All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions

[imayid2]

The מאורי אור says that the breaks in our Chumash were made by am haratzim.

[imayid2]

and didn't suggest changing it afaik.

This is incorrect

[Yehuda57]

My 6 year old son was making kiddush shabbos day and he started reading kiddush of ליל שבת from the bentcher. DW shushed him and directed him to the right kiddush.
I was thinking that he technically should be be saying kiddush of friday night, as he doesn't stay up for the Friday night meal. Never heard that done though. Anyone have a reason why not?

I know of a Shliach who does Friday night kiddush by day at the kiddush, because many attendees did not make kiddush the night before. He also makes havdalah for people up until Tuesday.

One reason I might say your *child* shouldn't do it is because it might get confusing. He has no chiyuv, it is done altz chinuch. Being mechanech him to make Friday night kiddush by day is an interesting chinuch.

[mevinyavin]

I know of a Shliach who does Friday night kiddush by day at the kiddush, because many attendees did not make kiddush the night before. He also makes havdalah for people up until Tuesday.

One reason I might say your *child* shouldn't do it is because it might get confusing. He has no chiyuv, it is done altz chinuch. Being mechanech him to make Friday night kiddush by day is an interesting chinuch.

Interesting that you say that. A musmach of Rav Dovid Feinstein Z"L was discussing bentching on mezonos pizza for his son with him. Rav Dovid told him the boy should wash on one slice because that is his normal amount. Then he added, "You can't do that if you are eating one slice next to him and making mezonos. If he washes, you either wash and eat enough or don't eat!"

[imayid2]

I asked around a bit about my kiddush question. A big T’C I consulted with told me “we don’t do it”. I told him I’m looking for a real reason, not “what we do”, if I start doing it it’ll be become what we do in my fam and problem solved.

Anyway, he said a svara that if he’s not up for kiddush of night he’s not נשתייך to it in הלכות חינוך or something like that. I responded that he’s up after plag which technically is a zman which is ראוי לקידוש. He answered that if that’s the case he should be making his own kiddush by plag! I may start doing that.

[avromie7]

I asked around a bit about my kiddush question. A big T’C I consulted with told me “we don’t do it”. I told him I’m looking for a real reason, not “what we do”, if I start doing it it’ll be become what we do in my fam and problem solved.

Anyway, he said a svara that if he’s not up for kiddush of night he’s not נשתייך to it in הלכות חינוך or something like that. I responded that he’s up after plag which technically is a zman which is ראוי לקידוש. He answered that if that’s the case he should be making his own kiddush by plag! I may start doing that.

Does that mean he's mekabel shabbos before you?

[imayid2]

Does that mean he's mekabel shabbos before you?

I guess so

[Yehuda57]

I asked around a bit about my kiddush question. A big T’C I consulted with told me “we don’t do it”. I told him I’m looking for a real reason, not “what we do”, if I start doing it it’ll be become what we do in my fam and problem solved.

Anyway, he said a svara that if he’s not up for kiddush of night he’s not נשתייך to it in הלכות חינוך or something like that. I responded that he’s up after plag which technically is a zman which is ראוי לקידוש. He answered that if that’s the case he should be making his own kiddush by plag! I may start doing that.

"What we do" *is* a real reason.

That case I mentioned above who makes havdalah until Tuesday for people and Friday night kiddush by day? Well, it does cause mocking and leitzanus from kids and people who are becoming more observant. When there is a shiur on a Monday night that starts with Havdalah, people laugh and you run the risk of turning havdalah into a joke, and/or the person doing it becomes the but of the joke.

When your kid goes to another house and hears regular day-time kiddush and not the Friday night kiddush he is accustomed to, you can't be sure how that will affect him. Is he going to brush it off, or is he going to feel awkward that he is "different" and start thinking of you as someone with OCD tendencies?

My son used to make kiddush before going to bed Friday night. We made like a mini shabbos seudah.

[imayid2]

When your kid goes to another house and hears regular day-time kiddush and not the Friday night kiddush he is accustomed to, you can't be sure how that will affect him. Is he going to brush it off, or is he going to feel awkward that he is "different" and start thinking of you as someone with OCD tendencies?

This would not be an issue because he hears me make regular day kiddush every week. If I’d tell him to say the night kiddish in his personal one, I’d explain to him that it’s because he missed it last night.

[Moshe Green]

My son used to make kiddush before going to bed Friday night. We made like a mini shabbos seudah.

+1
The kids take turns making kiddush and hamotzei and they love it.

[imayid2]

Are we all gilgulim, or are some of us first timers?

[yungermanchik]

Are we all gilgulim, or are some of us first timers?

Lmai nafka mina? Either way we have to do our best in Avodas Hashem.

[Alexsei]

Are we all gilgulim, or are some of us first timers?

Those who know don't say those who say don't know

[imayid2]

Lmai nafka mina? Either way we have to do our best in Avodas Hashem.

Oh you must of thought I was asking a Halacha Shaila. Tiffeh Questions don’t need nafka minas…

[imayid2]

Those who know don't say those who say don't know

You can say you don’t know

[Definitions]

Belongs in hashkafah thread IMO.

Once there my question would be what's the purpose of gilgulim. People have to come on to it to answer why tzadikim suffer. But other than that what's the purpose in guaranteeing success?

As for your question idk and never looked into it.

[imayid2]

Belongs in hashkafah thread IMO.

Disagree. It’s a Tiffeh question, not hashkafic.

[Definitions]

Disagree. It’s a Tiffeh question, not hashkafic.

Disagree on this

[Alexsei]

Disagree. It’s a Tiffeh question, not hashkafic.

We all come from טפה סרוחה

[imayid2]

Once there my question would be what's the purpose of gilgulim.

To rectify the soul.