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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #220 on: September 22, 2013, 06:50:06 PM »
i have a hard time finding only 3 meshulashim...
Who says they all need to be meshulash?
But I also really have a problem finding meshulashim.
I hate the bags, can't tell a thing. And the "kulo chazon ish* one are rarely any better
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #221 on: September 22, 2013, 07:03:29 PM »
Interesting. And I am sure there is a hesber al pi sod?
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #222 on: September 22, 2013, 07:16:39 PM »
Chesed over gevura would be my guess.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #223 on: September 22, 2013, 07:23:28 PM »
Chesed over gevura would be my guess.
And how do people choose how many to use? Family minhag?
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #225 on: September 22, 2013, 10:52:38 PM »
And how do people choose how many to use? Family minhag?
They do the research and decide what they feel is appropriate and what they can afford. Or ask their Rov/Mashpiah.

My father was not Chabad-raised though so I may be wrong here.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #226 on: September 22, 2013, 11:10:12 PM »
Even you must admit that that's a little far fetched.
supposedly the rebbeh was holier than the Shulchan oruch because he felt the pain, fine.  But that chassidim should disregard a mitzvah mideorayso because of the fadimyomdikeh pain that they are supposed to feel because they don't feel a pain that only their rebbeh felt.? 
The only tzar you guys have is that the rebbeh would 'frown'  upon you for doing the mitzvah. But why would he, didn't he realize that no one else ever felt this tzar of the kedusha besides him so why would his chassidim?

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #227 on: September 22, 2013, 11:13:59 PM »
Even you must admit that that's a little far fetched.
supposedly the rebbeh was holier than the Shulchan oruch because he felt the pain, fine.  But that chassidim should disregard a mitzvah mideorayso because of the fadimyomdikeh pain that they are supposed to feel because they don't feel a pain that only their rebbeh felt.? 
The only tzar you guys have is that the rebbeh would 'frown'  upon you for doing the mitzvah. But why would he, didn't he realize that no one else ever felt this tzar of the kedusha besides him so why would his chassidim?
+1 Have been wondering the same for a while...

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #228 on: September 22, 2013, 11:16:54 PM »
As the Rosh used to farbrang, we're in actual pain that we're not in pain that we're not in pain that we're not in pain that we're not in pain...
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #229 on: September 22, 2013, 11:18:54 PM »
LOL

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #230 on: September 22, 2013, 11:20:04 PM »
It's cute but we're talking about a mitzvahs aseh mideorayso, not an obscure minhag that can be joked away.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #231 on: September 22, 2013, 11:23:06 PM »
I don't see the joke. Though I do remember the Rosh crying over the subject.
The Rosh (R' Ezra Shochet) was considered an ilui in BMG, Brisk, and Ner Yisroel back in the day. Would have been considered a gadol hador by the "velt" without a doubt had he not joined the dark side...

He has a mind like few others and knows nigleh and chassidus fluently and with an intellect level like perhaps nobody else in the world.
Give him a call and let us know his answer :)
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #232 on: September 22, 2013, 11:24:54 PM »
LOL ;D You really serious? He used 2 cry?! Wow!

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #233 on: September 22, 2013, 11:27:22 PM »
I don't know if you are aware but this topic is the single most powerful kashah on chabad. It was used to discredit the rebbeh.....
Trust me there's no easy answer to this one. 
I shouldn't have even brought it up, I couldn't help it:):-*

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #234 on: September 22, 2013, 11:30:25 PM »
I don't remember how we pasken-but I thought we pasken mitztaer is only patur if leaving the sukkah will alleviate that tza'ar. The fact that one is pained by not feeling the pain of not feeling the pain... how is that alleviated by leaving the sukkah?
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #235 on: September 22, 2013, 11:30:46 PM »
I don't know if you are aware but this topic is the single most powerful kashah on chabad. It was used to discredit the rebbeh.....
Trust me there's no easy answer to this one. 
I shouldn't have even brought it up, I couldn't help it:):-*
Dude, this dates back centuries before the Rebbe.
If you're honestly interested in an explanation I'd call the Rosh. Not kidding.
If you just want to cause trouble then don't.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #236 on: September 22, 2013, 11:31:41 PM »
I don't know if you are aware but this topic is the single most powerful kashah on chabad. It was used to discredit the rebbeh.....
Trust me there's no easy answer to this one. 
I shouldn't have even brought it up, I couldn't help it:):-*
I think you need to figure out a better way to express your views.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #237 on: September 22, 2013, 11:36:31 PM »
I'm not expressing any views, i made a comment about a minhag and had a little discussion about the background. No harm intended at all.

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #238 on: September 22, 2013, 11:37:36 PM »
and sleeping :P
Even you must admit that that's a little far fetched.
supposedly the rebbeh was holier than the Shulchan oruch because he felt the pain, fine.  But that chassidim should disregard a mitzvah mideorayso because of the fadimyomdikeh pain that they are supposed to feel because they don't feel a pain that only their rebbeh felt.? 
The only tzar you guys have is that the rebbeh would 'frown'  upon you for doing the mitzvah. But why would he, didn't he realize that no one else ever felt this tzar of the kedusha besides him so why would his chassidim?
It's cute but we're talking about a mitzvahs aseh mideorayso, not an obscure minhag that can be joked away.
#postingfromaveryholybed
I don't know if you are aware but this topic is the single most powerful kashah on chabad. It was used to discredit the rebbeh.....
Trust me there's no easy answer to this one. 
I shouldn't have even brought it up, I couldn't help it:):-*
I don't remember how we pasken-but I thought we pasken mitztaer is only patur if leaving the sukkah will alleviate that tza'ar. The fact that one is pained by not feeling the pain of not feeling the pain... how is that alleviated by leaving the sukkah?

If you are looking for the answer, here it is in Yiddish:
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=14952&st=&pgnum=226&hilite=

And in Hebrew:
http://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=15830&st=&pgnum=64&hilite=

Whereas if you are looking to stir, then this is for you:
http://video.moshiach.ru/dollars/zvi_kaana.wmv

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #239 on: September 22, 2013, 11:38:53 PM »
IIrc it depends, tzar of yetushim vias a choleh. I may be wrong.