As long as we're on the topic, one of my biggest pet peeves was being dumped after one date.
First girl I dated, I flew out to LA, had a one date, she wasn't interested in dating again.
As a 23 year old introvert with 5 brothers, making small talk with a girl on a first date, let alone connecting with her, was hardly going to be an area I excelled at.
I was angry at a system like that, it seemed so senseless over a date where research had been done, money had been spent, and didn't go horribly bad.
My wife was the 8th girl I dated, and by then I had some idea what I was doing, though I was the first person she dated. I learned much later that she wouldn't have gone out on a 2nd date had I not flown to KC. But we dated for 2 weeks after that, got engaged, and the rest is history.
Point being, have patience, even if it's not the best date at first
Anyway, perhaps this should be a separate thread...