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gift ideas for kallah
« on: March 30, 2020, 11:38:37 PM »
looking for some ideas what to buy for my kallah. tia

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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #1 on: March 30, 2020, 11:50:49 PM »
Toilet paper

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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #2 on: March 30, 2020, 11:51:34 PM »
JK. Have you bought her any gifts yet? What about basic common stuff like machzorim, jewelry etc?

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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #3 on: March 30, 2020, 11:54:51 PM »
JK. Have you bought her any gifts yet? What about basic common stuff like machzorim, jewelry etc?
just the bracelet so far. ring is being ordered...basics are good but even those i dont know, still new to this game  :)

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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #4 on: March 30, 2020, 11:58:20 PM »
Mazel tov!

How about a leather bound tehillim with her (new) name on it? My wife still uses the one I bought her when we were engaged 12 years ago.
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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #5 on: March 31, 2020, 07:45:42 AM »
I would recommend either a beautiful and tehillim set with her new name printed on it
Or a machzorim set with her name printed on it.

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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #6 on: March 31, 2020, 11:25:58 AM »
Ask your Rav regarding giving her something with her "new" name in it before the wedding

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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #7 on: March 31, 2020, 11:36:35 AM »
Ask your Rav regarding giving her something with her "new" name in it before the wedding
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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #8 on: March 31, 2020, 11:40:57 AM »
I guess the issue would be an implication of מעשה קידושין
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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #9 on: April 01, 2020, 04:38:15 PM »
Depending on your custom...
Basic gifts include: Candlesticks ( Leichter), Jewelry ( including a nice piece in the Yichud room)... 

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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #10 on: April 03, 2020, 11:44:43 AM »
JK. Have you bought her any gifts yet? What about basic common stuff like machzorim, jewelry etc?
Watch, Earrings, bangle , bracelet, Mchzorim, personal sidder, tehillim,ring...
  Don't spoil her to much, otherwise she'll be expecting this throughout. 😜
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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #11 on: April 03, 2020, 12:20:35 PM »
  Don't spoil her to much, otherwise she'll be expecting this throughout. 😜
on other hand, wanna get it all in while I still have folks credit card  ;)

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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #12 on: April 03, 2020, 12:29:42 PM »
Ask your Rav regarding giving her something with her "new" name in it before the wedding
Something I've seen people do is that they put just the first name before the wedding, and then add the "new" last name after the wedding.
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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #13 on: April 03, 2020, 12:55:56 PM »
Something I've seen people do is that they put just the first name before the wedding, and then add the "new" last name after the wedding.
Never seen that before, interesting idea!
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Re: gift ideas for kallah
« Reply #14 on: April 03, 2020, 12:56:26 PM »
on other hand, wanna get it all in while I still have folks credit card  ;)
Smart move!
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