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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #330 on: November 08, 2019, 11:14:12 AM »
What is PC friday?
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #331 on: November 08, 2019, 11:14:49 AM »
Exactly. How about using common sense? What would be the outcome of "reporting" this violator? At most a huge hassle. A conviction or fine? I highly doubt it!
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #332 on: November 08, 2019, 11:18:23 AM »
How about this one. Child goes to school with bruises. Teacher/counselor asks him what happened. He says his dad hit him. Do they report it to the state authorities (police/DCFS)?

In most states there are mandatory reporting laws which actually require teachers to report this. So not only is it wrong not to report this to authorities, but it's illegal as well.

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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #333 on: November 08, 2019, 11:23:09 AM »
According to our senseless Rabbis, yes.

As opposed to the other senseless Rabbis who enabled a sexual predator for 40 years? https://www.sfjny.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=301&Itemid=84

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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #334 on: November 08, 2019, 11:25:36 AM »
In most states there are mandatory reporting laws which actually require teachers to report this. So not only is it wrong not to report this to authorities, but it's illegal as well.
The reason I ask because in another group some were saying it should be kept inhouse.
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #335 on: November 08, 2019, 11:27:36 AM »
As opposed to the other senseless Rabbis who enabled a sexual predator for 40 years? https://www.sfjny.org/index.php?option=com_content&view=article&id=301&Itemid=84
I think we all know until recently people in many communities were protecting abusers... No need to delve into that here IMO...
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #336 on: November 08, 2019, 11:32:19 AM »
No need to delve into that here IMO...
Why not? Expose them at every turn. Lets learn from our mistakes not repeat them.
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #337 on: November 08, 2019, 11:35:06 AM »
I think we all know until recently people in many communities were protecting abusers... No need to delve into that here IMO...

With you JJ, but someone else opened the door.
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #338 on: November 08, 2019, 12:59:17 PM »
With you JJ, but someone else opened the door.
So, anytime someone says a Rabbi has common sense, you interject, well actually this Rabbi covered for abusers...?

Why not? Expose them at every turn. Lets learn from our mistakes not repeat them.
I'm all for exposing cover ups and abusers. Just don't really see a connection to this conversation. Wouldn't want the thread to go OT.
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #339 on: November 08, 2019, 01:08:29 PM »


How about this one. Child goes to school with bruises. Teacher/counselor asks him what happened. He says his dad hit him. Do they report it to the state authorities (police/DCFS)?
I knew this would come back around ;)
The reason I ask because in another group some were saying it should be kept inhouse.
There was another option of taking care of it without the authorities.
Also the real question began with someone who smacked his misbehaving child, not abuse. It was one person who said that it's non of the schools business, which I think no one would agree with. The question is at what point is it something wrong, when does the school step in, and whom to speak with when such an issue comes up.
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #340 on: November 08, 2019, 01:22:45 PM »
if your child has bruises on his face then that is more than giving a child a smack for misbehaving.

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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #341 on: November 08, 2019, 01:23:19 PM »
So, anytime someone says a Rabbi has common sense, you interject, well actually this Rabbi covered for abusers...?

No, I was responding directly to @Yehuda57 's comment that 'Senseless' Rabbis were the ones reporting it, I simply countered that there were equally senseless Rabbis who covered it up.

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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #342 on: November 08, 2019, 01:31:17 PM »
Also the real question began with someone who smacked his misbehaving child, not abuse.
So you can smack your kid around and that is not abuse?
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #343 on: November 08, 2019, 01:32:48 PM »
So you can smack your kid around and that is not abuse?
I say smacked you misbehaving child, you say smack your kid around.
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Re: PC friday question of the day.
« Reply #344 on: November 08, 2019, 01:34:58 PM »
I say smacked you misbehaving child, you say smack your kid around.
So smacking a misbehaving child around is not abuse?

NOUN
a sharp slap or blow, typically one given with the palm of the hand.
ADVERB
in a sudden and violent way.
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