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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1360 on: September 27, 2018, 09:01:29 PM »
Source?
Testimony of his grandson Rav tzvi hirsh  zacks printed in "meir einey yisroel" page 60.

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1361 on: September 27, 2018, 09:06:29 PM »
ולמה קרא לזה מין Doesn't mean he agrees with them. It just means that he felt they can't be labeled as a מין.because then you're labeling all the רבים וטובים As מינים
I never said he himself held that way, I said he wrote that it's okay to think so.
BTW, a little lesson of how we should look at other people (rabim vetovim) even if they do something we believe is kefirah, all the more so when they are being mehader in a mitzvah in a way that makes us uncomfortable because we never studied the topic in the way they were taught it by their poskim. Vdal

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1362 on: September 27, 2018, 09:08:33 PM »
Source??
I take back the bracha lesheiv basuka part (although somehow I feel that he did, because it does happen to be the chabad minhag),

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1363 on: September 27, 2018, 09:11:56 PM »
Of course there are, and I'm not even a chabadnik. There's even halachic, non chabad sources given.
The halachik explanation are all non chabad, starting with the munkatcher rebbe, divrei chaim of tzans etc (piskei teshuvos bring a whole list, and from some teshuvos it seems that (for those people) it would be a chiyuv and thus would require a bracha

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1364 on: September 27, 2018, 09:14:34 PM »
Found a bunch ... IF they are not all kosher.

Do you make a tnaiy that you only intend to use the kosher ones for the mitzvah and the rest should be considered like nothing?
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1365 on: September 27, 2018, 09:17:36 PM »
36 mehudar ones here.
Maybe you first take a moment to familiarize yourself with minhag Chabad before you make assumptions.

Sefer haminhagim states that we don't add Arovos, but may add Hadassim, and mentions several counts (4, 12, 13, 26). IINM the Rebbe used 26 most years, possibly 36 on a שנה מעוברת, and in the later years.

For years there were very few people who actually added Hadassim (or had more than 4 haddasim). Then in the early 1990s the Rebbe encouraged the practice (and IINM suggested to add at least 3, will post source when I have it available).

Practically, if you look what "hamon haam" does, you'll see that most add a few Hadassim (so they have 6 or more), few have 3 or 4 while maybe 5% of the crowd has 36.

In recent years, I haven't seen Hadassim sold loose. Everybody buys pre sorted, so assuming one can rely on the Hashgochos on the sorting, they are all kosher.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1366 on: September 27, 2018, 09:20:28 PM »
Have we started this year's discussion of water on Shmini Atzeres?
How about in the rain?

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1367 on: September 27, 2018, 09:25:15 PM »
Felt zich in dein hiskashrus IMHO. I've never met anyone else that doesn't.
What other non-Chabad minhagim do you have?

Lol. I just think chabad should distinguish between clear horaos from our rabeeim, and minhagim we have made ourselves, or learnt from Eltere  chassidim and their practices.
Btw, Did you ever ask the Rosh in LA regarding a beracha when raining?

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1368 on: September 27, 2018, 09:27:29 PM »
We can make it really exciting if we discuss havdala/leisheiv basuka by havdala on motzei shabbos /Yom Tov.
But then we'll have to bash more than just chabad

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1369 on: September 27, 2018, 09:34:57 PM »
I never said he himself held that way, I said he wrote that it's okay to think so.
there's quite a jump from not being מין to being a legitimate hashkafa. all he says is the former, not the latter.

he already passuled the source i posted as hearsay from the Rebbe. this is just a lot more hearsay from the Rebb

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1370 on: September 28, 2018, 01:30:23 AM »
We can make it really exciting if we discuss havdala/leisheiv basuka by havdala on motzei shabbos /Yom Tov.
But then we'll have to bash more than just chabad
Even more exciting if we discuss Kiddush on mashkeh with a leishev basukah

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1371 on: September 28, 2018, 01:33:55 AM »
Even more exciting if we discuss Kiddush on mashkeh with a leishev basukah
Leisheiv Basukah made by Kiddush is not on the liquid being drunk, it's on the Seuda which is to follow, which is what makes our custom by Havdallah so peculier.

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1372 on: September 28, 2018, 01:37:09 AM »
Leisheiv Basukah made by Kiddush is not on the liquid being drunk, it's on the Seuda which is to follow, which is what makes our custom by Havdallah so peculier.
Ya but that's on hagofen and even that is questionable Kal vachomer on shehakol

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1373 on: September 28, 2018, 02:00:39 AM »
Leisheiv Basukah made by Kiddush is not on the liquid being drunk, it's on the Seuda which is to follow, which is what makes our custom by Havdallah so peculier.

Do you have any sources/explanations? I have never figured this one out, and stay in the sukkah to have something that would justify a leishev basukkah lechol hadeios.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1374 on: September 28, 2018, 05:58:20 AM »
Do you have any sources/explanations? I have never figured this one out, and stay in the sukkah to have something that would justify a leishev basukkah lechol hadeios.
I believe that this is a fairly common minhag.

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1375 on: September 28, 2018, 06:53:46 AM »
Have we started this year's discussion of water on Shmini Atzeres?
How about in the rain?


You eat in the succa on shmini?

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1376 on: September 28, 2018, 06:54:29 AM »
Good company :)

I knew I was on to something

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1377 on: September 28, 2018, 08:20:10 AM »
You eat in the succa on shmini?
Don't even drink outside of it if it's raining on Shmini.
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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1378 on: September 28, 2018, 10:24:34 AM »
This:
Hope you enjoy the dumpster half as much as I enjoyed our one rainy meal so far.
is practically as disturbing as this.
Enjoy your rainy undecorated succas!

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Re: Chabad Minhagim: Pros & Cons
« Reply #1379 on: September 28, 2018, 10:26:43 AM »
I would be in major tzar from eating in a dumpster (even the picture is nauseating) but I very much enjoyed our lebidig rainy meal.
Why is that disturbing?
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