It's me Chaim, I have decided to take on a new persona as female, and figured I'll stick with Chaya (anyway you spell it, I am Chai 'ALIVE' and well!) . You have always identified me as male... I figured it would be nice to be just an innocent, naive girl navigating her way through DDF... I toned down my level of knowledge and expertise, so I don't feel required to answer all your nitty gritty 'First timer' questions. Sadly, in this new name change, I have come to realize that there's definitely a stigma against the 'inexperienced' posters, especially the female DDFers, they are being bashed and made fun of... let's try to talk nicely to ALL DDFers alike, no matter what color, race, gender, and level of expertise !! So.... maybe Chaim has been a female all along...
Venohopech Hu!!Happy Purim everyone!!