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Author Topic: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions  (Read 973067 times)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5380 on: August 05, 2022, 09:23:24 AM »

No That is what you wrote
So שם מעוברת is the definition of הוכר עוברה? How is that inferred from ווסתות?
Do you think this is correct:
the fast was never enacted on a מעוברת that would be תלוי in having a שם מעוברת. This is even if she is not a חולה
Ot this:
I suspect the real answer is NOT that it’s תלוי on a שם מעוברת

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5381 on: August 05, 2022, 09:24:39 AM »
Which machlokes?
If a woman is immediately considered מסולק דמים nowadays in regards to הלכות וסתות.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5382 on: August 05, 2022, 09:39:53 AM »
So שם מעוברת is the definition of הוכר עוברה? How is that inferred from ווסתות?
Do you think this is correct:Ot this:
It is not inferred from there. Both are results of the same thing
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5383 on: August 06, 2022, 09:57:17 PM »
What’s the earliest zman in New York to end the fast ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5384 on: August 06, 2022, 10:59:45 PM »
Is a Goy נאמן that shoes are vegan?
״וזה כלל גדול: שישנא אדם כל דבר שקר. וכל מה שיוסיף שנאה לדרכי השקר – יוסיף אהבה לתורה.״ - אורחות צדיקים

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5385 on: August 07, 2022, 12:19:07 AM »
Is a Goy נאמן that shoes are vegan?
Do you trust the label on your sneakers (tisha b'av shoes) that states that it's man made and not leather?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5386 on: August 07, 2022, 12:27:39 AM »
Do you trust the label on your sneakers (tisha b'av shoes) that states that it's man made and not leather?
That's the question...
״וזה כלל גדול: שישנא אדם כל דבר שקר. וכל מה שיוסיף שנאה לדרכי השקר – יוסיף אהבה לתורה.״ - אורחות צדיקים

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5387 on: August 07, 2022, 12:29:51 AM »
That's the question...
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5388 on: August 14, 2022, 12:29:09 PM »
I'll likely eventually ask this to a dayan, but curious if there will be consensus:
If a playgroup Morah told us that her hours would be from 9:20-3 and then changed it to 9:30 without telling us (never mentioned it on registration that this changed), would I be able to back out, and would I be able to get the registration refunded? She admitted that she changed the hours, plus my wife has the original text conversations (there were never oral conversations).

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5389 on: August 14, 2022, 02:56:14 PM »
I'll likely eventually ask this to a dayan, but curious if there will be consensus:
If a playgroup Morah told us that her hours would be from 9:20-3 and then changed it to 9:30 without telling us (never mentioned it on registration that this changed), would I be able to back out, and would I be able to get the registration refunded? She admitted that she changed the hours, plus my wife has the original text conversations (there were never oral conversations).
She agreed to watch you kid from 9:20. If the agreement is binding then i don't see why she can change the time, and since she is, she is the one backing out not you. (if the agreement is not binding then this is moot)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5390 on: August 14, 2022, 03:36:55 PM »
I'll likely eventually ask this to a dayan, but curious if there will be consensus:
If a playgroup Morah told us that her hours would be from 9:20-3 and then changed it to 9:30 without telling us (never mentioned it on registration that this changed), would I be able to back out, and would I be able to get the registration refunded? She admitted that she changed the hours, plus my wife has the original text conversations (there were never oral conversations).


In the context of this forum would 10 minutes be enough to cancel a flight without fees?
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All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5391 on: August 14, 2022, 04:44:34 PM »
In the context of this forum would 10 minutes be enough to cancel a flight without fees?
Ah left out a crucial detail - this is in Lakewood where 10 minutes can make a huge difference in terms of getting to your desk on time (traffic).
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5392 on: August 14, 2022, 05:48:18 PM »
Ah left out a crucial detail - this is in Lakewood where 10 minutes can make a huge difference in terms on getting to your desk on time.
oh lkwd?
Do you have a replacement, because finding a babysitter is not easy. (you probably know that though)
Did you try talking to her about it? explain why its important to you and ask if she can make an exception. Point out (very nicely :) ) that  "i was under the impression that you are starting at 920". I wouldn't go in swinging though, because she obviously doesn't think she is doing anything wrong, so telling her that she is will likely not get you anywhere.

It sounds like it is past this stage already though....
good luck. but you should defiantly speak to a dayan

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All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5393 on: August 14, 2022, 06:56:18 PM »
oh lkwd?
Do you have a replacement, because finding a babysitter is not easy. (you probably know that though)
Did you try talking to her about it? explain why its important to you and ask if she can make an exception. Point out (very nicely :) ) that  "i was under the impression that you are starting at 920". I wouldn't go in swinging though, because she obviously doesn't think she is doing anything wrong, so telling her that she is will likely not get you anywhere.

It sounds like it is past this stage already though....
good luck. but you should defiantly speak to a dayan
Lol yeah pretty much just figuring if I even have another option (spoiler: likely not).
(Going to put more info in the Lakewood thread.)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5394 on: August 14, 2022, 07:48:37 PM »
Lol yeah pretty much just figuring if I even have another option (spoiler: likely not).
(Going to put more info in the Lakewood thread.)
Which may be her responsibility to cover at whatever cost it takes.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5395 on: August 14, 2022, 08:22:20 PM »
Is a Goy נאמן that shoes are vegan?

Why wouldn’t they be? Leather is more expensive than PU. They call it vegan because it sounds better than plastic. But the default is for shoes to be made from plastic, leather shoes never happen by mistake.

Question is they’re are believed to say it’s leather.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5396 on: August 14, 2022, 08:25:34 PM »
Why wouldn’t they be? Leather is more expensive than PU. They call it vegan because it sounds better than plastic. But the default is for shoes to be made from plastic, leather shoes never happen by mistake.

Question is they’re are believed to say it’s leather.
Now vegan leather is a status symbol, they're proud to say their product is made with vegan leather. It's usually not plastic, it's some other plant based material.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5397 on: August 14, 2022, 08:38:27 PM »
In the context of this forum would 10 minutes be enough to cancel a flight without fees?

This is not related to flying, which gets you from point a to point b. You are paying for someone to watch and teach your kids for these hours. It’s very straightforward. If there are 180-200 days of playgroup, that adds up to 30-33 hours that were shaven off over the course of a year.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5398 on: August 14, 2022, 08:39:53 PM »
Now vegan leather is a status symbol, they're proud to say their product is made with vegan leather. It's usually not plastic, it's some other plant based material.

That's nonsense. Vegan is shorthand for PU and canvas. If it was anything special like mycellium they would make that claim that and not just vegan.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5399 on: August 14, 2022, 11:49:11 PM »
That's nonsense. Vegan is shorthand for PU and canvas. If it was anything special like mycellium they would make that claim that and not just vegan.
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