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Author Topic: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions  (Read 1176225 times)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4080 on: January 13, 2020, 01:34:29 PM »
Check the cRc website. They allow a chazakah check for most things. That's for their personal guide. I don't know if they have different standards for what they actually certify.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4081 on: January 13, 2020, 02:06:53 PM »
same deal for eggs and bloodspots I think
just need to check 3 eggs in a row and then the rest from tat batch are good

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4082 on: January 13, 2020, 03:41:23 PM »
What's the makor for large kitchens only checking 3 pieces of lettuce and relying on a chazaka that the rest of the pieces have no bugs?
Rabbi Heinemann says that this is what Rav Aharon did. The Primary source IIRC s from Rav Shlomo Kluger in tshuvos. I don't think that 3 leaves would do the trick though.

same deal for eggs and bloodspots I think
just need to check 3 eggs in a row and then the rest from tat batch are good
I don't see how they can be compared.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4083 on: January 13, 2020, 04:03:39 PM »
Rabbi Heinemann says that this is what Rav Aharon did. The Primary source IIRC s from Rav Shlomo Kluger in tshuvos. I don't think that 3 leaves would do the trick though.
I don't see how they can be compared.

I can definitely be wrong

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4084 on: January 13, 2020, 04:56:29 PM »
same deal for eggs and bloodspots I think
just need to check 3 eggs in a row and then the rest from tat batch are good

How would it help to check three eggs? Blood spots are anyway miut sheiyno motzui and the reason to check is since you are cracking it anyway, not to check is like maalim ayin min haisur.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4085 on: January 13, 2020, 05:52:18 PM »
Check the cRc website. They allow a chazakah check for most things. That's for their personal guide. I don't know if they have different standards for what they actually certify.
chazakah check ≠ 3 leaves

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4086 on: January 13, 2020, 06:05:35 PM »
Is the chiyuv for an avul to be bal tefillah 3 times a day or just once ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4087 on: January 13, 2020, 07:56:25 PM »


The Primary source IIRC s from Rav Shlomo Kluger in tshuvos.
Do you know exactly where I can find this?
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4088 on: January 13, 2020, 08:19:54 PM »
Is the chiyuv for an avul to be bal tefillah 3 times a day or just once ?
It would be for every tefila. The question is if he needs to change his schedule to get every tefila. Most important is mariv motzei shabbos then weekday mariv. There is definitely no obligation to change shuls for it (besides that he doesn't have kedima for the amud in a shul other than his regular one and would only get it if there is no one else with any level of chiyuv at all-even during shiva). It is important to note that the bigger zchus for the niftar is davining for the amud over kaddish, which was only instituted for children and others who can't daven for the amud.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4089 on: January 13, 2020, 08:20:22 PM »
Do you know exactly where I can find this?
TIA

I would need to look back in my notes.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4090 on: January 13, 2020, 08:25:59 PM »
Most important is mariv motzei shabbos then weekday mariv
Why is this ?

You see during shiva siblings taking turns davening. Shouldn’t they be trying to get minyan for each one ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4091 on: January 13, 2020, 08:36:24 PM »
Why is this ?

You see during shiva siblings taking turns davening. Shouldn’t they be trying to get minyan for each one ?
Motzei Shabbos is because that is when neshamos go back to gehinom (RMA YD 376:4) daily mariv because midas hadin is more powerful at night (KSA)
Regarding siblings during shiva there is no obligation to make extra minyanim. I just saw this yesterday but don't remember exactly where. I will try to check this up.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4092 on: January 14, 2020, 09:43:21 AM »
Motzei Shabbos is because that is when neshamos go back to gehinom (RMA YD 376:4) daily mariv because midas hadin is more powerful at night (KSA)
Regarding siblings during shiva there is no obligation to make extra minyanim. I just saw this yesterday but don't remember exactly where. I will try to check this up.
I specifically remember as kid not only my Dad davening Motzei Shabbos before a yahrzeit (even if it wasn't bo bayom), but that our shul would split into multiple minyanim if more than one person had a yahrzeit that upcoming week. (regardless of how many chiyuvim there may have been).

It would be for every tefila. The question is if he needs to change his schedule to get every tefila. Most important is mariv motzei shabbos then weekday mariv. There is definitely no obligation to change shuls for it (besides that he doesn't have kedima for the amud in a shul other than his regular one and would only get it if there is no one else with any level of chiyuv at all-even during shiva). It is important to note that the bigger zchus for the niftar is davining for the amud over kaddish, which was only instituted for children and others who can't daven for the amud.

I've also been told that learning (specifically mishnayos, because mishna and nehsama are anagrams) are also more important than kaddish.

As for Shiva and siblings - I am assuming that leading tefila is a zchus of the deceased. Therefore if one brother or the other has the amud, their relative is getting proper zchusim. (my assumption).


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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4093 on: January 14, 2020, 10:45:23 AM »
I specifically remember as kid not only my Dad davening Motzei Shabbos before a yahrzeit (even if it wasn't bo bayom), but that our shul would split into multiple minyanim if more than one person had a yahrzeit that upcoming week. (regardless of how many chiyuvim there may have been).

I've also been told that learning (specifically mishnayos, because mishna and nehsama are anagrams) are also more important than kaddish.

As for Shiva and siblings - I am assuming that leading tefila is a zchus of the deceased. Therefore if one brother or the other has the amud, their relative is getting proper zchusim. (my assumption).


There is a minhag to daven for the amud on motzei shabbos before the yahtzeit. Splitting into smaller minyanim is not simple.

The KSA says that the biggest zchus is to teach descendants to continue biderech hashem.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4094 on: January 14, 2020, 05:06:21 PM »
There is a minhag to daven for the amud on motzei shabbos before the yahtzeit. Splitting into smaller minyanim is not simple.
Can you elaborate why it's not so simple? Whatever the issues, I imagine there are shittos that permit it, considering I've seen it regularly in a few places.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4095 on: January 16, 2020, 12:24:12 AM »
Playing violin/guitar at a levaya. Muttar ? Assur ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4096 on: January 16, 2020, 12:52:14 AM »
Playing violin/guitar at a levaya. Muttar ? Assur ?
Hu???

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4098 on: January 16, 2020, 01:11:33 AM »
Playing violin/guitar at a levaya. Muttar ? Assur ?
Mutar l’halacha. As a matter of fact, in the old days they would have violins at funerals to add to the emotions.
See Moadim Uzmanim Laws of Music during Sefira.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #4099 on: January 16, 2020, 01:38:47 AM »
Mutar l’halacha. As a matter of fact, in the old days they would have violins at funerals to add to the emotions.
See Moadim Uzmanim Laws of Music during Sefira.
Not a problem for the aveilim ?