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Author Topic: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions  (Read 1209109 times)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6440 on: December 12, 2024, 01:43:53 PM »
Is there even enough data for that?
Hard to believe.
Insurance companies have charged different rates for different demographics (men/women, older/younger, married/single) for many, many years.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6441 on: December 12, 2024, 01:45:07 PM »
I have other problems with this situation, and I am not advocating doing it.
The specific charge of gneiva I don't see.

Lets change the case.
What if a store offers a discount to Mets fans. All you have to do to get the discount is say you're such? Is it gneiva for a Yankees fan to avail himself to the discount?
The posek I asked is a respected boki in iyanei Choshen Mishpat, and he said it was muttar. It is the other issues that make me curious regarding Rabbi Berkovits's shita.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6442 on: December 12, 2024, 02:29:34 PM »
Why? It's all imaginary self Id'ing anyway...
Why cant someone ID as a driver of a different gender?
"In my car identify as bi, For the restroom male (no lines), and for sports female"
All you have to do to get the discount is say you're such?
These are assumptions, and I'm guessing any psak l'heter is thinking along these lines. The reality is more likely that the insurance companies allow you to select it online, but would actually follow up for documentation (like DL showing x) before reducing your bill. What that documentation is may vary, but I'd be shocked if the entire requirement was this is how I identify, even though I can't prove that in any concrete way other than declaring it so by selecting the x option.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6443 on: December 12, 2024, 03:29:37 PM »
My LOR said that while it's not assur, it's definitely Mechuar HaDavar
Rabbi breitowitz had this on one of his qa, he says it's Geneiva, and ziuf hatorah, there is only one gender for you. IIRC.
The main issue here is more than lying.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6444 on: December 12, 2024, 04:02:33 PM »
The main issue here is more than lying.
In addition to all the other problems, practically, if you're in an accident, the insurance company could deny coverage on the basis that one wasn't truthful on the application.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6445 on: December 12, 2024, 04:28:07 PM »
As discussed there, this explains the variations by age/location/gender
Insurance companies have charged different rates for different demographics (men/women, older/younger, married/single) for many, many years.
I don't care about these variations.
The entire field of GF should be too new and too small of a data set to have reliable actuarial tables.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6446 on: December 12, 2024, 04:46:54 PM »
I don't care about these variations.
The entire field of GF should be too new and too small of a data set to have reliable actuarial tables.
So it seems in the meantime, they assess like female.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6447 on: December 12, 2024, 07:48:27 PM »
I didn't think you needed to be a rabbi to see that
I also thought it was Pashut that it was at least Mechuar Hadavar but someone disagreed so we went to the LOR and he agreed with me.
Small people talk about other people.
Average people talk about things
BIG PEOPLE TALK ABOUT IDEAS.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6448 on: December 13, 2024, 12:49:42 AM »
Insurance companies have charged different rates for different demographics (men/women, older/younger, married/single) for many, many years.

Yes. I don’t really understand the whole discussion here. You guys are saying that you will lie to the insurance company so that you can pay less than what you are supposed to. Am I missing something here?! And what krumme svora are you coming up with why it’s not outright gneiva?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6449 on: December 13, 2024, 01:17:35 AM »
Yes. I don’t really understand the whole discussion here. You guys are saying that you will lie to the insurance company so that you can pay less than what you are supposed to. Am I missing something here?! And what krumme svora are you coming up with why it’s not outright gneiva?
Chill. There are apparently Rabbonim on both sides here.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6450 on: December 14, 2024, 01:18:23 PM »
Chill. There are apparently Rabbonim on both sides here.
Rabbi Berkovits immediately said, "No way. Chillul Hashem." The other posek I spoke to (the sgan Rav under RBs) thinks it wouldn't be a chillul Hashem, and holds as a dovor poshut that R' Berkovits has no problem with the emes/gzeila aspects of the problem. (So did another posek I asked, who added that Rabbi Berkovits would need to weigh in on the hashkafa.)
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6451 on: December 14, 2024, 01:48:56 PM »
Rabbi Berkovits proposed the following question:
If it theoretically become the minhag that people would eat challah for desert - and people would bake special desert challahs specifically for that purpose - would the challah become mezonos?
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6452 on: December 14, 2024, 07:10:49 PM »
Rabbi Berkovits proposed the following question:
If it theoretically become the minhag that people would eat challah for desert - and people would bake special desert challahs specifically for that purpose - would the challah become mezonos?
IMHO no.

The vast majority of achronim hold that the 3 opinions of what constitutes PHB disagree with each other. This demonstrates that it does not suffice for bread to be “made for snack” to become PHB,. Rather, there needs to be something inherent in its makeup that marks it as such.

As to what that is we have 3 opinions, and as long as one of them is not met it defaults to Hamotzey.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6453 on: December 15, 2024, 02:57:24 AM »
Rabbi Berkovits proposed the following question:
If it theoretically become the minhag that people would eat challah for desert - and people would bake special desert challahs specifically for that purpose - would the challah become mezonos?
THE PURPOSE MAKES NO DIFFERENCE!!!!!!
there is no rayah at all from mirkachas, bec that is not able to be eaten in big quantities but something that could be eaten in quantity is hamotzi

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6454 on: December 15, 2024, 03:40:34 AM »
By which I assume you mean to say that croutons (from bread baked expressly for making into croutons) are impossible to eat straight in large quantities.  Or that you make hamotzi on croutons?
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6455 on: December 15, 2024, 04:57:30 AM »
By which I assume you mean to say that croutons (from bread baked expressly for making into croutons) are impossible to eat straight in large quantities.  Or that you make hamotzi on croutons?
i am just quoting the only place in shulchan aruch, as far as i am aware, that straight bread is mezonos
so not sure why challa baked for desert purpose is mezons

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6456 on: December 15, 2024, 05:38:47 AM »
i am just quoting the only place in shulchan aruch, as far as i am aware, that straight bread is mezonos
so not sure why challa baked for desert purpose is mezons
I'm not knocking that. I am simply stating thus: Bread, baked as usual for the express purpose of turning into croutons - is hamotzi?
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6457 on: December 15, 2024, 06:00:15 AM »
I'm not knocking that. I am simply stating thus: Bread, baked as usual for the express purpose of turning into croutons - is hamotzi?
there are a million types of croutons, but certain ones definetly will be hamotzi

 

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6458 on: December 15, 2024, 06:03:01 AM »
there are a million types of croutons, but certain ones definetly will be hamotzi
Bseder. So your shita is consistent.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #6459 on: December 20, 2024, 12:08:44 PM »
Do glass bottles being used to bottle wine & are not going to be used again once emptied, need to be toiveled?