Is this becoming the fantasy thread?
You're the one that called for swift decisive action, I'm merely asking you to expand on that. Particularly, what could be said or done that would actually get anyone to change behavior, as stated previously:
I'm saying if [the rov] came out with [a voice note] and stopped going to weddings would that change any behavior? You know as well as I do it wouldn't.
...It's too late to put the genie back in the bottle.