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A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« on: August 12, 2019, 11:17:35 AM »
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The Syrian Community is doing this and it’s a very simple , brilliant concept. Why can’t we do it for the broader Ashkenazic community and the more people that sign up, the less everyone has to contribute.

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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #1 on: August 12, 2019, 11:26:05 AM »
similar concept to areivim
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #2 on: August 12, 2019, 11:39:51 AM »
similar concept to areivim
I was thinking that. However with Areivim you are part of the pool and receive a payout (if CV"S....). With this the people contributing are not necessarily the ones receiving the grant for the simcha. 

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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #3 on: August 12, 2019, 11:42:06 AM »
I was thinking that. However with Areivim you are part of the pool and receive a payout (if CV"S....). With this the people contributing are not necessarily the ones receiving the grant for the simcha.
correct and with this, I think the costs are much lower and can be spread much thinner...

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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #4 on: August 12, 2019, 11:43:25 AM »
I was thinking that. However with Areivim you are part of the pool and receive a payout (if CV"S....). With this the people contributing are not necessarily the ones receiving the grant for the simcha.

Not necessarily. One might not be eligible for a payout from Areivim even if he participated for years. Many view Areivim as a way to give צדקה.
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #5 on: August 12, 2019, 12:01:07 PM »
https://www.semahot.com/

The Syrian Community is doing this and it’s a very simple , brilliant concept. Why can’t we do it for the broader Ashkenazic community and the more people that sign up, the less everyone has to contribute.
I like that their Rabbinical board and board members are prominently displaced in the home page. One thing Areivim was definitely lacking.
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #6 on: August 12, 2019, 12:29:10 PM »
Not necessarily. One might not be eligible for a payout from Areivim even if he participated for years. Many view Areivim as a way to give צדקה.

That wasnt the pitch I was given. Can you elaborate?

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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #7 on: August 12, 2019, 12:31:22 PM »
Is no one going to ask why don't people start cutting back on spending on simchos rather than collecting to keep the current standards?
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #8 on: August 12, 2019, 12:39:01 PM »
Is no one going to ask why don't people start cutting back on spending on simchos rather than collecting to keep the current standards?
The website says that they check to ensure that the simcha is done in a way that is financially responsible
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #9 on: August 12, 2019, 12:51:42 PM »
The website says that they check to ensure that the simcha is done in a way that is financially responsible
To me financially responsible is for a wedding to look like a Sheva brachos/vort.

Yes it's extreme for today, but I think it's best that way.
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #10 on: August 12, 2019, 12:53:19 PM »
To me financially responsible is for a wedding to look like a Sheva brachos/vort.

Yes it's extreme for today, but I think it's best that way.
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #11 on: August 12, 2019, 01:02:09 PM »
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #12 on: August 12, 2019, 01:19:43 PM »
That wasnt the pitch I was given. Can you elaborate?


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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #13 on: August 12, 2019, 02:11:15 PM »
I saw this in a postcard at Rabbi Mansours shul.

Amazing concept - whether you agree or not - its a fresh new Tzedeka idea and I like that.

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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #14 on: August 12, 2019, 02:26:13 PM »
I saw this in a postcard at Rabbi Mansours shul.

Amazing concept - whether you agree or not - its a fresh new Tzedeka idea and I like that.

Why would anyone disagree. I think it's a wonderful concept. Allows giving (and receiving) Tzedaka in a dignified yet controlled way. I think it would be great if it could be expanded to encompass all communities in true achdus, rather than each community having its own fund.
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #15 on: August 12, 2019, 02:37:50 PM »
To me financially responsible is for a wedding to look like a Sheva brachos/vort.

Yes it's extreme for today, but I think it's best that way.
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #16 on: August 12, 2019, 02:48:43 PM »
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Because the wedding itself isn't the majority of expenses?
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #18 on: August 12, 2019, 03:00:25 PM »
You do have to realize that giving tzedaka also entails preserving the dignity of the receiver and so while Im definitely not saying to have the fanciest shmanciest wedding, I dont believe a wedding looking like a sheva brachos preserves that dignity for most people. In other words, you can have a wedding nicer than a sheva brachos and still be considered financially responsible.

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Re: A Simple Tzedaka Fund Idea
« Reply #19 on: August 12, 2019, 03:01:09 PM »
Elaborate please
You do have to realize that giving tzedaka also entails preserving the dignity of the receiver and so while Im definitely not saying to have the fanciest shmanciest wedding, I dont believe a wedding looking like a sheva brachos is considered respectable. In other words, you can have a wedding nicer than a sheva brachos and still be considered financially responsible.
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