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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #80 on: March 05, 2021, 04:37:41 PM »
Incredible job! Good shabbos. May Reb Yaakov ben Shalom's neshama have an aliya
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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #81 on: March 05, 2021, 05:08:52 PM »
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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #82 on: March 05, 2021, 05:33:35 PM »
Amen, awaiting the DDMS post
+1 incredible.

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #83 on: March 05, 2021, 05:34:41 PM »
Wow!

Thank you again to all those that participated in this chessed shel emes and a special yasher koyach to @Something Fishy and his never give up BIL!!

With your help, R' Yaakov ben Sholom was able to have a Yiddishe kevurah including the special detail of his full Yiddishe name!

Thank you as well @Yehuda57 and those who made contributions. Your participation, and indeed this whole thread helps us feel not so lonely out here, hours away from the nearest full service Jewish community.

Another special detail of this whole story that highlights the strength of the Yiddishe neshoma is that as of a few weeks ago, R' Yaakov had not planned on a Jewish burial. I was asked to visit and help his say some last prayers (we had not known of his existence prior), and in addition to vidui etc., offered to help him put on tefillin. He agreed, and with tears in his eyes, mentioned that he never imagined he would get put on tefillin again. After tefillin, and with his family's encouragement I asked if he would consider a Jewish burial. He replied in the affirmative, and the rest you saw here...


In the merit of this special achdus yisrael/ ahavas chinam, may Hashem send Moshiach Now!

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #84 on: March 05, 2021, 05:40:03 PM »
If I may, and I understand completely if the mods remove this, we all just got a little glimpse into the life of a Rabbi in a remote town, and it's been awesome to see the DDF community be able to help out. Inasmuch as the challenges for someome living so far are immense, the impact even small contributions can make on such communities is immense too.

As it happens, the Shliach in Fargo is also a "RYG", and I think it would be awesome to continue this chain of helpfulness and kindness by inundating their donate page in honor of DDF.

https://www.jewishnorthdakota.com/templates/articlecco_cdo/aid/4115125/jewish/Donate.htm

Schar Mitzvah Mitzvah, the Schar of a Mitzvah is another Mitzvah! Keep the chain going.

Good shabbos!


Well said, donated in honor of everyone's amazing work in this thread!

GS DDF :)
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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #85 on: March 06, 2021, 07:34:30 PM »
If I may, and I understand completely if the mods remove this, we all just got a little glimpse into the life of a Rabbi in a remote town, and it's been awesome to see the DDF community be able to help out. Inasmuch as the challenges for someome living so far are immense, the impact even small contributions can make on such communities is immense too.

As it happens, the Shliach in Fargo is also a "RYG", and I think it would be awesome to continue this chain of helpfulness and kindness by inundating their donate page in honor of DDF.

https://www.jewishnorthdakota.com/templates/articlecco_cdo/aid/4115125/jewish/Donate.htm

Schar Mitzvah Mitzvah, the Schar of a Mitzvah is another Mitzvah! Keep the chain going.

Good shabbos!

Just bumping this ICYMI late on erev shabbos. And I wanted to add that I am not related to @postoffice, and to my knowledge we've never met. From having relatives on shlichus in remote places, I know that for Shluchim who far go, your contribution will go far. (apologies to @postoffice who has probably heard way too many of versions of that)

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #88 on: March 09, 2021, 04:14:53 PM »
If I may, and I understand completely if the mods remove this, we all just got a little glimpse into the life of a Rabbi in a remote town, and it's been awesome to see the DDF community be able to help out. Inasmuch as the challenges for someome living so far are immense, the impact even small contributions can make on such communities is immense too.

As it happens, the Shliach in Fargo is also a "RYG", and I think it would be awesome to continue this chain of helpfulness and kindness by inundating their donate page in honor of DDF.

https://www.jewishnorthdakota.com/templates/articlecco_cdo/aid/4115125/jewish/Donate.htm


Sorry, I only saw this on DDMS today, so I'm late to the game. But if I can add a personal connection. Last summer we had cabin fever after being locked down for several months. But even though we were COVID careful, most places weren't interested in having anything to do with Brooklyn Jews coming to contaminate them.

We weren't comfortable flying, but we were up for an ambitious road trip. We brought all our own food for during the week, but Shabbos was the biggest obstacle, since we always plan our itineraries around spending Shabbos in a Jewish community with other families.

In early June I reached out to the most far-flung Chabads I could find, places where COVID hadn't yet reached. But the overwhelming majority were either closed completely or at least closed to outsiders. One of the two that warmly opened up to total strangers was RYG @postoffice at Chabad of Fargo (the other was Chabad of Green Bay).

With Shabbos plans in place, we managed to put together a wonderful road trip to Michigan's Upper Peninsula, Wisconsin, Minnesota, and North Dakota, which added many thousands of miles to our odometer. We had a wonderful socially-distanced Shabbos with RYG's family, and he really went above and beyond to help us with so many aspects of the ND portion of our trip.

We saw a glimpse of his dedication in action when our Motzei Shabbos departure from Fargo to drive west across the state to Theodore Roosevelt NP was delayed when he asked us to stay home with his kids while he and his wife went to visit a Jew in the hospital. Their dedication to every Jew, both locals and visitors, is inspiring, and I reiterate the call to support their work as much as you are able!

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #90 on: March 09, 2021, 06:57:14 PM »
https://anash.org/how-dans-deals-and-a-shliach-ensured-a-proper-jewish-burial
They cut out all the usernames :)

They cut the usernames but kept the real ones, due to:

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #91 on: March 09, 2021, 07:40:37 PM »
They cut the usernames but kept the real ones, due to:

😂😂😂

I mean it's all fun and games having your pseudonym on an itty bitty blog, but when you reach the big time .org websites...

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #92 on: March 09, 2021, 07:49:01 PM »
I mean it's all fun and games having your pseudonym on an itty bitty blog, but when you reach the big time .org websites...
Just wait for jta to pick it up

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #93 on: March 09, 2021, 08:56:25 PM »
Ch.info
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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #94 on: March 09, 2021, 09:41:25 PM »
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"Some information was altered for clarity. "
I think more for people to think that these websites are still sane :)

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #95 on: March 22, 2021, 01:22:46 PM »
Lubavitch.com reached out to me and and wrote an article which includes (with the family's permission) a few personal details which I didn't feel comfortable to share earlier. Read the article at https://www.lubavitch.com/travel-deals-points-miles-and-a-jewish-burial/

Thank you again to all those that took part in this beautiful mitzvah of chessed shel emes and to those who contributed to our work here in North Dakota!

Wishing everyone a Kosher and Freilichen Pesach!

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #96 on: March 22, 2021, 01:32:25 PM »
@postoffice Has a Matzeiva been erected yet and/or do you know if any funds are needed for this?

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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #97 on: March 22, 2021, 02:09:40 PM »
Lubavitch.com reached out to me and and wrote an article which includes (with the family's permission) a few personal details which I didn't feel comfortable to share earlier. Read the article at https://www.lubavitch.com/travel-deals-points-miles-and-a-jewish-burial/

Thank you again to all those that took part in this beautiful mitzvah of chessed shel emes and to those who contributed to our work here in North Dakota!

Wishing everyone a Kosher and Freilichen Pesach!

After all this they couldn't get @Dan's name right?
I've been waiting over 5 years with bated breath for someone to say that!
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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #98 on: March 22, 2021, 02:48:19 PM »
@postoffice Has a Matzeiva been erected yet and/or do you know if any funds are needed for this?
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Re: Please help find a niftar's parents Jewish names.
« Reply #99 on: March 22, 2021, 03:15:52 PM »
I'd be happy to contribute towards a larger more permanent one (with Hebrew names of course, so future generations will be able to find it  ;D )