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Author Topic: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions  (Read 978879 times)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1500 on: July 07, 2016, 12:43:16 AM »
Partner at big 4 accounting firm taking interns out to a treif restaurant for lunch to meet and shmooze.  Assuming he doesn't want to go to a kosher restaurant, am I allowed to go and not eat?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1501 on: July 07, 2016, 03:15:54 AM »
Partner at big 4 accounting firm taking interns out to a treif restaurant for lunch to meet and shmooze.  Assuming he doesn't want to go to a kosher restaurant, am I allowed to go and not eat?
That's a major LOR,  the respected opinions run the entire gamut.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1502 on: July 07, 2016, 07:12:11 AM »
Partner at big 4 accounting firm taking interns out to a treif restaurant for lunch to meet and shmooze.  Assuming he doesn't want to go to a kosher restaurant, am I allowed to go and not eat?
Many poskim say it's fine when obvious for business.

But, be careful how you handle it - may be awkward to go and notify eat..

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1503 on: July 07, 2016, 07:34:21 AM »
Partner at big 4 accounting firm taking interns out to a treif restaurant for lunch to meet and shmooze.  Assuming he doesn't want to go to a kosher restaurant, am I allowed to go and not eat?
ALOR

Many poskim say it's fine when obvious for business.

But, be careful how you handle it - may be awkward to go and not to eat..

FTFY .
 It's not so pashut.  The answer is ALOR if מותר and if so all the details of what can and cannot do

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1504 on: July 12, 2016, 11:16:33 AM »
Is a child allowed to toivel dishes for me ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1505 on: July 12, 2016, 11:28:11 AM »
Is a child allowed to toivel dishes for me ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1506 on: July 12, 2016, 11:29:55 AM »
Is a child allowed to toivel dishes for me ?
i dont think we can trust that he did it, unless you supervised

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1507 on: July 12, 2016, 11:34:13 AM »
i dont think we can trust that he did it, unless you supervised
IOW, yes he can do the maisah, but he has no nemanus that he did it. So you need a gadol to confirm that they were indeed toiveled.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1508 on: July 12, 2016, 11:51:38 AM »
There are some ways to make it that you can assume he did. Ask your LOR
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1509 on: July 12, 2016, 12:12:29 PM »
Does it make any difference older/younger than 9 years old ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1510 on: July 12, 2016, 12:29:08 PM »
Does it make any difference older/younger than 9 years old ?
dont think so

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1511 on: July 12, 2016, 08:57:04 PM »
When eating a freeze pop, can you make the brocha on the little piece thats chopped off, or is the main thing more choshuv?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1512 on: July 12, 2016, 09:09:58 PM »
When eating a freeze pop, can you make the brocha on the little piece thats chopped off, or is the main thing more choshuv?
Do we differentiate chashivus when it's the same item?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1513 on: July 12, 2016, 09:13:28 PM »
When eating a freeze pop, can you make the brocha on the little piece thats chopped off, or is the main thing more choshuv?
I'll bring you a ראיה from מילה that you can make a ברכה on the thing that's chopped off.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1514 on: July 12, 2016, 09:14:24 PM »
Do we differentiate chashivus when it's the same item?
If you're eating 2 of the same thing, you should make a Bracha on the bigger one. Not sure if this is comparable.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1515 on: July 12, 2016, 11:10:57 PM »
When eating a freeze pop, can you make the brocha on the little piece thats chopped off, or is the main thing more choshuv?
Technically if you bite it open, your eating that part first so you would have to make a brocho on it. IMHO you should make the brocho on the whole freeze pop and then cut/rip it (like by a fruit etc)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1516 on: July 12, 2016, 11:11:27 PM »
Is a child allowed to toivel dishes for me ?
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1517 on: July 13, 2016, 12:01:05 AM »
Technically if you bite it open, your eating that part first so you would have to make a brocho on it. IMHO you should make the brocho on the whole freeze pop and then cut/rip it (like by a fruit etc)
because of a daver shaleim? or just chashivus of the biggest piece possible? #2 would have ot be weighed against  a hefsek. #1 is a bit of a stretch.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1518 on: July 14, 2016, 07:25:21 AM »
When eating a freeze pop, can you make the brocha on the little piece thats chopped off, or is the main thing more choshuv?


1) Technically if you bite it open, your eating that part first so you would have to make a brocho on it.
2) IMHO you should make the brocho on the whole freeze pop and then cut/rip it (like by a fruit etc)

1) +1
2) -1

because of a daver shaleim? or just chashivus of the biggest piece possible? #2 would have ot be weighed against  a hefsek. #1 is a bit of a stretch.
The little piece and the big piece are one and the same (small is part of the big) . Not about bigger smaller.( When making a bracha on steak , you eat the small piece cut off or the big piece on the plate - ?-. )
Best would be to cut off little piece of freeze pop off with knife and make a bracha on all of it (even the little piece).
There's definitely what to rely on regarding eating the little piece when bitting off bc it's not eating , it's getting to the ices. The little piece is in the way.
Def considered hefsek when making bracha before opening .


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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #1519 on: July 14, 2016, 07:27:45 AM »
I'll bring you a ראיה from מילה that you can make a ברכה on the thing that's chopped off.
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