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Author Topic: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions  (Read 950820 times)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #940 on: November 05, 2015, 10:52:23 AM »
Are you allowed to tell the kohanim to leave to give someone else the aliya?
(I'm not asking if its done because I've seen it done)
You are allowed to ask them to leave, but they can refuse. Also if its a privately owned shul the owner may take and give the first aliya to whom ever he wants. 

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #941 on: November 05, 2015, 11:13:03 AM »
You are allowed to ask them to leave, but they can refuse. Also if its a privately owned shul the owner may take and give the first aliya to whom ever he wants.
Is buying the aliya enough to be like the owner?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #942 on: November 05, 2015, 11:19:59 AM »
Is buying the aliya enough to be like the owner?
no, only owner of the shul

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #943 on: November 05, 2015, 11:20:28 AM »
no, only owner of the shul
Thank you

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #944 on: November 05, 2015, 11:23:22 AM »
There is gineveia by a goy
maskim, that's my shaila! nu?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #945 on: November 05, 2015, 11:26:12 AM »
You are allowed to ask them to leave, but they can refuse. Also if its a privately owned shul the owner may take and give the first aliya to whom ever he wants.

A) does this apply to shteibels today ?

B) does this apply if you rent from a big shul? for my Bar Mitzva we rented the small "beit meddrish" in a big Shul would my dad have been able to bypass a cohen if he wanted to

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #946 on: November 05, 2015, 11:27:29 AM »
A) does this apply to shteibels today ?

B) does this apply if you rent from a big shul? for my Bar Mitzva we rented the small "beit meddrish" in a big Shul would my dad have been able to bypass a cohen if he wanted to
Hit the nail on the head with my next questions

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #947 on: November 05, 2015, 11:29:38 AM »
You are allowed to ask them to leave, but they can refuse. Also if its a privately owned shul the owner may take and give the first aliya to whom ever he wants.
The related din to that is the fact that you almost never need to say birshus hakohen when leading a zimun, because usually there's a baal habayis, and the kadima of kohen doesn't apply there.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #948 on: November 05, 2015, 05:02:57 PM »
The related din to that is the fact that you almost never need to say birshus hakohen when leading a zimun, because usually there's a baal habayis, and the kadima of kohen doesn't apply there.
I think you may have missed the point. It's a mitzva for the bah"b to be mechabed the kohen to bentch (though he may choose someone else).

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #949 on: November 05, 2015, 05:35:02 PM »
I think you may have missed the point. It's a mitzva for the bah"b to be mechabed the kohen to bentch (though he may choose someone else).
I have missed no point, nor did I make this up myself. I don't remember all the details because it was a long time ago, but one of my rabbeim gave a lengthy shiur dealing with this, and he showed how there are 2 separate dinim. There's a general din to give kadima to a kohen that applies in certain circumstances. There's a separate din that for public leining and seudos, in order that there shouldn't be fighting over kavod, the kohen comes first. Neither din applies to betching in someone's house.


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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #950 on: November 14, 2015, 09:02:19 PM »
What's the Halacha of giving business to someone who refuses to close on shabbos ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #951 on: November 14, 2015, 09:34:04 PM »
What's the Halacha of giving business to someone who refuses to close on shabbos ?
That's a very broad question,  depends if he is doing it especially for you, Etc. also there is dry cut HALACHA, and some things are mutter but better not.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #952 on: November 14, 2015, 09:39:19 PM »
That's a very broad question,  depends if he is doing it especially for you, Etc. also there is dry cut HALACHA, and some things are mutter but better not.
My barber doesn't wanna close on shabbos. People have tried convincing him but to no avail. People have told him they won't come anymore but that still hasn't changed his mind.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #953 on: November 14, 2015, 09:56:02 PM »
There is no איסור but of course its better to go to a shommer Shabbos one and refrain from giving one who is not any חיזוק.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #954 on: November 15, 2015, 01:05:14 PM »
My barber doesn't wanna close on shabbos. People have tried convincing him but to no avail. People have told him they won't come anymore but that still hasn't changed his mind.
He's probably seen that it's an empty threat, or his Sh"Sh customers are of minority of his.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #955 on: November 15, 2015, 03:32:27 PM »
Someone told the barber that he told others not to come anymore. Do I need to find a new barber ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #956 on: November 18, 2015, 02:18:19 AM »

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #957 on: November 18, 2015, 09:46:58 AM »
Someone told the barber that he told others not to come anymore. Do I need to find a new barber ?

as long as he is not doing malacha specifically for you on shobbos you should be fine.

you arent obligated to go by someone else's ultimatum.

this all assumes he is jewish, that was never actually said.

ETA even if you convince him to close his business on shobbos I doubt he will actually be shomer shobbos 

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #958 on: November 18, 2015, 01:46:04 PM »
as long as he is not doing malacha specifically for you on shobbos you should be fine.

you arent obligated to go by someone else's ultimatum.

this all assumes he is jewish, that was never actually said.

ETA even if you convince him to close his business on shobbos I doubt he will actually be shomer shobbos
Every melacha less that he now does is one less chiyuv kareis. Is that not enough of a reason?!

And besides, one thing leads to the next; aka mitzva goreres mitzva.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #959 on: November 18, 2015, 10:26:44 PM »
Every melacha less that he now does is one less chiyuv kareis. Is that not enough of a reason?!

And besides, one thing leads to the next; aka mitzva goreres mitzva.
I'm sure blackmailing him will have the effect of getting him to do many more Mitzvos...