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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #40 on: April 27, 2020, 04:40:40 PM »
1 - I have no idea what works for you.
2 - I asked you if you believe housekeeping was women's work.
3 - I made a joke about you depositing money as being sexist.
4 - Stop assuming what I mean. If you are not sure just ask.

Now I will ask again. Where did I assign tasks based on gender?

1 - I told you that my wife doesn't want me to take the housekeeper's place.
2 - No you did not. You asked me why I don't take the housekeeper's place.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #41 on: April 27, 2020, 04:48:06 PM »
2 - I asked you if you believe housekeeping was women's work.
2 - No you did not. You asked me why I don't take the housekeeper's place.
Why don't you just take the housekeepers place or is that women's work? :)
Now you still going to say I didn't ask you if that was women's work?

You still have avoided my original question, again!!!
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #42 on: April 27, 2020, 05:00:43 PM »
Now you still going to say I didn't ask you if that was women's work?

You still have avoided my original question, again!!!
That was you presumed answer to your question of why I don't do the housekeeper's wrk.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #43 on: April 27, 2020, 05:07:17 PM »
That was you presumed answer to your question of why I don't do the housekeeper's wrk.
I asked you point blank was it women's work. You said I never asked you that. You pulled a Trump.
I never assigned any task to any gender. That is the facts.

Now you can start with your presumed/assumed non-sense but the facts are right there for everyone to see.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #44 on: April 27, 2020, 05:08:40 PM »
I asked you point blank was it women's work. You said I never asked you that. You pulled a Trump.
I never assigned any task to any gender. That is the facts.

Now you can start with your presumed/assumed non-sense but the facts are right there for everyone to see.
You made that the alternative to my doing the houskeepers work. I don't accept your sexist premise.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #45 on: April 27, 2020, 05:19:45 PM »
You made that the alternative to my doing the houskeepers work. I don't accept your sexist premise.
It was two separate questions. This is why we can't have honest discussions. You have these preconceived notions you apply to everything. You insert what you presume/assume/premise instead of the facts.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #46 on: April 27, 2020, 05:23:23 PM »
It was two separate questions.
In one sentence with one question mark at the end? Maybe you mean to write two questions but with the way you wrote it you only asked one. Simple english.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #47 on: April 27, 2020, 05:25:08 PM »
In one sentence with one question mark at the end? Maybe you mean to write two questions but with the way you wrote it you only asked one. Simple english.
So what did you assume the one question was?

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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #48 on: April 27, 2020, 05:26:44 PM »
So what did you assume the one question was?


What you wrote. Why don't I take over the housekeeper's work (which you assumed that I don't)
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #49 on: April 27, 2020, 05:28:41 PM »
What you wrote. Why don't I take over the housekeeper's work (which you assumed that I don't)
Now you are assuming what I assumed.  ::)
"is that women's work" was not a question?
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #50 on: April 27, 2020, 05:29:25 PM »
Someone asked his wife what he can do to help and she said he should just gop out of the house somewhere, which he did. After spending some time hanging out with his friends she asked why he came back home so he answered that he helped enough.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #51 on: April 27, 2020, 05:31:51 PM »
Someone asked his wife what he can do to help and she said he should just gop out of the house somewhere, which he did. After spending some time hanging out with his friends she asked why he came back home so he answered that he helped enough.
I have to idea what this means.

"is that women's work" was not a question?
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #52 on: April 27, 2020, 05:32:27 PM »
Now you are assuming what I assumed.  ::)
I'm sorry, your question includes an assumption that I don't.
"is that women's work" was not a question?
It was the second part of the question why I (supposedly) don't do the housekeeper's work, but, as written, was not a question in and of itself.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #53 on: April 27, 2020, 05:37:49 PM »
I'm sorry, your question includes an assumption that I don't.
Why you being such a jerk. I didn't assume anything. That is why I asked two questions. You think I would lie over something so stupid?
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #54 on: April 27, 2020, 05:39:00 PM »
Why you being such a jerk. I didn't assume anything. That is why I asked two questions. You think I would lie over something so stupid?
Quarantine is getting to me...

If you are having a difficult time with sentence structure that you can discuss it with your spokesperson.

@Lurker

But lets end this one here.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #55 on: April 27, 2020, 05:42:53 PM »
Quarantine is getting to me...

If you are having a difficult time with sentence structure that you can discuss it with your spokesperson.

@Lurker
When someone tells you a hundred times it was two questions you going to keep claiming it wasn't because of your reading?
Why would you assume the first part was the question and not the second part?
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #56 on: April 27, 2020, 05:50:08 PM »
When someone tells you a hundred times it was two questions you going to keep claiming it wasn't because of your reading?
Why would you assume the first part was the question and not the second part?
It is called english sentence structure, but lets end this here. So it was a poorly written question.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #57 on: April 27, 2020, 05:52:55 PM »
It is called english sentence structure, but lets end this here. So it was a poorly written question.
Ok it was poorly structure but I would like know why you assumed the first part was the question and not the second part?
So any question has to come in the first part of the sentence?
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #58 on: April 27, 2020, 06:00:15 PM »
Ok it was poorly structure but I would like know why you assumed the first part was the question and not the second part?
So any question has to come in the first part of the sentence?
That is how the sentence reads.
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Re: To all the moms out there
« Reply #59 on: April 27, 2020, 06:08:45 PM »
OK kids, let's take a breather.
Save your time, I don't answer PM. Post it in the forum and a dedicated DDF'er will get back to you as soon as possible.