so when people ignore express rulings of local rabbonim, you support that?
Not sure what ruling you are referring to, I have seen a request, not a ruling. And guess who is going to be mesader kiddushin for the wedding?
Would you expect me to tell them that they can't come to my house?
I have no fear whatsoever of (re)infection for myself and my immediate family, nor do I think anyone coming to my house might get infected from my immediate family. The guests are adults (with their children) and make their own decisions.