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Re: A lesson from Italy ?! Rabbanim wake up!!
« Reply #200 on: March 29, 2020, 10:59:05 PM »
Im crying. This is so painful.

Yes, it’s very painful. I’m davening my heart out that this terrible mageifa end now. Nobody should have to experience this.
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Re: A lesson from Italy ?! Rabbanim wake up!!
« Reply #201 on: March 29, 2020, 11:05:43 PM »
May you have a Nechama and May her neshama have an aliyah!  It’s interesting because all the levayas I’ve attended in my family, it was always like that. We did everything. Prob because my grandparents weren’t frum and they weren’t in in town places etc.
Amen.

My father won’t be saying Kaddish again until much after the shloshim (Erev Pesach). There is no proper nichum aveilim- the aveilim will not be seeing each other or accepting live visitors. Fortunately she merited a tahara, though many unfortunately are not. Many of her own children were not able to attend the levaya. She was left without a shomer the whole Shabbos. Nobody was at her side when she was niftar.

Point is, this machla affects every part of the Petira, even setting aside the actual illness and death. The toll it is taking is devastating and we must do all we can to try and mitigate this with whatever is in our hands to do.

As I write this, I hear sirens whizzing by once more.. ad mosai?
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Re: A lesson from Italy ?! Rabbanim wake up!!
« Reply #202 on: March 29, 2020, 11:09:39 PM »
Amen.

My father won’t be saying Kaddish again until much after the shloshim (Erev Pesach). There is no proper nichum aveilim- the aveilim will not be seeing each other or accepting live visitors. Fortunately she merited a tahara, though many unfortunately are not. Many of her own children were not able to attend the levaya. She was left without a shomer the whole Shabbos. Nobody was at her side when she was niftar.

Point is, this machla affects every part of the Petira, even setting aside the actual illness and death. The toll it is taking is devastating and we must do all we can to try and mitigate this with whatever is in our hands to do.

As I write this, I hear sirens whizzing by once more.. ad mosai?

FYI Yom Tov doesn't take away the kaddish/amud of shloshim only the aveilus.

May you have a nechama.
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Re: A lesson from Italy ?! Rabbanim wake up!!
« Reply #203 on: March 29, 2020, 11:18:12 PM »
Amen.

My father won’t be saying Kaddish again until much after the shloshim (Erev Pesach). There is no proper nichum aveilim- the aveilim will not be seeing each other or accepting live visitors. Fortunately she merited a tahara, though many unfortunately are not. Many of her own children were not able to attend the levaya. She was left without a shomer the whole Shabbos. Nobody was at her side when she was niftar.

Point is, this machla affects every part of the Petira, even setting aside the actual illness and death. The toll it is taking is devastating and we must do all we can to try and mitigate this with whatever is in our hands to do.

As I write this, I hear sirens whizzing by once more.. ad mosai?
Yes Indeed the pain wrought by this virus must be so unbearable on so many levels. Difficult to comprehend and digest. I myself am personally struggling in how to even approach dealing with all this news emotionally etc. The unprecedented amount of death all around us in such a quick way leaving families unable to grieve properly is very disturbing to me to say the least. May we all come together b’achdus and see the end of this very very soon and the geulah shelaima bekarov!

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Re: A lesson from Italy ?! Rabbanim wake up!!
« Reply #204 on: March 30, 2020, 01:24:12 AM »
Hatzolah is so overwhelmed. Listen for yourself https://m.broadcastify.com/listen/feed/7392

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Re: A lesson from Italy ?! Rabbanim wake up!!
« Reply #205 on: March 30, 2020, 01:30:38 AM »
Hatzolah is so overwhelmed. Listen for yourself https://m.broadcastify.com/listen/feed/7392

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It's much better than Thursday night, that was horrific

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Re: A lesson from Italy ?! Rabbanim wake up!!
« Reply #207 on: June 04, 2020, 02:43:12 PM »
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