You asked me if I took over the housekeeper and I told you that my wife does not want that then I told you that I deposit money in the bank account and you called me sexist. Al I discussed was what works for us and you started basing your response on stereotypes.
1 - I have no idea what works for you.
2 - I asked you if you believe housekeeping was women's work.
3 - I made a joke about you depositing money as being sexist.
4 - Stop assuming what I mean. If you are not sure just ask.
Now I will ask again. Where did I assign tasks based on gender?