Looking for lessons/advice on planning a bar mitzvah for my son in the five towns (woodmere). Currently considering having a normal size kiddush after shul (R willig which is a small shul so may want to do outside of shul) and then some party after shabbos/sunday where i can invite son's classmates/friends and our family and close friends (probably around 100-150 people max).
Would also appreciate recommendations on locations/caterers/comedy person (my son doesnt like music)?
Best place to get black hat/teffilin/suit?