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Author Topic: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions  (Read 276298 times)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3555 on: March 08, 2019, 02:18:10 AM »
Why not? There's no obligation to stop someone from doing something wrong?
Is that why you'd tell him not to eat? Because you're worried about his neshama?
What about the embarrasment you'd cause him? What about his hungry belly?


Are you concerned about the loss to the yeshiva? If food was being wasted and  you could help save some money, I'd be with you.  But the downside to the meshulach is too great for just anyone to tell him off.


If the yeshiva wants to enforce this policy, they should have a hanholo member take care of it.  This is one time to turn away because it's not your business.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3556 on: March 08, 2019, 02:45:00 AM »
Is that why you'd tell him not to eat? Because you're worried about his neshama?
What about the embarrasment you'd cause him? What about his hungry belly?


Are you concerned about the loss to the yeshiva? If food was being wasted and  you could help save some money, I'd be with you.  But the downside to the meshulach is too great for just anyone to tell him off.


If the yeshiva wants to enforce this policy, they should have a hanholo member take care of it.  This is one time to turn away because it's not your business.
I get what you're saying. But still

#1 I'm not worried about his neshamo I'm worried about mine.
#2 like I said before obviously you can't say anything in an embarrassing way (trust me the person telling him is more embarrassed). If he gets embarrassed there's nothing you can do about it. You did you're best.
#3 being hungry doesn't give him permission.
#4 even if the yeshiva was being supported by a billionaire it still doesn't make it right.

The last reason is the one I like best. If they were really makpid on it they would have hanhola enforcing it. But then again I don't know if I can rely on that.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3557 on: March 08, 2019, 07:05:33 AM »
I get what you're saying. But still

#1 I'm not worried about his neshamo I'm worried about mine.
#2 like I said before obviously you can't say anything in an embarrassing way (trust me the person telling him is more embarrassed). If he gets embarrassed there's nothing you can do about it. You did you're best.
#3 being hungry doesn't give him permission.
#4 even if the yeshiva was being supported by a billionaire it still doesn't make it right.

The last reason is the one I like best. If they were really makpid on it they would have hanhola enforcing it. But then again I don't know if I can rely on that.
Are you joking? If they don't enforce it,then you shouldn't either. Don't be a self appointed police man.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3558 on: March 08, 2019, 03:53:31 PM »
Am I allowed to have hamotzi now ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3559 on: March 08, 2019, 05:06:51 PM »
Am I allowed to have hamotzi now ?
Where are you located?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3560 on: March 08, 2019, 05:16:29 PM »
Where are you located?
Dining room :)
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3561 on: March 09, 2019, 09:06:38 PM »
Am I allowed to have hamotzi now ?
No, not suppose to wash for a meal after chotzos.
   Your going to come into shabbos with little or no appetite.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3562 on: March 10, 2019, 01:53:18 AM »
No, not suppose to wash for a meal after chotzos.
   Your going to come into shabbos with little or no appetite.

Are you sure the zman is chatzos?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3563 on: March 10, 2019, 03:25:19 AM »
Am I allowed to have hamotzi now ?
Are you sure the zman is chatzos?
Your right I stand corrected, it's assur starting from the 10th hour and on, which is primarily 3hrs before Shikya.
   Don't know why I thought from chazos, and there's no problem to wash for a small snack.

Take a peek here, explained very clearly with mareh mikomos for those interested.
 Never saw this site before.

https://shulchanaruchharav.com/halacha/eating-on-erev-shabbos/
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3564 on: March 18, 2019, 04:11:15 PM »
Which seforim did R’ Reuven Fein publish ?
I’m looking for a Sefer on Berachos

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3565 on: March 18, 2019, 04:13:33 PM »
Which seforim did R’ Reuven Fein publish ?
I’m looking for a Sefer on Berachos
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3566 on: March 18, 2019, 04:22:34 PM »
Bein Hamishpatayim
That’s the one. Thanks

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3567 on: April 15, 2019, 12:48:41 PM »
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 They offered a free code to get a better one than what came in the original package, now the free code they gave me i see works on 8 such lights, can i halachahlicy buy all 8 for free, or only buy one? as i would assume the seller wants me to do?
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3568 on: April 17, 2019, 02:09:26 PM »
Does an urn that will be used for kashering need tevila? More specifically, I want to buy an urn today to use for kashering my kitchen tonight, and then toivel it tomorrow, leaving it to dry for a few days in time to use it for second days yom tov.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and teiffa Questions
« Reply #3569 on: April 17, 2019, 02:15:38 PM »
Can I use a not toiveled kettle to kasher?
Just noticed this. @churnbabychurn did you ever get an answer to this?