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Author Topic: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions  (Read 964907 times)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #920 on: October 13, 2015, 01:09:40 PM »
that doesn't make sense so if a father wants to cut his ben bochur whats he supposed to do if its a shabbos bris? wait til sunday?

Look it up. In Pischei Teshuva and Darkei Teshuva there.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #921 on: October 13, 2015, 01:15:52 PM »
that doesn't make sense so if a father wants to cut his ben bochur whats he supposed to do if its a shabbos bris? wait til sunday?
Use a different mohel

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #922 on: October 13, 2015, 02:07:48 PM »
that doesn't make sense so if a father wants to cut his ben bochur whats he supposed to do if its a shabbos bris? wait til sunday?
He needs to do a bris beforehand on a weekday. Maybe post in the 'need a favor thread' but good luck w ith that.
Or daven for a weekday birth.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #923 on: October 13, 2015, 02:14:54 PM »
A mohel cannot do his first bris on a shabbos.
Not exactly sure. has to do with chillul shabbas and sakanah. I think its beferish in shu"a.
The reason is that on shabbos only one mohel is allowed to do the bris (that's the reason why when a father wants to do just part [i.e. chituch only] he has no chance on shabbos) because the bris is only doche shabbos for one person to be mechalel shabbos not two. By the first (few) bris(sim) anyone performs there's a chashash that he may faint from the sight and it (/they) therefore requires an experienced mohel as omed al gabav in case he needs to take over. If a mohel's first bris is on shabbos there's the chashash of fainting, thereby leading to more than one person being mechalel shabbos.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #924 on: October 23, 2015, 11:32:57 AM »
If you mean to say shehakol on a coffee, and you accidentally and mindlessly say haetz, do you say boruch sheim and move on with life or should/can you run and grab an apple?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #925 on: October 23, 2015, 11:50:48 AM »
If you mean to say shehakol on a coffee, and you accidentally and mindlessly say haetz, do you say boruch sheim and move on with life or should/can you run and grab an apple?
say boruch shaim and move on, because you didnt have in mind to eat the apple so you would have to make a new bracha anyways

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #926 on: October 23, 2015, 04:03:39 PM »
Are you allowed to reply "Yes" to the question "Do you swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?"
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #927 on: October 23, 2015, 04:19:57 PM »
If you mean to say shehakol on a coffee, and you accidentally and mindlessly say haetz, do you say boruch sheim and move on with life or should/can you run and grab an apple?
Iirc correctly eating an apple is worse because now you get a bracha levatala and you ate without a bracha

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #928 on: October 23, 2015, 04:41:07 PM »
Are you allowed to reply "Yes" to the question "Do you swear to tell the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?"
we jews dont swear we affirm

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #929 on: October 24, 2015, 09:43:19 PM »
That was my question: Is that even when someone makes the statement and all you have to do is say "Yes"? Is there a din שומע כעונה by a goy?
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #930 on: October 25, 2015, 02:16:40 AM »
That was my question: Is that even when someone makes the statement and all you have to do is say "Yes"? Is there a din שומע כעונה by a goy?
from what i understand just saying yes is not saying anything they take it as whatever they want

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #931 on: November 02, 2015, 01:26:20 AM »
Anyone know a makor for not standing at the 'head' of the bima (facing the baal koreh) during leining?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #932 on: November 02, 2015, 01:52:14 AM »
I've heard of it during leining of tochacha, parshiyos bechukosei and ki savo.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #933 on: November 02, 2015, 07:02:38 AM »
Anyone know a makor for not standing at the 'head' of the bima (facing the baal koreh) during leining?
I think the minhag is that it's disturbing.
« Last Edit: November 02, 2015, 07:58:40 AM by moko »

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #934 on: November 02, 2015, 07:34:51 AM »
I think the memory is that it's disturbing.
+100000 I hate that especially when they hold the top and try to turn it for you

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #935 on: November 05, 2015, 02:31:38 AM »
+100000 I hate that especially when they hold the top and try to turn it for you
yup,
I hope its ok to ask this, but I was wondering if anyone got a psak about opening up a new ff# in order to get a bonus again, if it is within the 18 month window for citi or 24 month for chase etc... Is that stealing since if you asked them if you can do that, I believe they would say no? (sorry if this is to blunt)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #936 on: November 05, 2015, 08:09:26 AM »
yup,
I hope its ok to ask this, but I was wondering if anyone got a psak about opening up a new ff# in order to get a bonus again, if it is within the 18 month window for citi or 24 month for chase etc... Is that stealing since if you asked them if you can do that, I believe they would say no? (sorry if this is to blunt)
That's more of an ethics question see the ethics board

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #937 on: November 05, 2015, 08:43:15 AM »
That's more of an ethics question see the ethics board
I thought about that after, but I think there is a gineveia Sheila first and then you can discuss the ethics?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #938 on: November 05, 2015, 08:45:16 AM »
I thought about that after, but I think there is a gineveia Sheila first and then you can discuss the ethics?
There is gineveia by a goy

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #939 on: November 05, 2015, 09:06:10 AM »
Are you allowed to tell the kohanim to leave to give someone else the aliya?
(I'm not asking if its done because I've seen it done)