Poll

Is your shul secretly open right now?

Shul is closed and locked NYC
45 (40.2%)
Shul is "closed" but secretly functioning NYC
6 (5.4%)
Shul is officially not closed NYC
0 (0%)
Shul is closed and locked OOT
28 (25%)
Shul is "closed" but secretly functioning OOT
2 (1.8%)
Shul is officially not closed OOT
0 (0%)
Shul is closed and locked Lakewood
31 (27.7%)
Shul is "closed" but secretly functioning Lakewood
0 (0%)
Shul is officially not closed Lakewood
0 (0%)

Total Members Voted: 112

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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #240 on: April 12, 2020, 10:43:41 PM »
One million percent everyone agrees if someone has it, they cannot participate in anything.  And you are completely not understanding what I am saying.
you do know that you can have it without being symptomatic, right?

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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #241 on: April 12, 2020, 10:43:50 PM »
Its shocking but keep in mind that there are plenty of stores that are open. I don't know about you (considering how often you travel) but there are people that would never miss a minyan for anything, kal vchomer for pleasure. How is a shul less important than a store?

I think an obvious answer is that in a time of danger one can pray at home. (One can even daven shachris at netz, which I think is better than  minyan btzibur. If the minyanim referenced above truly care, why not do that? Obviously it wont help for Mincha and Maariv.)

On the other hand, food and medicines must remain available. The fact that you see people not taking it seriously enough is nobody's fault but their own. Rabbonim and Doctors have been very clear that one must be very cautious when going out for essentials.
Read upthread.
If we can avoid stores OOT for 4 weeks before Pesach, you probably can too.  But comparing shuls to stores that sell food and drugs is naarishkeit, no matter how important shul is.

And like it was said above, if you feel the need to make a minyan against your Rov, that proves your entire history of shul-going was never anything but a farce.
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #242 on: April 12, 2020, 10:44:24 PM »

Did I just read "ONLY" slow the curve as some sort of justification when slowing the curve means, you know, FEWER DEAD BODIES
I went to web view from tapa just to like this
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #243 on: April 12, 2020, 10:46:09 PM »
THere is NO way to stop the spread of this disease, period.  Look up what the doctors that instituted this have said.
Dr Fauci is talking containment in many parts of the country when we open back up for business. Which doctors are you talking about?
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #244 on: April 12, 2020, 10:47:22 PM »
This thread could be the straw that keeps me off DDF. Such nonsense being spewed

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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #245 on: April 12, 2020, 10:47:38 PM »
If we can avoid stores OOT for 4 weeks before Pesach, you probably can too.
Online shopping only possible OOT these days.

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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #246 on: April 12, 2020, 10:47:56 PM »
Dr Fauci is talking containment in many parts of the country when we open back up for business. Which doctors are you talking about?
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #247 on: April 12, 2020, 10:48:01 PM »
Obviously not. The vast majority of Rabbonim not in BP andnot in Williamsburg and Not in KY and and and...you get my point. There is no majority unfortunately. Its every man for himself in this and personal kavod and negias plays a big time role in it. If the shul down the street is open how can I not have at least a socially distanced minyan.

Fake news. ALL shuls in KJ are CLOSED.

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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #248 on: April 12, 2020, 10:49:13 PM »
This thread could be the straw that keeps me off DDF. Such nonsense being spewed
This
@Dan, where is my eye bleach post?

It's threads like these that will make me need to check the box for "have you ever contemplated or committed acts of self harm" for returning to this forum.
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #249 on: April 12, 2020, 10:49:33 PM »
This thread could be the straw that keeps me off DDF. Such nonsense being spewed
So call it out?

Could be time to lock though, probably past the point of anything else constructive. Sadly, you can't fix stupid.
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #250 on: April 12, 2020, 10:49:38 PM »
I don't know about you (considering how often you travel) but there are people that would never miss a minyan for anything
Does this apply when they're an Oinen too R"L?

Almost every Rav will tell you today, that there is no Mitzvah, Chiyuv, obligation, source, fill in the blank, to daven with a Minyan today.

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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #251 on: April 12, 2020, 10:49:44 PM »
Fake news. ALL shuls in KJ are CLOSED.
Street minyanim too?
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #252 on: April 12, 2020, 10:50:12 PM »
So call it out?

Could be time to lock though, probably past the point of anything else constructive. Sadly, you can't fix stupid.
Gave you the option of deleting early on  ;D ;D ;D
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #253 on: April 12, 2020, 10:51:18 PM »
So call it out?

Could be time to lock though, probably past the point of anything else constructive. Sadly, you can't fix stupid.
everyone has been called out. They don’t seem to understand. It’s really sad

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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #254 on: April 12, 2020, 10:51:32 PM »
Gave you the option of deleting early on  ;D ;D ;D
Back at ya :)
Can count the number of threads I've deleted on one hand. Then again that applies to locking too, but this is just ugly.
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #255 on: April 12, 2020, 10:52:23 PM »
I think I need a support group. I get so much anxiety that such stupidity exists, but I keep reading these shul threads like I'm going to find some good info or maybe fix some of the stupid. It's like a deeply destructive cycle. And then I dream of hamsters and bleach and minyanim of people who don't know they're dead yet.
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #256 on: April 12, 2020, 10:53:06 PM »
Read upthread.
But comparing shuls to stores that sell food and drugs is naarishkeit, no matter how important shul is.
For someone who never misses a minyan this is a truly troubling situation. Someone who misses minyanim for non essential travel will obviously not show up now, thus they aren't a proof of anything.

But if the guy who makes a minyan in these times can't get up for netz byichidus it proves he isn't either legit.

And like it was said above, if you feel the need to make a minyan against your Rov, that proves your entire history of shul-going was never anything but a farce.
Not if your Rov is wrong. Do you think a Rov has some kind of mystical powers?
But in this case he is right. He follows the Torah that says that safek nefashos trumps most.
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #257 on: April 12, 2020, 10:54:20 PM »
I think I need a support group. I get so much anxiety that such stupidity exists, but I keep reading these shul threads like I'm going to find some good info or maybe fix some of the stupid. It's like a deeply destructive cycle. And then I dream of hamsters and bleach and minyanim of people who don't know they're dead yet.
For this alone it was worth not locking it yet. @Dan it is time lock it up
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #258 on: April 12, 2020, 10:54:24 PM »
I think I need a support group. I get so much anxiety that such stupidity exists, but I keep reading these shul threads like I'm going to find some good info or maybe fix some of the stupid. It's like a deeply destructive cycle. And then I dream of hamsters and bleach and minyanim of people who don't know they're dead yet.
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Re: Is your Shul Secretly Open Right Now?
« Reply #259 on: April 12, 2020, 10:54:41 PM »
For someone who never misses a minyan this is a truly troubling situation. Someone who misses minyanim for non essential travel will obviously not show up now, thus they aren't a proof of anything.

But if the guy who makes a minyan in these times can't get up for netz byichidus it proves he isn't either legit.
Not if your Rov is wrong. Do you think a Rov has some kind of mystical powers?
But in this case he is right. He follows the Torah that says that safek nefashos trumps most.
You're just proving @Dans point. That the reason they're doing it is because they are worshipping themselves and their "winning streaks", not Hashem.