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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #20 on: June 01, 2020, 07:09:19 PM »
Basically wherever Jews can be found,
the more Jews there are, the more antisemitism
So high concentrations where they all dress a certain way?
Is BK, CH, LW hotspots for anti-Semitism?
How about downtown Chicago. A lot of Jews work there but dress differently.
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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #21 on: June 01, 2020, 07:09:40 PM »
Not sure. That is a hotspot for anti-Semitism.
You are the one that brought up the stereotyping someone based on how they dress. Now when your own words are turned against you it is a different story.

When a particular mode of dress is favored by gangsters, and individuals who are more likely to commit violent crimes, then it's not stereotyping to be concerned.

For example - even in their leisure time, most doctors I've seen (regardless of skin color) aren't dressed in clothing where you're not sure if they might be in a gang.

"Stereotypical" jewish clothing is not, as far as I know, associated with violent crime.

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #22 on: June 01, 2020, 07:10:33 PM »
I will not answer the OP question.
I will say that I was a young child during the 1991 Crown Heights RiotsPogrom. we got a brick through my window, landed in inches from my baby sister. we all barricaded ourselves into a single back bedroom for a few days.

that whole decade I couldn't ride my bike down the block because it would get taken from me. every. single. time. funny the thief never wore a yarmulka. speaking of yarmulkas I remember mine getting knocked off my head at 6 years old. regularly.

@CountValentine How do you think I'm handling the current unrest? put yourself in someone else's shoes for a minute here

But I don't stereotype

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #23 on: June 01, 2020, 07:10:59 PM »
What about the Pittsburgh synagogue shooting? I don't think those Jews dressed in black hat, pants and coats.

What about the Poway synagogue shooting? Besides for the Rabbi, I don't think most of the Jews in that synagogue dress in black.

anti-Semitism unfortunately doesn't choose certain Jews.

Plenty of Jews have thought that it was because of the dress and therefore dropped it and tried to blend in but many have realized anti-Semitism in the workplace and elsewhere despite not dressing like Jews.
I am not the one who stereotype people on how they dressed. Hopefully you are seeing my point.
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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #24 on: June 01, 2020, 07:15:27 PM »
@CountValentine How do you think I'm handling the current unrest? put yourself in someone else's shoes for a minute here

But I don't stereotype
How about I put myself in the shoes of a black person who marched peacefully down our main street. They had bricks and bottles thrown at them while the police did nothing and the crowd cheered? I was just a kid and did not understand what they were doing wrong.

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #25 on: June 01, 2020, 07:16:32 PM »
How about I put myself in the shoes of a black person who marched peacefully down our main street. They had bricks and bottles thrown at them while the police did nothing and the crowd cheered? I was just a kid and did not understand what they were doing wrong.
Is that still happening? What @gozalim is describing is happening now.

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #26 on: June 01, 2020, 07:20:01 PM »
Is that still happening?
Now it is the police doing it.
Lets get back OT.
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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #27 on: June 01, 2020, 07:22:23 PM »
Now it is the police doing it.
Lets get back OT.
On a systematic basis? There are terrible stories, but I don't think that these are the norm.

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #28 on: June 01, 2020, 07:26:14 PM »
On a systematic basis? There are terrible stories, but I don't think that these are the norm.
Targeting blacks because they are black is systematic.
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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #29 on: June 01, 2020, 07:29:21 PM »
This was posted in another thread and it seemed a little off so why not a poll.
"...and yes in new york city plenty of jews fear they'll get beaten up by a black guy every time one walks by..."
when I lived in Brooklyn during the " knockout" spree, I crossed the street to avoid thug looking colored people. I knew several people who were injured due to this game and there were many more. Where I currently live, no. I even go to West Roxbury to get my tires... If that makes me racist, then ok. Bottom line, I don't recall white thugs participating in the "knockout" game but I may be wrong.

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #30 on: June 01, 2020, 07:29:49 PM »
We shouldn't be scared of blacks. Sadly we have too many reasons to be. Incidents occur far too often.

You cannot blame a Brooklyn resident for crossing a street to avoid certain company. If has nothing to do with skin color, it has to do with experience.

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #31 on: June 01, 2020, 07:29:59 PM »
Stereotyping works, until you are the victim of it.

That's the issue here.

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #32 on: June 01, 2020, 07:30:37 PM »
This whole thread is so incredibly stupid, even by JS standards. No one, I mean literally no one, is afraid every time they see a black person. And no one, literally no one, would *never* be afraid of seeing a black person.and this includes black people, obviously.

I mean, one of Chris Rock's most famous bits is about that!

And then to go and misconstrue someone saying how someone dresses is more indicative about what causes fear than the color of their skin to be saying he's "stereotyping people based on how they are dressed" is either a mind numbing lack of comprehension or a flagrant disingenuous troll.

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #33 on: June 01, 2020, 07:34:43 PM »
Stereotyping works, until you are the victim of it.

That's the issue here.
Someone got my point.  :)
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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #34 on: June 01, 2020, 07:35:03 PM »
"May God protect the police and all of the people of the city."
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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #35 on: June 01, 2020, 09:07:31 PM »
This whole thread is so incredibly stupid, even by JS standards.
so maybe let's move it to the COVID board :)

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Re: Are you afraid every time a black man walks by you?
« Reply #36 on: June 01, 2020, 09:54:44 PM »
in store? no, out of my comfort zone? yes
my shvartza neighbor was arrested so things are quieter these days
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