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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1600 on: September 28, 2022, 04:42:18 PM »
Take a survey of people from Lakewood, Williamsburg, Monsey, KJ, JLM, RBS, BB, etc. Is singing (any line out of אבינו מלכנו) a common practice?

@Something Fishy
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Never heard of singing at AM

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1601 on: September 28, 2022, 04:46:47 PM »

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1602 on: September 28, 2022, 04:53:05 PM »
I don't know how to. And I don't see any need.

While I live in a bubble, and have probably been to less shuls than you have been to, I am a real first generation צוגעקומענער, so I have some knowledge of what goes on outside my bubble. I didn't find out in recent years on DDF that in many places (Yeshivish?) they make kiddush before תקיעות.

I am sure @Something Fishy has been to more shuls than I have, and he says he never heard of singing any part of אבינו מלכנו.

Making kiddush before the תקיעות is considered a בדיעבד all over AFAIK, but when you finish davening at 4:30+ as oppose to 1:30, naturally you'll have lots and lots of people making kiddush. There are numerous accounts of many Rebbes going back centuries how they forced this big chossid and that big chossid whom they considered to be a חלוש to make kiddush by the break.

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1603 on: September 28, 2022, 05:22:17 PM »
Making kiddush before the תקיעות is considered a בדיעבד all over AFAIK, but when you finish davening at 4:30+ as oppose to 1:30, naturally you'll have lots and lots of people making kiddush. There are numerous accounts of many Rebbes going back centuries how they forced this big chossid and that big chossid whom they considered to be a חלוש to make kiddush by the break.

Famous machlokes between Reb Ahron and Rav Heinkin.

The reason to davka make kiddush is so not to fast past chatzos on Yom Tov if I recall correctly.

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1604 on: September 28, 2022, 05:33:36 PM »
I personally enjoy when am is song but I only generally hear it in chabad houses.

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1605 on: September 28, 2022, 05:33:50 PM »
first time i am hearing of such a practice

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1606 on: September 28, 2022, 05:40:18 PM »
I personally enjoy when am is song but I only generally hear it song in chabad houses.
JJ and I both heard it at HAC, though the school has moved to the right since then so I wouldn't be surprised if they don't sing it anymore.

In CLE Chabad both the first and last line are sung, though the last line is 50/50 depending on chazan.
In YOEC in LA we didn't sing it as the composer was unknown, though now I wonder what we sang for Hayom Haras Olam :D
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1607 on: September 28, 2022, 05:42:19 PM »
Famous machlokes between Reb Ahron and Rav Heinkin.

The reason to davka make kiddush is so not to fast past chatzos on Yom Tov if I recall correctly.

Drinking a coffee wouldn't suffice for that? If drinking just a coffee require kiddush is a whole other shailah. All of this is discussed in the poskim at length.

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1608 on: September 28, 2022, 05:58:41 PM »
Can't post this without the video link.
Fine. I'll cut @ExGingi some slack on a fast day.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mn1hq5tUPvI&t=68s
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1609 on: September 28, 2022, 06:00:29 PM »
Can't post this without the video link.

It's been a while. We'll need to summon @TimT for help.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1610 on: September 28, 2022, 06:01:22 PM »
Fine. I'll cut @ExGingi some slack on a fast day.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=mn1hq5tUPvI&t=68s

Need the link that runs it in an endless loop.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1611 on: September 28, 2022, 06:04:40 PM »
Need the link that runs it in an endless loop.
Seems like Bloomberg blocked that feature when they blocked embedding:
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1612 on: September 28, 2022, 06:05:31 PM »
JJ and I both heard it at HAC, though the school has moved to the right since then so I wouldn't be surprised if they don't sing it anymore.

In CLE Chabad both the first and last line are sung, though the last line is 50/50 depending on chazan.
In YOEC in LA we didn't sing it as the composer was unknown, though now I wonder what we sand for Hayom Haras Olam :D

In 770 no tune for Hayom Haras Oilom.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1613 on: September 28, 2022, 06:06:19 PM »
In 770 no tune for Hayom Haras Oilom.
Well, that ought to have saved 10 minutes :D
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1614 on: September 28, 2022, 06:06:25 PM »
Seems like Bloomberg blocked that feature when they blocked embedding:


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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1615 on: September 28, 2022, 06:06:59 PM »
Well, that ought to have saved 10 minutes :D

Do you know how many extra Yechi's were said לערבב את השטן?

Also, I doubt other shuls take as long as 770 for the sifrei Torah to reach the bimah and then back - though this year was relatively and surprisingly fast (in 770 terms).

Also of note, first day there was a bris in 770 this year (people were asking how they got the baby in, but I really don't get the question, much heavier people get passed over people's heads in 770).
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1616 on: September 28, 2022, 06:34:29 PM »
dunno. the היום הרת עולם I hear in chabad, now that he mentions it, is א"מ חננו ועננו...

Where? Chabad houses?
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1617 on: September 28, 2022, 06:37:47 PM »
Where? Chabad houses?
I believe the CH shul that @Yehuda57 davens in

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1618 on: September 28, 2022, 06:39:14 PM »
I believe the CH shul that @Yehuda57 davens in

Chabad house style?
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1619 on: September 28, 2022, 06:41:07 PM »
Where? Chabad houses?

The overwhelming majority of Chabad shuls.

In 770 no tune for Hayom Haras Oilom.

Totally dependent on who the chazan is, no? Aside from the niggunim like AM, or classics like Yaaleh, there are no rules for what gets sung and what tunes are used.