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Author Topic: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions  (Read 933262 times)

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5740 on: June 14, 2023, 11:00:06 PM »
Are you referring to R' Moshe's opinion in אגרות משה ח"ז (אה"ע ד) סי' לב ט?

https://hebrewbooks.org/pdfpager.aspx?req=921&st=&pgnum=73&hilite=
R' Moshe very clearly does not allow shaking hands. OP probably meant sitting on a bus or train, which is referenced in the teshuva you posted.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5741 on: June 14, 2023, 11:41:03 PM »
R' Moshe very clearly does not allow shaking hands.
Correct, in Igros, He clearly forbids it. However, Rav Chaim Mintz has an oral Psak permiting it. I'm under the impression that it was a personal psak, that Rav Moshe gave, knowing Rav Chaim's Yiras Shamayim, but others say otherwise.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5742 on: June 15, 2023, 04:34:14 AM »
R' Moshe very clearly does not allow shaking hands. OP probably meant sitting on a bus or train, which is referenced in the teshuva you posted.
I made it clear in my post (at least, I thought I did) that the heter from R' Moshe was theoretical. Which was exactly my point regarding the dislike button.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5743 on: June 19, 2023, 11:09:45 AM »
Any Sources in regard to the status of missing Zman Krias shema because of oversleeping, is it called a shogeg, Ones, or Meizid. ?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5744 on: June 19, 2023, 11:23:13 AM »
Any Sources in regard to the status of missing Zman Krias shema because of oversleeping, is it called a shogeg, Ones, or Meizid. ?
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5745 on: June 19, 2023, 11:39:19 AM »
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5746 on: June 19, 2023, 12:33:18 PM »
Any Sources in regard to the status of missing Zman Krias shema because of oversleeping, is it called a shogeg, Ones, or Meizid. ?
There is a 4th possibility (at least in theory) that there was never a chiyuv, as somebody who is sleeping isn't בן דעת and can't be mechuyav in something.

Here are some resources 

https://din.org.il/2011/12/21/הישן-והשוטה-מעמדם-בקיום-המצוות/
״וזה כלל גדול: שישנא אדם כל דבר שקר. וכל מה שיוסיף שנאה לדרכי השקר – יוסיף אהבה לתורה.״ - אורחות צדיקים

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5747 on: June 19, 2023, 05:07:51 PM »
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What type of aveirah it is considered. It is much more chomur if its a meizid.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5748 on: June 19, 2023, 05:08:46 PM »
There is a 4th possibility (at least in theory) that there was never a chiyuv, as somebody who is sleeping isn't בן דעת and can't be mechuyav in something.

Here are some resources 

https://din.org.il/2011/12/21/הישן-והשוטה-מעמדם-בקיום-המצוות/
There is also a similar point, that when he went to sleep he wasn't mechuyav yet, so might be allowed.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5749 on: June 21, 2023, 10:43:55 PM »
When people use the expression “Chazal say” does that refer specifically to Mishna/Gemara/Medrash?
Or is it used for Rishonim/Achronim as well?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5750 on: June 21, 2023, 11:21:01 PM »
When people use the expression “Chazal say” does that refer specifically to Mishna/Gemara/Medrash?
Or is it used for Rishonim/Achronim as well?
I think it is intended for the former, but I have seen some instances of Achronim using for later Rishonim or even earlier Achronim. I have to recall specific instances. Definitely not common (from what I've come across).

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5751 on: June 21, 2023, 11:29:16 PM »
I think it is intended for the former, but I have seen some instances of Achronim using for later Rishonim or even earlier Achronim. I have to recall specific instances. Definitely not common (from what I've come across).
I guess this could be one of those instances:
https://thelakewoodscoop.com/news/thursday-the-29th-yahrtzeit-of-the-lubavitcher-rebbe-ztl/
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5752 on: June 21, 2023, 11:49:41 PM »

Chazal teach us that the day of a tzadik’s yahrtzeit is a most auspicious day, a יום סגולה ועת רצון, to connect with the tzadik, granting us the potential to elicit brochos and yeshuos min hashomayim in the zechus of the tzadik.



this is probably based on a Zohar.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5753 on: June 21, 2023, 11:53:10 PM »
this is probably based on a Zohar.
Where?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5754 on: June 21, 2023, 11:54:49 PM »
Any Sources in regard to the status of missing Zman Krias shema because of oversleeping, is it called a shogeg, Ones, or Meizid. ?

Not explicitly related to zman Krias shema, but some elaboration on "ones"
Kitzur Shulchan Urech 21

אִם לֹא הִתְפַּלֵל, בְּעוֹד שֶׁהָיָה לוֹ שָׁהוּת לְהִתְפַּלֵּל, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁהָיָה חוֹשֵׁב, שֶׁעֲדַיִן יִשָּׁאֵר לוֹ זְמַן, אַחַר שֶׁיִּגְמֹר אוֹתוֹ עֵסֶק שֶׁהוּא מִתְעַסֵּק בּוֹ, וּבֵין כָּךְ וְכָךְ עָבְרָה לוֹ הַשָּׁעָה, וְכֵן מִי שֶׁהָיָה טָרוּד לְצֹרֶךְ מָמוֹנוֹ, שֶׁלֹּא יָבֹא לִידֵי הֶפְסֵד, וְעַל יְדֵי כֵּן הִפְסִיד זְמַן הַתְּפִלָּה, אַף עַל גַּב דְּאָסוּר לְהַעֲבִיר זְמַן תְּפִלָּה מִשּׁוּם הֶפְסֵד מָמוֹן מִכָּל מָקוֹם מִקְרֵי אֹנֶס, וְיֵשׁ לוֹ תַּשְׁלוּמִין. וְכֵן אִם מֵחֲמַת שִׁכְרוּת לֹא הָיָה רָאוּי לְהִתְפַּלֵּל, נֶחְשָׁב גַּם כֵּן כְּאֹנֶס אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁהִתְחִיל בְּאִסּוּר לִשְתֹּת, כְּשֶׁהִגִּיעַ זְמַן תְּפִלָּה.
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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5755 on: June 21, 2023, 11:59:29 PM »
Not explicitly related to zman Krias shema, but some elaboration on "ones"
Kitzur Shulchan Urech 21

אִם לֹא הִתְפַּלֵל, בְּעוֹד שֶׁהָיָה לוֹ שָׁהוּת לְהִתְפַּלֵּל, מִפְּנֵי שֶׁהָיָה חוֹשֵׁב, שֶׁעֲדַיִן יִשָּׁאֵר לוֹ זְמַן, אַחַר שֶׁיִּגְמֹר אוֹתוֹ עֵסֶק שֶׁהוּא מִתְעַסֵּק בּוֹ, וּבֵין כָּךְ וְכָךְ עָבְרָה לוֹ הַשָּׁעָה, וְכֵן מִי שֶׁהָיָה טָרוּד לְצֹרֶךְ מָמוֹנוֹ, שֶׁלֹּא יָבֹא לִידֵי הֶפְסֵד, וְעַל יְדֵי כֵּן הִפְסִיד זְמַן הַתְּפִלָּה, אַף עַל גַּב דְּאָסוּר לְהַעֲבִיר זְמַן תְּפִלָּה מִשּׁוּם הֶפְסֵד מָמוֹן מִכָּל מָקוֹם מִקְרֵי אֹנֶס, וְיֵשׁ לוֹ תַּשְׁלוּמִין. וְכֵן אִם מֵחֲמַת שִׁכְרוּת לֹא הָיָה רָאוּי לְהִתְפַּלֵּל, נֶחְשָׁב גַּם כֵּן כְּאֹנֶס אַף עַל פִּי שֶׁהִתְחִיל בְּאִסּוּר לִשְתֹּת, כְּשֶׁהִגִּיעַ זְמַן תְּפִלָּה.
"Ones" לאפוקי מזיד, not a true ones

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5757 on: June 22, 2023, 11:58:14 AM »
I guess this could be one of those instances:
https://thelakewoodscoop.com/news/thursday-the-29th-yahrtzeit-of-the-lubavitcher-rebbe-ztl/
A mefurash TLP.

I did find a Rashi that brings down a pshat that talmidim come together on a yahrtzeit and learn his Torah, etc.

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5758 on: June 24, 2023, 11:38:22 PM »
Is there a Halachik issue to dispute a CC charge from a jewish company?

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Re: All Halocha Shailos and Tiffeh Questions
« Reply #5759 on: June 24, 2023, 11:40:18 PM »
Is there a Halachik issue to dispute a CC charge from a jewish company?
How do you halachically determine who's right in the dispute and who should eat the loss? Are you relying on AMEX's beis din?
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