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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #201 on: August 04, 2024, 12:29:16 AM »
Limiting PMs for new members limits their ability to talk about other things also.  I've PMd new members about things they've posted that I didn't want to say in public.  Am I the only one? Do people only PM about things they're buying or selling?


There's been some talk about getting the other person's ID.  Perhaps getting someone in the real world to vouch for them would be helpful, but that would limit you to someone in your extended community.
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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #202 on: August 04, 2024, 01:03:26 AM »
Limiting the GFST to active DDF members sounds like a good start to me

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #203 on: August 04, 2024, 04:02:39 AM »
Limiting PMs for new members limits their ability to talk about other things also.  I've PMd new members about things they've posted that I didn't want to say in public.  Am I the only one? Do people only PM about things they're buying or selling?
All the time.
Still think more good than bad could come of them only being able to receive PMs (especially if you note that they will not be able to respond until they have more posts). There's at least one user who sends PMs sometimes but is apparently closed to responses - this wouldn't be worse than that.
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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #204 on: August 04, 2024, 07:29:10 AM »
How about limiting it GFST to active members, while new members who don't have prior activity can be added if they have an established active member vouch and take responsibility for them. (This solves CVs issue with referring associates to this forum) Otherwise they will need to wait until they build up enough cred, through posts or activity.
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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #205 on: August 04, 2024, 08:19:16 AM »
I don’t think it’s feasible to require every new member to have someone vouch for them. Most people prefer anonymity online, and would be scared off by a requirement like this. I personally would probably not be on DDF if there would’ve been such a requirement when I joined.

What about simply barring members with less than 250 posts from accessing that board?

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #206 on: August 04, 2024, 08:35:49 AM »
(This solves CVs issue with referring associates to this forum)
I really don't have any issues. I would like to see this safe for everyone. I don't "buy" from this thread, so I have little to no exposure when I sell. Some of us have been here long enough so we know those members that are safe.
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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #207 on: August 04, 2024, 11:10:30 AM »
To ever extent does PP G&S take care of this issue? Should that be the standard way of doing business here?

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #208 on: August 04, 2024, 12:10:09 PM »
To ever extent does PP G&S take care of this issue? Should that be the standard way of doing business here?

That was the same idea I had. I always use PP GnS when selling trading cards because of scammers. Great way to vet people and give both the buyer and seller some protection.

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #209 on: August 04, 2024, 12:14:56 PM »
Scammers:
Do you want the guide on how you can scam buyers on DDF even after new measures are put in place? Read the above! Start working on creating your reputationed accounts.

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #210 on: August 04, 2024, 12:36:47 PM »
Scammers:
Do you want the guide on how you can scam buyers on DDF even after new measures are put in place? Read the above! Start working on creating your reputationed accounts.
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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #211 on: August 04, 2024, 12:46:41 PM »
Scammers:
Do you want the guide on how you can scam buyers on DDF even after new measures are put in place? Read the above! Start working on creating your reputationed accounts.
Yeah!

Simply spend the next 2 years wasting your time talking about random subjects that you really couldn't care less about for the slight chance for ripping someone off 900 bucks...

If a scammer wanted to work hard they would get a job...

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #212 on: August 04, 2024, 12:50:33 PM »
Yeah!

Simply spend the next 2 years wasting your time talking about random subjects that you really couldn't care less about for the slight chance for ripping someone off 900 bucks...

If a scammer wanted to work hard they would get a job...
Besides, you would probably be able to tell when someone is actually ddfing for real, or not...

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #213 on: August 04, 2024, 12:58:13 PM »
I personally would probably not be on DDF if there would’ve been such a requirement when I joined.


The requirement would be just for those looking for GFS transactions, would not effect likes garnering.  :)

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #214 on: August 04, 2024, 12:58:55 PM »
Besides, you would probably be able to tell when someone is actually ddfing for real, or not...
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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #215 on: August 04, 2024, 01:11:51 PM »
That was the same idea I had. I always use PP GnS when selling trading cards because of scammers. Great way to vet people and give both the buyer and seller some protection.
It was discussed elsewhere, but the question becomes who pays for it.

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #216 on: August 04, 2024, 03:46:52 PM »
I don’t think it’s feasible to require every new member to have someone vouch for them. Most people prefer anonymity online, and would be scared off by a requirement like this. I personally would probably not be on DDF if there would’ve been such a requirement when I joined.

What about simply barring members with less than 250 posts from accessing that board?
I had someone I knew IRL vouch for me for my first sale. I sent first, the buyer sent money after.  All via PM, so no one besides the buyer knows my connection to that other person.

It's absolutely expected that a stranger on the internet should not trust you.

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Re: PSA: Trading With New Members! READ THIS AND DON'T GET SCAMMED!
« Reply #217 on: August 04, 2024, 08:27:01 PM »
Besides, you would probably be able to tell when someone is actually ddfing for real, or not...
Really? ;)
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