I am not sure that you are understanding what it is you are arguing against.
Mostly the liberal outlook of many on this thread which colors their opinion even on issues that are primarily halachic.
Furthermore, the view that any minority opinion carries equal weight against a majority opinion, particularly when world renown
halachic heavyweights are on the other side.
That is actually indicative of someone pushing a liberal agenda, not someone serious about what the Torah has to say on the topic.