Yea, I'd suggest ebay. Used to do electrical work on cars that required taking off panels and always had pins/clips snap. Many of them are universal, and aren't always necessary.
Yup, that's what I did in the end, just very hard to tell from the pic if it matches, I would use any compatible part.
Looks like both those links I attached on the bottom are the correct parts.
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I feel like a plumber I touch one part(the actuator) and then many other parts go wrong.
(the mashul for those that don't know how plumbing works, when your called for a small job to change one old pipe, you better make sure you got enough pipes for the whole sink or tub.. when you touch one pipe they all Crack and need to be replaced.