for.
That would be the Four Seasons on Bedford and Lee
Great kishka from room service
Post by: damaxer91 on May 28, 2015, 02:06:17 PM
Highly recommended for your wedding night if you want the feel of a barn
Post by: PlatinumGuy on May 28, 2015, 02:15:10 PM
Great kishka from room serviceNew meaning to 'overnight menu'
Post by: Yitz on May 28, 2015, 04:45:56 PM
Post by: mek on May 28, 2015, 07:18:09 PM
looking for a Hotel in Williamsburg Brooklyn, any ideas
http://www.condorny.com/
Post by: Yitz on May 29, 2015, 10:55:19 AM
Post by: avrumy22 on May 29, 2015, 12:59:45 PM
Thanks, it does look like a nice Hotel. Anyone stayed at the Condor that can share experience.
yep. for your wedding night, I would not recommend it. In fact, I had a bad experience there overall. the regular room is very small (maybe a suite will work for you) and the beds were tiny. Like really small, and hard. depending if you are facing the street or not will determine if you will hear noise all night or not. the fire alarm went off when i was there, thought im sure that doesnt happen every day.
Post by: plainbachur on May 31, 2015, 04:24:24 PM
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Post by: emak on February 02, 2016, 02:43:06 PM
Post by: Tom Brady on February 02, 2016, 02:43:41 PM
Ideas for wedding night hotel in Toronto?PH?
Post by: PlatinumGuy on February 02, 2016, 02:46:30 PM
Ideas for wedding night hotel in Toronto?The nice ones are the Shangri La and Four Seasons
Post by: emak on February 02, 2016, 03:25:11 PM
PH?How is that? Seems it's only a cat. 4. Is it nice? Will they upgrade for wedding night?
Post by: Ergel on February 02, 2016, 03:43:48 PM
How is that? Seems it's only a cat. 4. Is it nice? Will they upgrade for wedding night?It's OK, nothing too luxurious. More like a Hyatt Regency than a Park Hyatt. Yes (I got an advanced upgrade for much less reason than that).
Post by: bingit on May 02, 2016, 11:26:26 AM
Also how far of a drive is it from Flatbush?
Post by: yitrap on May 02, 2016, 12:11:29 PM
Anyone here stayed at W Hoboken recently? Is it easy to get upgraded to a suite for wedding night? Whats the best way to go about doing it? Calling front desk? E-mail? Speaking to manager? Thanks.Booked it for a friend around 5 months.
Also how far of a drive is it from Flatbush?
Pretty sure I booked the fabulous room, it was 18K on the phone's
I called the hotel and asked for manager she was real nice upgraded to a fantastic suite I think and sent up complimentary fruit plate
Drive was around 40 minutes iirc
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Post by: avadah on May 24, 2016, 01:51:00 AM
Post by: Theodorel on May 24, 2016, 01:52:52 AM
What's nice and not too far from lakewood? (Besides what's in the wiki) Doesn't need to be points hotel.Bungalow hotel
Post by: Super Speed on May 24, 2016, 08:44:12 AM
Post by: Dr Moose on May 24, 2016, 08:46:49 AM
Nicest hotel with 2 beds suite, near NY. (AFAF)There's a nice Marriott not too far from Buffalo.
Post by: SamKey on May 24, 2016, 11:29:13 AM
There's a nice Marriott not too far from Buffalo.LOL
Post by: high end hobo on June 06, 2016, 12:30:17 AM
I really want the andaz splash suite.
no cash and points available, but regular room available for 25k points.
I have no status now but I read that if you request a hyatt diamond status challenge, you get the status right away (but dont get the DSUs yet)
Do you think if request the challenge, book a regular room as a diamond, then i'll be able to successfully get upgraded?
Any other Ideas? I'm SPG gold
Thanks
Post by: Dan on June 06, 2016, 12:32:51 AM
Probably going to have to pay the $518+ and DSU it.
Post by: high end hobo on June 06, 2016, 12:35:44 AM
Unlikely.Eh not worth it then.
Probably going to have to pay the $518+ and DSU it.
Any ideas for places with higher chances of success?
Guys here wrote about the W hoboken and the St regis
Post by: high end hobo on June 06, 2016, 12:38:06 AM
Post by: hocker on June 06, 2016, 04:52:42 AM
Eh not worth it then.I went to the W hoboken, great place. Enjoyed a boat ride into the city the next morning for lunch. Had a great stay!
Any ideas for places with higher chances of success?
Guys here wrote about the W hoboken and the St regis
Only drawback they don't have any Suites with 2 beds, I opted for a smaller room with 2 beds.
Post by: elya on June 06, 2016, 06:43:22 AM
I went to the W hoboken, great place. Enjoyed a boat ride into the city the next morning for lunch. Had a great stay!IME most Hotels (at least the higher end ones) dont have suites with double beds.
Only drawback they don't have any Suites with 2 beds, I opted for a smaller room with 2 beds.
Post by: emak on June 06, 2016, 09:29:11 AM
Post by: AJK on June 06, 2016, 11:37:12 AM
Eh not worth it then.
Only get married once, bro. In five years, you won't remember the $500.
(One hopes.)
Post by: Emkay on June 06, 2016, 11:42:55 AM
Only get married once, bro. In five years, you won't remember the $500.Unless you take that $500 and buy gold. Then when the apocalypse strikes in 5 years you'll be a millionaire.
(One hopes.)
Post by: David Smith on June 06, 2016, 11:50:43 AM
Only get married once, bro. In five years, you won't remember the $500.One can say the same about these splurges and 100 years...
(One hopes.)
Post by: hachover on June 06, 2016, 11:54:41 AM
Only get married once, bro. In five years, you won't remember the $500.
(One hopes.)
In any other case, it's really only $250 if you live in a community property state :P
Post by: churnbabychurn on June 06, 2016, 11:55:42 AM
Only get married once, bro. In five years, you won't remember the $500.Meh. Imho just go home first night. - been discussed though ...
(One hopes.)
Post by: AJK on June 06, 2016, 12:21:51 PM
In any other case, it's really only $250 if you live in a community property state :P
lol
Meh. Imho just go home first night. - been discussed though ...
Pretty safe bet to assume you haven't been accused of being romatic, I guess.
Post by: yr on June 06, 2016, 12:47:17 PM
Eh not worth it then.
Any ideas for places with higher chances of success?
Guys here wrote about the W hoboken and the St regis
I just went to the St regis for our 3rd anniversary on points, no status. I emailed them before and they said they can't promise. When we got there they upgraded us to the "5th avenue suite", 2 bathrooms large and spacious, and it was Sunday night memorial day weekend.
Post by: mochjas on June 06, 2016, 12:51:03 PM
I just went to the St regis for our 3rd anniversary on points, no status. I emailed them before and they said they can't promise. When we got there they upgraded us to the "5th avenue suite", 2 bathrooms large and spacious, and it was Sunday night memorial day weekend.sunday night Memorial Day is a slow day in NYC btw
Post by: high end hobo on June 06, 2016, 01:50:40 PM
I went to the W hoboken, great place. Enjoyed a boat ride into the city the next morning for lunch. Had a great stay!Did they offer you a suite because it's your wedding night?
Only drawback they don't have any Suites with 2 beds, I opted for a smaller room with 2 beds.
I don't mind not having two beds, should I require it, a couch will suffice.
Only get married once, bro. In five years, you won't remember the $500.Easy for a lawyer to say then a law student about to be matriculated.
(One hopes.)
I just went to the St regis for our 3rd anniversary on points, no status. I emailed them before and they said they can't promise. When we got there they upgraded us to the "5th avenue suite", 2 bathrooms large and spacious, and it was Sunday night memorial day weekend.Sadly the St Regis is all booked up.
Thank you all for your advice. Any recommendations for something under 30k points/$400?
As of now thinking of booking the W Hoboken (20k spg) and trying to get a confirmed suite in advance, the wow suites look incredible
Post by: AJK on June 06, 2016, 01:52:15 PM
Post by: yitrap on June 06, 2016, 01:56:39 PM
Did they offer you a suite because it's your wedding night?I'd suggest calling SPG for the W they had a promotion running on some of the rooms that wasn't showing on the site.
I don't mind not having two beds, should I require it, a couch will suffice.Easy for a lawyer to say then a law student about to be matriculated.Sadly the St Regis is all booked up.
Thank you all for your advice. Any recommendations for something under 30k points/$400?
As of now thinking of booking the W Hoboken (20k spg) and trying to get a confirmed suite in advance, the wow suites look incredible
Post by: high end hobo on June 06, 2016, 02:01:22 PM
I say that now referring to when I was just a law student.Ok. If I can't get a confirmed suite elsewhere then maybe.
So if I pay cash I can forsure successfully use someones DSU? (A DDFer offered me one already thanks) There's still no guarantee I'll get the splash suite.
I'd suggest calling SPG for the W they had a promotion running on some of the rooms that wasn't showing on the site.I called them already. What type of promotion, using cash or points?
Post by: Dan on June 06, 2016, 02:02:50 PM
It has a couch and rollaways are free.
Should be able to find discounted Hyatt GC to lower the pain.
Post by: yitrap on June 06, 2016, 02:08:22 PM
Ok. If I can't get a confirmed suite elsewhere then maybe.Points.
So if I pay cash I can forsure successfully use someones DSU? (A DDFer offered me one already thanks) There's still no guarantee I'll get the splash suite.I called them already. What type of promotion, using cash or points?
Post by: AJK on June 06, 2016, 02:19:03 PM
Post by: efflpetzel on June 06, 2016, 02:51:00 PM
Meh. Imho just go home first night. - been discussed though ...+100,
Total waste
Go two weeks later....
Post by: Emkay on June 06, 2016, 02:53:11 PM
+100,Go then also.
Total waste
Go two weeks later....
Post by: high end hobo on June 06, 2016, 03:01:04 PM
You can't apply it to your reservation. But if you want, you can use my account and I'll check in before hand for you.Thanks, very kind of you. I showed pics to my kallah and now it looks like I have no choice ;)
I'm assuming you'll come to my wedding, room keys in hand?
Post by: Dan on June 06, 2016, 03:08:29 PM
And don't forget to order DIA kosher breakfast and ask the hotel about kosher champagne for your wedding night.
MT!
Post by: AJK on June 06, 2016, 03:12:19 PM
And you'll also save a couple bucks, too!
Post by: AJK on June 06, 2016, 03:12:53 PM
Thanks, very kind of you. I showed pics to my kallah and now it looks like I have no choice ;)
I'm assuming you'll come to my wedding, room keys in hand?
Don't know about coming to wedding, but I'm happy to meet you (or one of your friends) in midtown to pick up the keys.
Post by: churnbabychurn on June 06, 2016, 03:24:35 PM
Yeah, total waste to treat your brand new wife as a queen on the night of her wedding. Take her back to the apt you'll live in for the next however long. Much grander gesture.The day/night of the wedding is complicated and intense enough as it is.
And you'll also save a couple bucks, too!
Not exactly the best time to travel.
I personally went away etc. T'was magical. - But looking back, it is just crazy to put on yourself to worry about traveling, hotel keys, food, directions etc etc. On top of everything else, and at 2 in the morning..
Post by: MC on June 06, 2016, 03:28:19 PM
Yeah, total waste to treat your brand new wife as a queen on the night of her wedding. Take her back to the apt you'll live in for the next however long. Much grander gesture.
And you'll also save a couple bucks, too!
Not exactly agreeing/disagreeing, but I'd say pick a nice hotel that's within a 30 minute drive, upgrade with the 'wedding night' excuse, and decorate it beforehand tastefully and beautifully. I promise, she'll still feel like a queen.
Then save the over-the-top hotel for an anniversary or another night when you are a) not exhausted, b) not arriving past midnight, and c) a whole lot more comfortable and able to enjoy the room for what it is.
Post by: high end hobo on June 06, 2016, 03:31:26 PM
Be sure that you don't take the room keys. Give them to a parent or sibling for safekeeping until you're ready to leave the wedding.
And don't forget to order DIA kosher breakfast and ask the hotel about kosher champagne for your wedding night.
MT!
Thanks for all your help guys. I'm truly touched (and my kallah sees this website I'm so attached to isn't a total waste of time)
Where would Hyatt get the kosher breakfast from?
The day/night of the wedding is complicated and intense enough as it is.
Not exactly the best time to travel.
I personally went away etc. T'was magical. - But looking back, it is just crazy to put on yourself to worry about traveling, hotel keys, food, directions etc etc. On top of everything else, and at 2 in the morning..
My kallah wants a hotel for the wedding night and i respect what she wants. After I send her pics of the suite, she won't settle for anything less then a place with a giant tub in the middle. I can't go a few weeks later because I'll be in the Conrad Maldives.
I'm in the process of getting 400k+ points through her SSN iyh, so it's ok to splurge a bit :P
Post by: Dan on June 06, 2016, 03:34:14 PM
Where would Hyatt get the kosher breakfast from?Can get from anywhere. Milk & Honey, My most favorite, etc.
Post by: Emkay on June 06, 2016, 03:47:02 PM
That's precisely it. Its all about the moment. Stop looking back.
I personally went away etc. T'was magical. - But looking back....blah blah blah
Post by: 12HRS on June 06, 2016, 08:07:28 PM
Post by: yelped on June 06, 2016, 08:14:13 PM
i dont understand this fascination with hot tubs on wedding nights
+1
I get why going to a hotel for the wedding night sounds attractive for a Choson-Kallah, but really it makes more sense to save it for a later occasion such as an anniversary or, better yet, after you have a couple of kids and need to to get out. Then they will really appreciate it.
Post by: yochiek93 on June 06, 2016, 08:15:40 PM
+1Why not do both?
I get why going to a hotel for the wedding night sounds attractive for a Choson-Kallah, but really it makes more sense to save it for a later occasion such as an anniversary or, better yet, after you have a couple of kids and need to to get out. Then they will really appreciate it.
Post by: yelped on June 06, 2016, 08:27:08 PM
Why not do both?
I know I was on a very tight budget when I got married. I feel it would be good for people to know that it's totally not necessary and might even be wasteful to go to a hotel for a wedding night, and not feel like they're letting their spouse down by not taking them to one.
Now if you have extra money that you don't mind spending, then it's your prerogative to do with it as you wish, just as you can spend whatever you want on a extravagant and lavish wedding hall. Etc. As long as people don't feel compelled to keep up with the Schwartzes..
Post by: skyguy918 on June 06, 2016, 08:28:56 PM
i dont understand this fascination with hot tubs on wedding nightsI'll take it a step further... I don't understand the fascination with hot tubs at all.
Post by: yochiek93 on June 06, 2016, 08:29:19 PM
I'll take it a step further... I don't understand the fascination with hot tubs at all.So relaxing
Post by: yochiek93 on June 06, 2016, 08:30:19 PM
I know I was on a very tight budget when I got married. I feel it would be good for people to know that it's totally not necessary and might even be wasteful to go to a hotel for a wedding night, and not feel like they're letting their spouse down by not taking them to one.That's the problem with today's day and age
Now if you have extra money that you don't mind spending, then it's your prerogative to do with it as you wish, just as you can spend whatever you want on a extravagant and lavish wedding hall. Etc. As long as people don't feel compelled to keep up with the Schwartzes..
Btw did you go to a hotel on your wedding night? If yes why?
Post by: hvaces42 on June 06, 2016, 08:58:00 PM
That's the problem with today's day and ageDid you? ::)
Btw did you go to a hotel on your wedding night? If yes why?
Post by: yochiek93 on June 06, 2016, 09:00:14 PM
Did you? ::)I'll let you know when the time comes
Post by: Dr Moose on June 06, 2016, 09:43:27 PM
a whole lot more comfortable and able to enjoy the room for what it is.That's the main thing IMO. It's your first time, have no clue what you're doing, just leave all the flare aside.
On your honeymoon a couple months later is when you get the nicest room with the hot tub.
Post by: yelped on June 06, 2016, 10:23:59 PM
That's the problem with today's day and age
Btw did you go to a hotel on your wedding night? If yes why?
Exactly.
I didn't. And neither did any of my friends. And if they did, I definitely didn't know about it.
Post by: mochjas on June 06, 2016, 11:00:57 PM
Post by: aygart on June 06, 2016, 11:07:26 PM
Wedding night is definitely not the night to cheap out! Especially for people here who know how to get great deals! You have the rest of your life to be cheap!So get something nice but close and without useless stupidity that won't enhance anything anyhow.
Post by: Dan on June 06, 2016, 11:21:44 PM
Post by: jj1000 on June 06, 2016, 11:30:02 PM
That's the main thing IMO. It's your first time, have no clue what you're doing, just leave all the flare aside.I think the thread just shows on how it was for each person. I say get the best room possible :P
Post by: grodnoking on June 06, 2016, 11:31:51 PM
Post by: keemster26 on June 06, 2016, 11:38:07 PM
Why are there a bunch of single guys commenting on this thread?Lol
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 12:08:51 AM
Be sure that you don't take the room keys. Give them to a parent or sibling for safekeeping until you're ready to leave the wedding.
And don't forget to order DIA kosher breakfast and ask the hotel about kosher champagne for your wedding night.
MT!
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don't forget to order DIA kosher breakfast and ask the hotel about kosher champagne for your wedding night
thanks for the reminder :D :D
Post by: Baruch on June 07, 2016, 12:09:08 AM
אמר רבי חנן בר רבא הכל יודעין כלה למה נכנסה לחופה, אלא כל המנבל פיו אפילו חותמין עליו גזר דין של שבעים שנה לטובה הופכין עליו לרעה. אמר רבה בר שילא אמר רב חסדא: כל המנבל את פיו מעמיקין לו גיהנום.
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 12:10:48 AM
Wedding night is definitely not the night to cheap out! Especially for people here who know how to get great deals! You have the rest of your life to be cheap!
or any special night... we can generate so many points its silly to be stingy
Post by: beeweegee on June 07, 2016, 12:12:33 AM
When commenting on this thread please remember this:+1MMמסכת שבת, דף ל"ג, עמוד א' ב
אמר רבי חנן בר רבא הכל יודעין כלה למה נכנסה לחופה, אלא כל המנבל פיו אפילו חותמין עליו גזר דין של שבעים שנה לטובה הופכין עליו לרעה. אמר רבה בר שילא אמר רב חסדא: כל המנבל את פיו מעמיקין לו גיהנום.
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 12:12:47 AM
Post by: AJK on June 07, 2016, 12:13:43 AM
That's the main thing IMO. It's your first time, have no clue what you're doing, just leave all the flare aside.
On your honeymoon a couple months later is when you get the nicest room with the hot tub.
Spoken like a true veteran. How long have you been married?
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 12:16:07 AM
Post by: high end hobo on June 07, 2016, 12:29:49 AM
What would you guys do? Hyatt Diamond breakfast or go out to eat in Manhattan.. Money isnt the issue hereTake free breakfast and go out for lunch?
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 12:38:11 AM
Guys please dont nitpick my choices, I do have a mashpia and Chosson teacher who actually know me and can advise whats best.Take free breakfast and go out for lunch?
100% you gotta do what works for you. This is just a forum to help with ideas-planning etc. whoever is orthodox on here knows we all have a LOR who we can ask shaalos.
Depends on how good it is. I rather have an Uber bring good food if the food is borensteins airplane style.
Not a time to be stingy :)
Post by: mgarfin on June 07, 2016, 12:41:50 AM
or any special night... we can generate so many points its silly to be stingyTime is money.
Post by: high end hobo on June 07, 2016, 12:43:08 AM
Depends on how good it is. I rather have an Uber bring good food if the food is borensteins airplane style.
Not a time to be stingy :)
Can get from anywhere. Milk & Honey, My most favorite, etc.
Sounds good to me :)
Post by: Emkay on June 07, 2016, 07:07:42 AM
Sounds good to me :)When I was there I got $75 to spend on the menu.
Post by: Emkay on June 07, 2016, 07:10:24 AM
I know I was on a very tight budget when I got married. I feel it would be good for people to know that it's totally not necessary and might even be wasteful to go to a hotel for a wedding night, and not feel like they're letting their spouse down by not taking them to one.
Now if you have extra money that you don't mind spending, then it's your prerogative to do with it as you wish, just as you can spend whatever you want on a extravagant and lavish wedding hall. Etc. As long as people don't feel compelled to keep up with the Schwartzes..
You can't say something that you haven't done and have no concept of is wasteful.
Post by: yochiek93 on June 07, 2016, 08:27:47 AM
+1
You can't say something that you haven't done and have no concept of is wasteful.
Post by: SamKey on June 07, 2016, 10:38:52 AM
I went to the W hoboken, great place. Enjoyed a boat ride into the city the next morning for lunch. Had a great stay!I got a suite there with a couch which in the second room. A Yeshiva bachur could sleep anywhere but the second he's married he's already a mefunak...
Only drawback they don't have any Suites with 2 beds, I opted for a smaller room with 2 beds.
Post by: Yehuda57 on June 07, 2016, 10:50:26 AM
I got a suite there with a couch which in the second room. A Yeshiva bachur could sleep anywhere but the second he's married he's already a mefunak...
Or one significant other feels bad to sleep on a king size bed while the other sleeps on a sofa?*
*this is not only reference to a wedding night hotel stay.
Post by: churnbabychurn on June 07, 2016, 10:51:16 AM
Or one significant other feels bad to sleep on a king size bed while the other sleeps on a sofa?*King size bed should be for the king. No?
*this is not only reference to a wedding night hotel stay.
Post by: CS91 on June 07, 2016, 10:53:59 AM
King size bed should be for the king. No?
Pretty safe bet to assume you haven't been accused of being romatic, I guess.
Post by: churnbabychurn on June 07, 2016, 10:55:24 AM
Lol
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 10:55:46 AM
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 10:57:13 AM
But if the girl wants it, there's a time to be frugal and a time to spend and a wedding night is a time to spend. You'll never live it down otherwise.
Post by: churnbabychurn on June 07, 2016, 10:57:15 AM
You'll soon be a king without a crown...Ok I wasn't serious. - But in a perfect world...
Post by: Yehuda57 on June 07, 2016, 11:01:09 AM
You'll soon be a king without a crown...
אין מערבין פופקורן בפופקורן
Post by: efflpetzel on June 07, 2016, 11:09:54 AM
Bottom line is that a fancy hotel room with a tub is most likely a major waste of money and probably impractical to boot.I highly doubt any girl asks for a tub in the room on the wedding night,
But if the girl wants it, there's a time to be frugal and a time to spend and a wedding night is a time to spend. You'll never live it down otherwise.
Imho it's the men
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 11:14:40 AM
Post by: Yehuda57 on June 07, 2016, 11:15:04 AM
I highly doubt any girl asks for a tub in the room on the wedding night,
Imho it's the men
So anyone on this thread who says they did is lying?
This thread is awesome because it shows the incredibly wide spectrum of the Jewish community that is represented on this forum, each with their own customs - not to mention personalities and preferences. Yet many are convinced that everyone is doing it their way, and cannot fathom a differing view/choice/preference.
Post by: Emkay on June 07, 2016, 11:23:32 AM
I highly doubt any girl asks for a tub in the room on the wedding night,They think its cool but not that they would actually use it. Last time this convo came up it was (rightfully) swiftly deleted.
Imho it's the men
Post by: benjie1305 on June 07, 2016, 11:26:14 AM
Turns out, a smaller bed would have worked as well. :-\
Post by: ya on June 07, 2016, 11:28:17 AM
Thanks, very kind of you. I showed pics to my kallah and now it looks like I have no choice ;)Why is no one saying Park Hyatt. I have stayed a few times in the PH, St Regis and Andaz 5th ave. If you can get an upgrade in PH stay ther forsure.
I'm assuming you'll come to my wedding, room keys in hand?
Post by: mochjas on June 07, 2016, 11:29:30 AM
Anyway we get to the hotel and I ended up leaving my ID at home! took like 45 minutes to check in, they wouldnt take CC from me for payment they just made me pay cash for the room and luckily they let me check in!
Post by: churnbabychurn on June 07, 2016, 11:29:30 AM
We just wanted a big bed in order to sort and count the checks and cash on that we received.Lol
Turns out, a smaller bed would have worked as well. :-\
Post by: SamKey on June 07, 2016, 11:37:59 AM
Or one significant other feels bad to sleep on a king size bed while the other sleeps on a sofa?*Oh please any girl that says that is lying. A girl loves to be treated royally.
*this is not only reference to a wedding night hotel stay.
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 11:42:59 AM
Why is no one saying Park Hyatt. I have stayed a few times in the PH, St Regis and Andaz 5th ave. If you can get an upgrade in PH stay ther forsure.PH is a lot more for an upgradeable room.
Post by: jj1000 on June 07, 2016, 11:46:02 AM
We just wanted a big bed in order to sort and count the checks and cash that we received. :PALOL!
Turns out, a smaller bed would have worked as well. :-\
Post by: Yehuda57 on June 07, 2016, 11:58:41 AM
any girl
Well, I know someone who likes yellow Laffy Taffies!
The idea that someone wouldn't want to sleep luxuriously while someone they care about is slumming it (in comparison) is ridiculous to you? If the roles were switched and your wife was sleeping on the couch - how would you feel?
Post by: Emkay on June 07, 2016, 11:59:39 AM
Well, I know someone who likes yellow Laffy Taffies!pick me. :)
Post by: yelped on June 07, 2016, 12:36:37 PM
So anyone on this thread who says they did is lying?
This thread is awesome because it shows the incredibly wide spectrum of the Jewish community that is represented on this forum, each with their own customs - not to mention personalities and preferences. Yet many are convinced that everyone is doing it their way, and cannot fathom a differing view/choice/preference.
I hope you don't mean me :) I was just pointing out that no one should feel bad that they weren't taken to a hotel on their wedding night. Because as pointed out by others, it's not the most practical time to go away.
Post by: mochjas on June 07, 2016, 12:38:40 PM
I hope you don't mean me :) I was just pointing out that no one should feel bad that they weren't taken to a hotel on their wedding night. Because as pointed out by others, it's not the most practical time to go away.no one is going away on their wedding night.
Post by: ya on June 07, 2016, 12:59:23 PM
PH is a lot more for an upgradeable room.To a suite maybe? but to a larger room they always give upgrades even on free nights.
Post by: mgarfin on June 07, 2016, 01:02:26 PM
This thread is awesome because it shows the incredibly wide spectrum of the Jewish community that is represented on this forum, each with their own customs - not to mention personalities and preferences. Yet many are convinced that everyone is doing it their way, and cannot fathom a differing view/choice/preference.
If only for the incredibly wide spectrum of the Jewish community that is represented on this forum, I love DDF!!
BTW "I THINK" the ultra Orthodox/Chasidim aren't well represented on the forums, as you can see in this thread. Probably for a lack of English skills.
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 02:05:13 PM
To a suite maybe? but to a larger room they always give upgrades even on free nights.Those rooms don't have a couch. Do they even have room for a rollaway?
Post by: mochjas on June 07, 2016, 02:06:53 PM
Those rooms don't have a couch. Do they even have room for a rollaway?you can use a dsu for a Jr. Suite and points and cash
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 02:12:09 PM
you can use a dsu for a Jr. Suite and points and cashOnce you're paying $300+15K for cat 7 C+P you might as well do the $500 Andaz for the full Splash suite vs a PH Jr suite IMHO.
Plus Andaz gives kosher brekkie without a fuss.
I hear the opposing argument (especially if you would use the PH pool), I just wasn't blown away by the PH.
Post by: ya on June 07, 2016, 02:14:16 PM
Once you're paying $300+15K for cat 7 C+P you might as well do the $500 Andaz for the full Splash suite vs a PH Jr suite IMHO.maybe. but i would still go with PH. PH is most luxurious chain hotel in the city now. Dan have you stayed ther?
Plus Andaz gives kosher brekkie without a fuss.
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 02:15:16 PM
maybe. but i would still go with PH. PH is most luxurious chain hotel in the city now. Dan have you stayed ther?See ETA above.
Personally I didn't find PH NYC service to be special in any way. PHs in North America are nothing like their international versions which I love.
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 02:23:03 PM
Once you're paying $300+15K for cat 7 C+P you might as well do the $500 Andaz for the full Splash suite vs a PH Jr suite IMHO.
Plus Andaz gives kosher brekkie without a fuss.
I hear the opposing argument (especially if you would use the PH pool), I just wasn't blown away by the PH.
$300 hyatt GC can be had for good discounts online. I personally disagree but I'll let ya know ;)
specs (size wise) are pretty close..
http://newyork.5thavenue.andaz.hyatt.com/en/hotel/rooms/suite.html
http://newyork.park.hyatt.com/en/hotel/rooms/suites.html
BH we can afford points wise both options for many special occasions..
Post by: ya on June 07, 2016, 02:27:23 PM
See ETA above.Also depends if you are staying in a PH city hotel or PH resort.
Personally I didn't find PH NYC service to be special in any way. PHs in North America are nothing like their international versions which I love.
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 02:29:14 PM
$300 hyatt GC can be had for good discounts online. I personally disagree but I'll let ya know ;)$500 Hyatt GC also has good discounts online.
specs (size wise) are pretty close..
http://newyork.5thavenue.andaz.hyatt.com/en/hotel/rooms/suite.html
http://newyork.park.hyatt.com/en/hotel/rooms/suites.html
BH we can afford points wise both options for many special occasions..
For me the free minibar+kosher breakfast+higher tier suite tips it in favor of the Andaz, but you won't go wrong either way.
Post by: high end hobo on June 07, 2016, 02:31:08 PM
PH offered me over the phone a suite for $400 + 25 or 30k (can't remember) points.
I declined
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 02:48:26 PM
Where can I find discounted GC other then card cash?
PH offered me over the phone a suite for $400 + 25 or 30k (can't remember) points.
I declined
google is your friend.. cardcash with ink is a good idea though.. but look around.. you'll already find..
Post by: AROCKS1 on June 07, 2016, 02:51:06 PM
Where can I find discounted GC other then card cash?
PH offered me over the phone a suite for $400 + 25 or 30k (can't remember) points.
I declined
Very smart move IMO. Why waste those points when you can get a DSU for free? The hassle of booking through someone else is obviously a factor, but nowhere near the cost of 25K points.
Post by: @Yehuda on June 07, 2016, 02:59:49 PM
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Hi @Yehuda,
It was wonderful speaking with you yesterday – thank you for reaching out. I checked on our points plus cash availability for the summer for you, and unfortunately, we are unable to extend the points plus cash option for your requested dates, as the hotel is no longer offering this booking option. Please do let me know if I can help you in any other way.
Best wishes,
ZAHRA M. ASHARIA
Reservations Coordinator
Andaz 5th Avenue
485 5th Avenue, New York, NY 10017
Check into Hyatt Regency Jersey City. I once got someone there into the Bridal Suite (yes, they have a specific Bridal Suite).
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 03:44:43 PM
Post by: mochjas on June 07, 2016, 03:45:22 PM
once youre going to NJ I think the W Hoboken wow or extreme wow suites are nicernot easy to get those. You will most likely end up in a fantastic suite
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 04:06:13 PM
not easy to get those. You will most likely end up in a fantastic suite
paying..
Post by: mochjas on June 07, 2016, 04:16:10 PM
paying..they go for 1k a night
Post by: Chapshnell on June 07, 2016, 04:19:47 PM
they go for 1k a night
nah.. $690 random date in july.. can probably get for cheaper too.
YOGMO (hopefully)
Post by: Dr Moose on June 07, 2016, 04:20:32 PM
they go for 1k a night
Money isnt the issue here
Post by: Luvtotravel on June 07, 2016, 04:31:38 PM
If only for the incredibly wide spectrum of the Jewish community that is represented on this forum, I love DDF!!just to balance things out a bit here...
BTW "I THINK" the ultra Orthodox/Chasidim aren't well represented on the forums, as you can see in this thread.Probably for a lack of English skills.
im sure a hotel on a wedding night is all fine and dandy but there's something to be said for sweeping your brand new wife into your brand new home to start your life together in your own abode. no hotel staff or check in or splash or wow suites to distract from your delight at finally being HOME. just my $0.02.
Post by: jj1000 on June 07, 2016, 04:33:12 PM
just to balance things out a bit here...May as well make nice with the mice and cockroaches now in their Brooklyn 1 bedroom apt costing $2k/mo.
im sure a hotel on a wedding night is all fine and dandy but there's something to be said for sweeping your brand new wife into your brand new home to start your life together in your own abode. no hotel staff or check in or splash or wow suites to distract from your delight at finally being HOME. just my $0.02.
If it's a new house that's one thing but of its not...
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 04:33:27 PM
Post by: Luvtotravel on June 07, 2016, 04:35:02 PM
May as well make nice with the mice and cockroaches now in their Brooklyn 1 bedroom apt costing $2k/mo.if they cannot afford to get rid of their mice and cockroaches, they have a bigger problem on their hands that no suite will make up for.
If it's a new house that's one thing but of its not...
Post by: jj1000 on June 07, 2016, 04:38:30 PM
Eh. What's not represented here are guys marrying girls in different cities.I did. Spent the first 3 nights in her city in a great suite on the ocean. It was worth every penny.
Relaxing on that balcony with all the wedding and Sheva beach craziness was priceless.
if they cannot afford to get rid of their mice and cockroaches, they have a bigger problem on their hands that no suite will make up for.Moving out of Brooklyn isn't an option for everyone..
Post by: David Smith on June 07, 2016, 04:41:42 PM
May as well make nice with the mice and cockroaches now in their Brooklyn 1 bedroom apt costing $2k/mo.I guess you're 100% right. I've never seen a normal starter apartment in Brooklyn for under $2k/mo. Must've been my delusions thinking that there were places in Brooklyn without mice and cockroaches.
If it's a new house that's one thing but of its not...
Post by: jj1000 on June 07, 2016, 04:43:39 PM
I guess you're 100% right. I've never seen a normal starter apartment in Brooklyn for under $2k/mo. Must've been my delusions thinking that there were places in Brooklyn without mice and cockroaches.No worries. Common mistake. :P
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 04:43:59 PM
I did. Spent the first 3 nights in her city in a great suite on the ocean. It was worth every penny.That was my point.
Relaxing on that balcony with all the wedding and Sheva beach craziness was priceless.
Post by: Yehuda57 on June 07, 2016, 05:02:00 PM
Eh. What's not represented here are guys marrying girls in different cities.
We're here, but there's not much to discuss -of course we went to hotels.
Post by: mochjas on June 07, 2016, 05:11:50 PM
nah.. $690 random date in july.. can probably get for cheaper too.yes but if you are willing to spend about $800 in your case you might as well stayin NYC and get the splash suite by andaz 5th for much less using a DSU
YOGMO (hopefully)
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 05:14:25 PM
Post by: ejb123 on June 07, 2016, 05:19:18 PM
Post by: yochiek93 on June 07, 2016, 05:20:07 PM
On a totally different note, assuming the purpose of getting a room with tub is for the tub to get used and not just to be looked at, do people actually have an issue with using a bathtub in a hotel room? Do you assume that housekeeping thoroughly cleans it after after use or do you plan to bring your own bathroom cleaner and ask your new wife (or husband) to clean the tub before using it...Good point
Post by: mochjas on June 07, 2016, 05:23:53 PM
On a totally different note, assuming the purpose of getting a room with tub is for the tub to get used and not just to be looked at, do people actually have an issue with using a bathtub in a hotel room? Do you assume that housekeeping thoroughly cleans it every day or do you plan to bring your own bathroom cleaner and ask your new wife (or husband) to clean the tub before using it...obviously it depends on the hotel. The andaz 5th I assume that they clean it every time... On the other hand, Cove haven in the poconos I would not assume that they clean it
Post by: ya on June 07, 2016, 05:24:51 PM
On a totally different note, assuming the purpose of getting a room with tub is for the tub to get used and not just to be looked at, do people actually have an issue with using a bathtub in a hotel room? Do you assume that housekeeping thoroughly cleans it every day or do you plan to bring your own bathroom cleaner and ask your new wife (or husband) to clean the tub before using it...wife gotta start somewhere.
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 05:29:33 PM
obviously it depends on the hotel. The andaz 5th I assume that they clean it every time... On the other hand, Cove haven in the poconos I would not assume that they clean it+1
Post by: Emkay on June 07, 2016, 06:13:09 PM
I guess you're 100% right. I've never seen a normal starter apartment in Brooklyn for under $2k/mo.You either never really looked or never really looked.
Post by: Emkay on June 07, 2016, 06:16:49 PM
I was being sarcastic.Aha. Over my head. I'll go to sleep now.
Post by: mgarfin on June 07, 2016, 06:29:52 PM
May as well make nice with the mice and cockroaches now in their Brooklyn 1 bedroom apt costing $2k/mo.
If it's a new house that's one thing but of its not...
In perspective of a hole life, 2 nights in a hotel, makes no difference.
Eh. What's not represented here are guys marrying girls in different cities.
I dont get in what context your "Eh"ing.
There not present in discussions on DDF in general.This discution brings it out.
Most Casidim from BP or Wili dont even consider a hotel. Wedding night is very different.
Post by: whacked1 on June 07, 2016, 06:44:47 PM
I guess you're 100% right. I've never seen a normal starter apartment in Brooklyn for under $2k/mo. Must've been my delusions thinking that there were places in Brooklyn without mice and cockroaches.Are you kidding?!? Where are you looking Bushwick? Brooklyn is expensive, but not that expensive.
You either never really looked or never really looked.+1
Post by: Dan on June 07, 2016, 06:50:48 PM
Post by: AJK on June 07, 2016, 08:55:56 PM
just to balance things out a bit here...
im sure a hotel on a wedding night is all fine and dandy but there's something to be said for sweeping your brand new wife into your brand new home to start your life together in your own abode. no hotel staff or check in or splash or wow suites to distract from your delight at finally being HOME. just my $0.02.
My friend, no matter how much lipstick you lather on it, it's still a pig.
Ain't no convincing your wife it's *more romantic* and is a grander gesture to take her to your apartment than to a beautiful hotel.
Post by: Dr Moose on June 07, 2016, 09:44:50 PM
just to balance things out a bit here...It's not yet "home" at that point. Need to live there first to be considered home.
im sure a hotel on a wedding night is all fine and dandy but there's something to be said for sweeping your brand new wife into your brand new home to start your life together in your own abode. no hotel staff or check in or splash or wow suites to distract from your delight at finally being HOME. just my $0.02.
Post by: E R K on June 08, 2016, 12:01:16 AM
Post by: Luvtotravel on June 08, 2016, 12:41:41 AM
Nothing like a nice hotel to focus on your spouse.?
i wouldnt suggest getting a wagyu steak only to slather on the duck sauce.
Post by: Luvtotravel on June 08, 2016, 12:42:35 AM
It's not yet "home" at that point. Need to live there first to be considered home.no better way than to make it a home than to spend the first night of the rest of your lives there
Post by: Yehuda57 on June 08, 2016, 12:50:58 AM
no better way than to make it a home than to spend the first night of the rest of your lives thereOr buy a waffle iron
Post by: Emkay on June 08, 2016, 04:21:09 AM
?And I wouldn't order a wagyu steak by a rodeo.
i wouldnt suggest getting a wagyu steak only to slather on the duck sauce.
Post by: 12HRS on June 08, 2016, 08:09:39 AM
In your brand new home, you're probably distracted with all the boxes and wedding gifts that need toiveling and put away etc. Nothing like a nice hotel to focus on your spouse.
this sounds purely like a female perspective
Post by: Luvtotravel on June 08, 2016, 09:41:21 AM
In your brand new home, you're probably distracted with all the boxes and wedding gifts that need toiveling and put away etc.thats not how it works by
the ultra Orthodox/Chasidimthe apartment is prepared to perfection weeks before by a horde of friends and family. for the most part
Post by: David Smith on June 08, 2016, 09:46:14 AM
thats not how it works byDon't let facts distract us over here!
the apartment is prepared to perfection weeks before by a horde of friends and family. for the most part
Post by: Emkay on June 08, 2016, 09:51:43 AM
this sounds purely like a female perspectiveIts actually precisely what many (male) chossen teachers say.
Post by: gozalim on June 08, 2016, 10:55:54 AM
this sounds purely like a female perspectivewhich is why it's the romantic way to go. You don't woo her from your male bachelor perspective
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 12:02:41 PM
Are you kidding?!? Where are you looking Bushwick? Brooklyn is expensive, but not that expensive.+1Yes it is. Show me an updated APT in Brooklyn for under $1800?
Post by: Emkay on June 08, 2016, 12:10:54 PM
Yes it is. Show me an updated APT in Brooklyn for under $1800?It would seem like you haven't either checked to much.( or have a terrible agent)
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 12:14:47 PM
It would seem like you haven't either checked to much.( or have a terrible agent)I guess it depends what area. And i will not love in a building or basement. I have seen over 30 Apts recently
Post by: skyguy918 on June 08, 2016, 03:53:10 PM
I guess it depends what area. And i will not love in a building or basement. I have seen over 30 Apts recentlyWait, what? You need an apartment, but you won't look at apartment buildings or basements? So you're saying you want to rent a house.
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 03:54:31 PM
Wait, what? You need an apartment, but you won't look at apartment buildings or basements? So you're saying you want to rent a house.apts in a private house. Many all over flatbush. Most young cpls lving in flatbush live like this.
Post by: AJK on June 08, 2016, 04:00:50 PM
which is why it's the romantic way to go. You don't woo her from your male bachelor perspective
lol, +1
Post by: skyguy918 on June 08, 2016, 04:01:19 PM
apts in a private house. Many all over flatbush. Most young cpls lving in flatbush live like this.The point is you can't say there are no apts for that price, and then when someone presses you on that claim, say you meant only xyz apartment types (which are generally more expensive).
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 04:48:19 PM
The point is you can't say there are no apts for that price, and then when someone presses you on that claim, say you meant only xyz apartment types (which are generally more expensive).Do you want to live in a building? For a lot of Ppl that's on even an option
Post by: skyguy918 on June 08, 2016, 04:50:28 PM
Do you want to live in a building? For a lot of Ppl that's on even an optionI have lived in a building. Can you explain it to me? What's the problem?
Post by: AROCKS1 on June 08, 2016, 04:52:19 PM
apts in a private house. Many all over flatbush. Most young cpls lving in flatbush live like this.
Not sure what your friends salaries or hashkafos are like, but of my friends (who all vary greatly in their salaries and hashkafos), none of them live in split private house in flatbush
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 04:59:33 PM
I have lived in a building. Can you explain it to me? What's the problem?1)W/D . 2)Backyard 3)parking 4) noise 5) bugs/mice and many more.
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 05:00:16 PM
Not sure what your friends salaries or hashkafos are like, but of my friends (who all vary greatly in their salaries and hashkafos), none of them live in split private house in flatbushthey all live in buildings?
Post by: skyguy918 on June 08, 2016, 05:02:50 PM
1)W/D . 2)Backyard 3)parking 4) noise 5) bugs/mice and many more.You can have each of these be a problem in a house and each (except the backyard for the most part) not be an problem in a building. More importantly though, those things have an intrinsic cost to them. Many people go without them if they can't afford it. So for you to suggest that no one can stand a building is super snobbish and comes off sounding like a rich brat - to be perfectly honest :P
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 05:04:09 PM
Not sure what your friends salaries or hashkafos are like, but of my friends (who all vary greatly in their salaries and hashkafos), none of them live in split private house in flatbushHow does hashkafos have to do with anything?
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 05:05:48 PM
You can have each of these be a problem in a house and each (except the backyard for the most part) not be an problem in a building. More importantly though, those things have an intrinsic cost to them. Many people go without them if they can't afford it. So for you to suggest that no one can stand a building is super snobbish and comes off sounding like a rich brat - to be perfectly honest :PNo- W/D is considered normal thing to have as a family. So does a car? Can you say a family in bk can get away with it? Yes but still considered normal.
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 05:10:37 PM
You can have each of these be a problem in a house and each (except the backyard for the most part) not be an problem in a building. More importantly though, those things have an intrinsic cost to them. Many people go without them if they can't afford it. So for you to suggest that no one can stand a building is super snobbish and comes off sounding like a rich brat - to be perfectly honest :P$wise its not worth to live in a building with no parking. Parking is going to cost you $150 per month around. Some have higher rent and its included some have it as an added fee. Thats $5 per day. If you live near a building with no parking I can work at a gas station an hour a day ( thats what it would take to find parking) and make $15 so im up $10
Post by: skyguy918 on June 08, 2016, 05:26:44 PM
No- W/D is considered normal thing to have as a family. So does a car? Can you say a family in bk can get away with it? Yes but still considered normal.
$wise its not worth to live in a building with no parking. Parking is going to cost you $150 per month around. Some have higher rent and its included some have it as an added fee. Thats $5 per day. If you live near a building with no parking I can work at a gas station an hour a day ( thats what it would take to find parking) and make $15 so im up $10You're getting less coherent as the conversation goes on. Suffice it to say, there are plenty of people - young frum couples among them - who make do without some of the luxuries you say put apartment buildings out of the question. If you can't afford a washer/dryer in your apt, you go to the building laundry room or a laundromat. If you can't afford to pay for parking, you park on the street even if it takes up your time and you often have to park a few minutes away.
Post by: 12HRS on June 08, 2016, 05:38:10 PM
which is why it's the romantic way to go. You don't woo her from your male bachelor perspective
i know...just pointing it out for the uninitiated
Post by: Ergel on June 08, 2016, 05:41:27 PM
No- W/D is considered normal thing to have as a family. So does a car? Can you say a family in bk can get away with it? Yes but still considered normal.I lived for five years without W/D or a place to park. We didn't think that was not normal.
Is house living more comfortable, sure. But there are other factors to life
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 05:49:37 PM
I lived for five years without W/D or a place to park. We didn't think that was not normal.Just because u lived without doesn't make it normal. In the 1800 no one had cars or cell phones either. What's ur point.
Is house living more comfortable, sure. But there are other factors to life
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 05:51:49 PM
You're getting less coherent as the conversation goes on. Suffice it to say, there are plenty of people - young frum couples among them - who make do without some of the luxuries you say put apartment buildings out of the question. If you can't afford a washer/dryer in your apt, you go to the building laundry room or a laundromat. If you can't afford to pay for parking, you park on the street even if it takes up your time and you often have to park a few minutes away.W/d is not a luxury. Sorry.
Post by: skyguy918 on June 08, 2016, 05:56:49 PM
Just because u lived without doesn't make it normal. In the 1800 no one had cars or cell phones either. What's ur point.And just because you say it's not normal, doesn't make it so.
W/d is not a luxury. Sorry.W/d in your apartment (which clearly the discussion here, as every building has a laundry room - and there are laundromats all over the place - so we're not talking about not having any access to laundry) is absolutely a luxury. Your insistence to the contrary is simply proof that you're a snob.
Post by: ya on June 08, 2016, 06:06:12 PM
And just because you say it's not normal, doesn't make it so.W/d in your apartment (which clearly the discussion here, as every building has a laundry room - and there are laundromats all over the place - so we're not talking about not having any access to laundry) is absolutely a luxury. Your insistence to the contrary is simply proof that you're a snob.Having access to a public w/d is simliar to having access to public transportation. Do you have a car?
Post by: Emkay on June 08, 2016, 06:16:42 PM
Having access to a public w/d is simliar to having access to public transportation. Do you have a car?Many apts have W/Ds in the apts and the buildings all have.
Post by: AJK on June 08, 2016, 07:25:45 PM
W/d in your apartment (which clearly the discussion here, as every building has a laundry room - and there are laundromats all over the place - so we're not talking about not having any access to laundry) is absolutely a luxury.
+1
Since when did W/D in apt and assigned parking become a necessity of life?
Post by: Dan on June 08, 2016, 07:33:37 PM
Post by: whacked1 on June 08, 2016, 07:41:40 PM
W/D, most buildings (for sure all frum ones) have in the basement. A lot of landlords allow (or have a dont ask dont tell policy) in the apts. Mice and bugs, you can very easily have in a private house. At least buildings exterminate minimum of once a month. Plus there is no comparison between the living space in buildings vs private. No way are you getting even close to the same square ft.
Post by: Denverite on June 08, 2016, 07:43:30 PM
Post by: Dan on June 08, 2016, 07:45:11 PM
All I know is that this discussion is making me super happy I don't live in NY...can you guys move all this over the "Pros and Cons of Where You Live" thread and add this to all the negatives of NY? For $2000 a month in many OOT cities that's a normal 15 yr mortgage and mice should never be normal so "normal" is definitely relative!2 mortgages in some cities :)
Post by: Denverite on June 08, 2016, 07:51:40 PM
2 mortgages in some cities :)
Amen, brother! How about making your kallah happy by moving to a city where you can have a normal quality of life and financial security? I'm concerned I happened upon the "adventures in 3rd world travels thread" with discussions of rodents, no laundry, etc...although I guess it's actually more comparable to living in the developing world since you all seem to have consistent hot water and don't have rolling brown outs in NY! :P
Post by: aygart on June 08, 2016, 08:01:11 PM
Post by: Denverite on June 08, 2016, 08:01:54 PM
Why would you need a washer dryer in a wedding night hotel? To fold laundry together? How romantic.
LOL. They got WAY off topic and were arguing about apts. not hotels. ;)
Post by: aygart on June 08, 2016, 08:11:28 PM
LOL. They got WAY off topic and were arguing about apts. not hotels. ;)Okay all is good as long they were arguing.....
Post by: ya on June 09, 2016, 01:16:42 PM
I survived in an apt building without W/D for 3 years. Not the end of the world, though it sure is nice to have a house with attached garage and backyard.of course i can survive without a W/D. Im just saying having one is not called a luxury.
Post by: ya on June 09, 2016, 01:21:05 PM
In lkwd for $875 you can get a 2br with parking and a w/d brand new apt in a private house. I guess some people think its worth it to pay $1000 per month for the privilege to live in Brooklyn.
Post by: SamKey on June 09, 2016, 01:29:37 PM
I dont think anyone can say otherwise :at the end of the day living in Brooklyn is just horrible. No human should ever have to go through this.You seem like a terrible person and your data is incorrect
In lkwd for $875 you can get a 2br with parking and a w/d brand new apt in a private house. I guess some people think its worth it to pay $1000 per month for the privilege to live in Brooklyn.
Post by: gozalim on June 09, 2016, 01:35:32 PM
Post by: ya on June 09, 2016, 01:35:54 PM
You seem like a terrible person and your data is incorrectwhich data?
Post by: ya on June 09, 2016, 01:36:29 PM
Newlyweds in some brooklyn neighborhoods (CH) having a car might be a luxury (and a PITA)in CH it does seem more common for young couples to NOT have a car.
Post by: SamKey on June 09, 2016, 01:39:49 PM
which data?Prices in Lakewood
Post by: ya on June 09, 2016, 01:42:04 PM
Prices in Lakewooda friend of mine just got one for $875... regardless the market norm is under $1,000
Post by: churnbabychurn on June 09, 2016, 01:47:13 PM
a friend of mine just got one for $875... regardless the market norm is under $1,000+1
Post by: Emkay on June 09, 2016, 07:01:48 PM
But the quality of life for some is absolutely horrid.
In lkwd for $875 you can get a 2br with parking and a w/d brand new apt in a private house. I guess some people think its worth it to pay $1000 per month for the privilege to live in Brooklyn.
Post by: ya on June 09, 2016, 07:04:41 PM
But the quality of life for some is absolutely horrid.Compared to Brooklyn it's way higher
Post by: Emkay on June 09, 2016, 07:13:11 PM
Compared to Brooklyn it's way higherDepends to who.
Post by: yochiek93 on June 09, 2016, 07:30:43 PM
Compared to Brooklyn it's way higherI'm which way?
Post by: ya on June 09, 2016, 07:34:51 PM
I'm which way?In a bad way
Post by: Emkay on June 09, 2016, 07:39:40 PM
In a bad wayVery informative.
Post by: yelped on June 09, 2016, 08:39:33 PM
Very informative.Lol.
Post by: moisheyb on June 15, 2016, 06:47:41 PM
Post by: mochjas on June 15, 2016, 07:37:51 PM
Sorry to interrupt this conversation. What would be the hotel to go in nyc using the Ritz free night certificate, ok paying for a suite but it should have 2 beds...they don't really make suites with 2 beds unless you are fine with a rollaway
Post by: moisheyb on June 15, 2016, 07:39:28 PM
they don't really make suites with 2 beds unless you are fine with a rollaway
Right
Anyone ever heard of the carlton hotel (autograph collection)?
Post by: israbear89 on June 26, 2016, 01:41:50 PM
Once you're paying $300+15K for cat 7 C+P you might as well do the $500 Andaz for the full Splash suite vs a PH Jr suite IMHO.
Plus Andaz gives kosher brekkie without a fuss.
I hear the opposing argument (especially if you would use the PH pool), I just wasn't blown away by the PH.
Sorry, but am I missing something in terms of using a DSU on the Andaz 5th? A king room is 399 after taxes. How does it come out to 500+? Is that not considered their standard room?
Post by: Dan on June 26, 2016, 01:50:34 PM
It was $500 for the night he wanted. Prices change by the night.
Sorry, but am I missing something in terms of using a DSU on the Andaz 5th? A king room is 399 after taxes. How does it come out to 500+? Is that not considered their standard room?
Post by: high end hobo on July 01, 2016, 02:59:43 PM
Hello High end hobo,
Thank you for reaching out! Congratulations on your upcoming nuptials-we're thrilled that you have chosen to celebrate this momentous occasion with us!
Not sure if you were aware but we are in the process of renovating our guestrooms. I reviewed our renovation schedule and over the specific dates you have provided, our specialty Suites are actually scheduled to be renovated. For this reason I am unfortunately unable to accommodate your request this time. However in commemoration of your wedding night, I have taken the liberty of upgrading your reservation to one of our Fantastic Suites which is highly requested by our wedding stay guests.
Our entire team truly appreciates your loyalty to us and we greatly look forward to welcoming you. If I can be of additional assistance in any way, please let me know.
All the best,
Helen
Post by: JayR on July 01, 2016, 03:51:42 PM
Post by: moisheyb on July 05, 2016, 02:05:07 PM
Post by: Flying Fish on July 14, 2016, 01:21:23 PM
Post by: coralsnake on July 14, 2016, 01:34:47 PM
Can someone provide an explanation of why Park Hyatt NYC is unbookable with points? Aren't there supposed to be no blackouts? Standard cash rates are available...It IS bookable. Search tomorrow night 7/15/16.
Park King 30k or 15k+$300.
Post by: Emkay on July 14, 2016, 01:58:41 PM
Can someone provide an explanation of why Park Hyatt NYC is unbookable with points? Aren't there supposed to be no blackouts? Standard cash rates are available...You found a night that there is Park King available for revenue and not points? (not Park Deluxe King).
Either way there likely is a 5 day minimum at times.
Post by: Emkay on July 14, 2016, 02:01:31 PM
If anyone knows how to book the park hyatt suites for cheap, or has any other ideas for a double bed suite in the city points or cash, the help would be much appreciated!!! The conrad and kimberly are sold out....C&P and ask them for the double-bed suite.
Post by: moisheyb on July 14, 2016, 02:02:31 PM
C&P and ask them for the double-bed suite.
Thanks there no ppints option available
Post by: Emkay on July 14, 2016, 02:05:03 PM
Thanks there no ppints option available
Either way there likely is a 5 day minimum at times.
Is it available if you extend the stay?
Post by: moisheyb on July 14, 2016, 02:06:26 PM
Is it available if you extend the stay?
Oh idk I went a different option. Thx
Post by: davidmal on July 14, 2016, 03:06:01 PM
Post by: Flying Fish on July 21, 2016, 04:40:17 PM
yes but if you are willing to spend about $800 in your case you might as well stayin NYC and get the splash suite by andaz 5th for much less using a DSUIs there a way for a someone without status to do this?
Post by: JayR on July 21, 2016, 05:43:05 PM
Plat status so got upgraded to larger room and drink vouchers. Wanted $500 extra for suite (booked with points).
Post by: davidmal on July 26, 2016, 04:02:02 PM
Is there a way for a someone without status to do this?What's so nice about the splash suite it's a bath tub
It sounds like your getting a pool
Post by: emak on August 07, 2016, 09:43:01 AM
Post by: davidmal on August 08, 2016, 10:16:51 AM
Random data point: The Andaz Wall Street may be a great option to use a DSU (cheaper than Andaz 5th), however most of their rooms have glass bathrooms. You can request specific suites on the 7th floor that don't have the glass bathrooms, if you'd like to avoid that awkwardness. :PI think in China Culture it's ceremonial..... ;D :P
Post by: palm tights on October 19, 2016, 05:12:13 AM
Post by: Luvtotravel on October 26, 2016, 07:34:16 AM
Maybe not the right thread ,since was looking to find such thread but didn't, does anyone know of a place either nyc ,Brooklyn ,queens or even jersey where i can find a private spa for a couple to rent for few hours ,like a private room that has all inside?Caesars hotels aren't spas but some rooms have pools hot tubs massage tables...
Post by: TorontoGuy on November 14, 2016, 12:12:40 PM
Post by: high end hobo on November 14, 2016, 12:29:49 PM
I'm staying the W Hoboken iyh on the night(s) following our wedding. Any info on how to get breakfast delivered to the hotel?I got from a place in Teaneck, pretty simple
Post by: ADG on November 14, 2016, 01:18:05 PM
I'm staying the W Hoboken iyh on the night(s) following our wedding. Any info on how to get breakfast delivered to the hotel?
Mazal tov! smart thinking that far ahead.
Post by: B.D.Da'ehu on November 17, 2016, 05:58:58 PM
Post by: sams on November 17, 2016, 06:15:48 PM
Post by: mochjas on November 17, 2016, 06:17:26 PM
Which hotels in NYC give kosher breakfast with top status? Andaz still does? Waldorf?only hyatt brands. Waldorf doesn't
Post by: B.D.Da'ehu on November 20, 2016, 01:32:21 PM
Any suggestions for a nice hotel in Montreal that has a suite with 2 beds? Looking for a revenue booking.BUMP
Post by: mochjas on November 20, 2016, 01:51:42 PM
BUMPits very hard to find a suite with2 beds anywhere. Let alone in Montreal. If you want a suite you will either have to get a roll away or crash in the couch
Post by: Denverite on November 24, 2016, 01:24:40 PM
its very hard to find a suite with2 beds anywhere. Let alone in Montreal. If you want a suite you will either have to get a roll away or crash in the couch
It's not super high end but the rooms, hotel and location look really nice at the Embassy Suites Montreal and they have suites with 2 doubles and obviously you'll get breakfast and can find kosher stuff.
Post by: Deal Guy on December 17, 2016, 09:45:56 PM
Post by: JayR on December 17, 2016, 09:52:53 PM
Family member getting married in Brooklyn. I have Spg Platinum status. Which hotel should he go to that i can call in advance that i am booking for him, but that will agree to give him plat upgrade?
Firstly, a hotel will usually give plat benefits regardless if you're there or not as long as it's under your reservation (be smart about it).
Secondly, you should use a Suite upgrade to guarantee an upgrade.
Post by: TorontoGuy on December 23, 2016, 11:40:02 AM
Post by: Dawie on December 23, 2016, 01:33:25 PM
I am staying in the Homewood Suites Eatontown the night of my wedding. Any suggestions/ideas/experience with getting food delivered from Lakewood for Breakfast/Lunch?yeah get it from Deal http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=2269
Post by: davidmal on December 23, 2016, 02:04:11 PM
yeah get it from Deal http://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=2269Deal is not so accommodating for deliveries maybe taxi or Uber eats
Post by: Luvtotravel on February 02, 2017, 02:36:38 PM
Post by: Luvtotravel on February 02, 2017, 06:00:17 PM
anyone know which points hotel has a Jacuzzi in-room in tristate area ?took off the qualifiers. what are my best options now?
Post by: Dawie on February 02, 2017, 06:04:28 PM
took off the qualifiers. what are my best options now?Lots of AC hotels (points options?)
Homewood Suites Edgwater
Westin Jersey City
http://www.excellent-romantic-vacations.com/new-jersey-jacuzzi-suites.html
Post by: Luvtotravel on February 02, 2017, 06:15:59 PM
Lots of AC hotels (points options?)tx! ac is too far. Homewood and westin has Jacuzzi in every room or with upgrade? I checked out that site they seemed sleazy at first glance
Homewood Suites Edgwater
Westin Jersey City
http://www.excellent-romantic-vacations.com/new-jersey-jacuzzi-suites.html
Post by: Dawie on February 02, 2017, 08:08:44 PM
tx! ac is too far. Homewood and westin has Jacuzzi in every room or with upgrade? I checked out that site they seemed sleazy at first glanceonly certain rooms
Post by: keepsmiling123 on August 06, 2017, 09:09:37 AM
Post by: mochjas on August 06, 2017, 09:13:01 AM
helping book wedding hotel for a friend, anyone have preference in terms of niceness for Westin Times Sq, Westing Grand Central, or Conrad?why are you limited to those 3 properties?
Post by: keepsmiling123 on August 06, 2017, 03:41:30 PM
why are you limited to those 3 properties?
not limiting, just wondering if any of those properties stand out
Post by: keemster26 on August 26, 2018, 10:32:38 PM
Post by: aygart on August 26, 2018, 10:34:23 PM
Helping friend book a hotel in Baltimore. Any suggestions for the nicest one by the harbor?Both the four seasons and Marriott are very nice. Check about how many beds in the room.
Post by: keemster26 on August 26, 2018, 10:40:27 PM
Both the four seasons and Marriott are very nice. Check about how many beds in the room.Thanks
Post by: Denverite on August 27, 2018, 10:45:43 AM
helping book wedding hotel for a friend, anyone have preference in terms of niceness for Westin Times Sq, Westing Grand Central, or Conrad?
Just stayed in the Conrad and it is lovely, very spacious rooms, in a nice area and the bonus is that every single room is a suite with a sofa bed. I'd think it would be a great hotel for this kind of stay.
Post by: ausome on October 08, 2018, 05:06:32 PM
Post by: jose34 on October 08, 2018, 05:49:58 PM
Both the four seasons and Marriott are very nice. Check about how many beds in the room.
Four Seasons is nice and there is a second one near Fells Point in the Inner Harbor that is the same category if not nicer then the Four Seasons, can't remember the name though.
If anyone wants to know let me know and I can find out.
Post by: ahron15 on October 09, 2018, 12:14:47 PM
Any hotel near Lakewood for wedding night?https://www.bungalowhotel.net/
Post by: mmgfarb on October 18, 2018, 02:32:26 PM
Post by: mochjas on October 18, 2018, 02:52:31 PM
What's the nicest hotel in the Baltimore area? Just the two listed in the Wiki?I Really hope no one goes to the double tree for their wedding. Though it is a great hotel if you want to be some what near the community
The nicest hotel is the 4 seasons downtown
Post by: shaulyaakov on October 18, 2018, 02:52:39 PM
What's the nicest hotel in the Baltimore area? Just the two listed in the Wiki?
The Hyatt is very nice, especially if you get a view.
Post by: mmgfarb on October 18, 2018, 02:55:46 PM
I Really hope no one goes to the double tree for their wedding. Though it is a great hotel if you want to be some what near the communityYea, I wasn't even thinking about the Doubletree, FS is around $350 which is probably going to be too much (this isn't for me obviously.) Anyone know anything about the Hotel Monaco? It looks really nice from the pictures.
The nicest hotel is the 4 seasons downtown
Post by: mmgfarb on October 18, 2018, 02:57:14 PM
The Hyatt is very nice, especially if you get a view.For a wedding night? Seems like your average Hyatt Regency to me, nice but pretty sterile.
Post by: mochjas on October 18, 2018, 02:59:08 PM
For a wedding night? Seems like your average Hyatt Regency to me, nice but pretty sterile.very nice is pushing it. I reviewed this hotel in the Baltimore master thread. Its good because of the outdoor pool and the location but I would not call it very nice
Post by: mmgfarb on October 18, 2018, 03:02:11 PM
very nice is pushing it. I reviewed this hotel in the Baltimore master thread. Its good because of the outdoor pool and the location but I would not call it very niceSo definitely a no go?
Post by: mochjas on October 18, 2018, 03:05:21 PM
So definitely a no go?If they are on a budget and you can get an anniversary night for cheap thank I don't see why not but I was just saying that I wouldn't call this hotel very nice it is an average HR as you mentioned
Post by: mmgfarb on October 18, 2018, 03:06:45 PM
If they are on a budget and you can get an anniversary night for cheap thank I don't see why not but I was just saying that I wouldn't call this hotel very nice it is an average HR as you mentionedGot it.
Post by: Sammyonetwo on October 22, 2018, 08:09:56 PM
Post by: shaulyaakov on October 24, 2018, 01:10:26 PM
Don’t know if it furshure belongs here but here’s my question I booked for a friend PH nyc for 2 night one being his wedding night so he furshure wants a suite I was thinking of tipping the check in clerk 100 bucks and thinking hel furshure give me a suite for the tip and with globalists status and honeymoon written down there he would give it to me or do you guys think I’m wasteing my money
Tipping (read: bribing) the check-in person to get an upgrade is shady at best, outright illegal at worst. If you want an upgrade, get it through the system.
Post by: 12HRS on October 24, 2018, 02:16:35 PM
Tipping (read: bribing) the check-in person to get an upgrade is shady at best, outright illegal at worst. If you want an upgrade, get it through the system.
-1
Post by: mochjas on October 24, 2018, 02:19:25 PM
-1+1 We had this discussion already. Either way this most likely will not work in the PH.
Post by: Yehuda25 on October 28, 2018, 11:38:21 PM
+1 We had this discussion already. Either way this most likely will not work in the PH.correct, as everyone tries it lol. You can definitely bargain within the system though, i've done it there. Be nice and mentshlich about it as always.
Post by: mmgfarb on November 13, 2018, 04:01:47 PM
Post by: mochjas on November 13, 2018, 04:19:01 PM
What's the closest luxury hotel to Passaic?maybe W Hoboken
Post by: Yehuda25 on November 13, 2018, 08:48:18 PM
maybe W Hobokenprobably
Post by: mmgfarb on November 13, 2018, 08:55:36 PM
maybe W HobokenThanks
Post by: Sam Finkelstein on July 28, 2019, 10:45:20 PM
Post by: Sam Finkelstein on July 29, 2019, 12:10:11 PM
Any recent experiences with Inn on Main near Lakewood?
Also, general recommendations for something near Lakewood are appreciated.
TIA.
Post by: KSMH on July 29, 2019, 12:15:45 PM
Post by: Sam Finkelstein on July 29, 2019, 12:22:16 PM
Deal or Asbury?
Doesn’t make a whole lot of difference but haven’t decided yet if I’m going to do a limo.
Post by: KSMH on July 29, 2019, 12:25:19 PM
Doesn’t make a whole lot of difference but haven’t decided yet if I’m going to do a limo.What difference does a limo make? The same way you'll get anywhere in LKWD......
Deal and Asbury have decent options compared to TR or LKWD.
You can even find boutique hotels dotted along the shore.
Post by: ahron15 on July 29, 2019, 02:12:47 PM
Also, general recommendations for something near Lakewood are appreciated.https://asburyoceanclub.com/hotel new luxury hotel on the water
TIA.
Post by: Sam Finkelstein on July 29, 2019, 05:54:01 PM
https://asburyoceanclub.com/hotel new luxury hotel on the water
Thanks but rooms are very expensive.
Also, anyone have any recommendations for reasonably priced limo in Lakewood?
Post by: Eliyohu on August 25, 2019, 12:44:01 PM
Post by: grodnoking on August 25, 2019, 12:58:24 PM
Post by: myi on January 29, 2020, 07:31:18 PM
Or is there something better thats around?
Not in the loop with hotels so wouldn't know!
And from there, depending on hotel, decide if it's worth to have them use with points or cash.. Thanks guys.
Post by: yungermanchik on January 29, 2020, 07:51:35 PM
Looking for an option with a suite near Brooklyn, not Manhattan.. any help would be appreciatedMarriott-Brooklyn bridge marriott; Fairfield inn and suites staten island
Hilton- hilton garden inn staten island; hampton inn and suites
Post by: yelped on August 19, 2020, 12:46:43 PM
Post by: mochjas on August 19, 2020, 01:00:52 PM
Hi, is there any updated recommendations for a hotel in Baltimore for a wedding night?four seasons
Post by: yelped on August 19, 2020, 02:00:35 PM
four seasonsThanks. Is there a less pricey or points option available?
Post by: mochjas on August 19, 2020, 02:14:45 PM
Thanks. Is there a less pricey or points option available?people use the Hyatt Regency
Post by: aygart on August 19, 2020, 02:15:44 PM
Thanks. Is there a less pricey or points option available?Marriot Waterfront is nice.
Post by: Dan on August 19, 2020, 02:17:50 PM
Thanks. Is there a less pricey or points option available?Kimpton Hotel Monaco?
Post by: yelped on August 19, 2020, 03:22:16 PM
Post by: Der Deutsche Jude on October 09, 2020, 12:22:11 AM
1) No more than 40 minute drive
2) 2 Queen beds (or 2 kings if that exists)
3) Somewhat spacious
4) Balcony preferred
The closest thing I've found is the Wave Resort in Long Branch, which has a 425 ft2 Double Queen room, but it looks kind of tight. (https://gc.synxis.com/hotel/7495/Images/Room/deluxe_two_queens_ht.jpeg)
The Inn On Main mentioned upthread has one room (304) with two queens but has a vaulted ceiling.(http://innonmainmanasquan.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Room-304-3-scaled.jpg)
Any suggestions are greatly appreciated! Remember these are preferences but not requirements I guess.
Post by: Lurker on October 09, 2020, 01:31:34 AM
.(http://innonmainmanasquan.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Room-304-3-scaled.jpg)
I wonder how many people hit their heads in that further bed.
Post by: mochjas on October 09, 2020, 10:29:39 AM
Hello! I'm looking for a hotel near Lakewood for wedding night, and I have a few preferences:They have a bigger queen room as well
1) No more than 40 minute drive
2) 2 Queen beds (or 2 kings if that exists)
3) Somewhat spacious
4) Balcony preferred
The closest thing I've found is the Wave Resort in Long Branch, which has a 425 ft2 Double Queen room, but it looks kind of tight. (https://gc.synxis.com/hotel/7495/Images/Room/deluxe_two_queens_ht.jpeg)
The Inn On Main mentioned upthread has one room (304) with two queens but has a vaulted ceiling.(http://innonmainmanasquan.com/wp/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Room-304-3-scaled.jpg)
Any suggestions are greatly appreciated! Remember these are preferences but not requirements I guess.
Post by: darth on November 08, 2020, 03:23:38 PM
Hi, is there any updated recommendations for a hotel in Baltimore for a wedding night?
Kimpton Hotel Monaco
Hyatt Regency
Marriot Waterfront
four seasonsI called up all of these hotels they said they don't have a room with 2 beds and a sitting area/couch. Does it exist? What do people usually do?
Post by: herb on November 08, 2020, 03:53:10 PM