if I can only be there from Sunday till Thursday since my ruv wont let me be there for shabbes should I still go or its to lees ?
No offense, but the
most Chumradig psak possible is, to just keep 2 days Shabbos.
Saying don't go is another way of saying I don't know the answer, and/or don't want/not capable to research the subject...
I would say that a nice big chunk of Dayanim haven't learned the subject thouroly, and some are even clueless.
Find a Ruv that you respect and is familiar to the matter, and ask for his opinion, and if he says to do 2 days, it's not that bad at all, as a matter of fact I think it's really unique and enjoyable.
Bottom line, whatever you end up doing, Maui is a stuuuning place, so just make sure to enjoy all the time you get.
I just had to get this off my chest...
#sighofrelief