I feel there is some nuance missing here.
@Shkop Even if we could establish that from a secular standpoint abortion is the equivalent of murder,
Granted that there are degrees of murder, but R' Moshe says that abortion is a form of Retzicha for Jew and Gentile alike.
that does not make the huge number of women who have had abortions murderers in the normal sense of the word. The vast majority of them would never ever ever consider killing a baby once born. They have been brainwashed by a society that pushes abortion as akin to removal of a tumor. Abortion providers train their staff how to manipulate vulnerable women to ignore any hangups they may have. These are vulnerable woman who have been conditioned by society to think that abortion is the best option for them. They must be treated with the utmost compassion. They are certainly not sub-human. They are not wicked.
@shaulyaakov Poverty is certainly a secondary concern that shouldn't come in to consideration at all and those statistics are very telling (assuming the are accurate.) The mantra of the pro life movement until recently was "Safe Legal and Rare" which shows that even they realized that something as common as poverty or many of the other reasons on the list are not legitimate cause for abortion.
While there probably are young manipulative girls out there, or maybe some vulnerable women manipulated by the horrific staff, there are plenty that know very well or should know. People know what abortion is and it doesn’t take a rocket scientist to do some very basic research. Google is your friend.
Recall how after the holocaust the Nazis cried that they were just following orders. I don't think anyone really bought into that argument because certain things aren't easily excusable like that. We find this idea in Talmud as well, such as "divrey harav vdivrey hatalmid..." as well as the idea that one can be liable for death if he should have learned (and known better) but didn't.
Furthermore, you write that even they know that poverty and other reasons are not legitimate cause for abortion. How do they know? Who informed them? Weren’t they simply conditioned? The answer is that most people understand very clearly what’s happening. Of-course the staff that does the killing are partners in crime as well.
By the way, you don’t have to be a Nazi or a knife wielding bandit with a mask on to be termed wicked. You can be a nice, sweet person who says good morning to everyone, but also thoroughly wicked because you callously killed your blameless baby that never did anything wrong.
And as far as compassion goes, the biggest compassion we can have on these women is to create legislation that will not allow more women or vulnerable brainwashed women and the horrific staff to kill babies. Its compassion on the child!