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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #440 on: June 13, 2023, 11:24:21 AM »
There have been protests in Monsey in the past in this case.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #441 on: June 13, 2023, 07:29:20 PM »
For cases like this we need stories like was it R' Akiva Eiger??? who told the meshumad: "Haisha yotze b'shnie drachim - Your choice..." and after the husband finished making fun...turned to leave and droped dead at the door

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #442 on: June 13, 2023, 09:50:00 PM »
Seems like he needs to report to court tomorrow but he is appealing the decision? Not fully following.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #443 on: June 14, 2023, 12:30:00 AM »
Who's the grandfather in above psak? I noticed they mention the grandfather specifically "the gaon rabbi yitzchak Wasserman"


As in, he's tarnishing his grandfather's name? I mean like why were they specifically mention his grandfather?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #444 on: June 14, 2023, 02:50:41 AM »
Who's the grandfather in above psak? I noticed they mention the grandfather specifically "the gaon rabbi yitzchak Wasserman"


As in, he's tarnishing his grandfather's name? I mean like why were they specifically mention his grandfather?
https://www.geni.com/people/Rabbi-Rephoel-Wasserman/6000000004004286186
https://www.hamichlol.org.il/%D7%A8%D7%91%D7%99_%D7%99%D7%A6%D7%97%D7%A7_%D7%95%D7%A1%D7%A8%D7%9E%D7%9F

In other words, he comes from a chushuv, well conected family.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #445 on: June 14, 2023, 03:08:25 PM »
I'm hearing that a warrant was issued for him today. Seems that he's the type of guy that'll literally sit in jail not to give the get though, not much to do about it if he makes that choice, unfortunately. 

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #446 on: June 14, 2023, 03:14:30 PM »
I'm hearing that a warrant was issued for him today. Seems that he's the type of guy that'll literally sit in jail not to give the get though, not much to do about it if he makes that choice, unfortunately.
I have seen people struggle with giving divorces usually for money, custody etc. But I struggle to understand this guy. Is it narcissistic behavior? What is he aiming to get out this? to get back together?
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #447 on: June 14, 2023, 03:23:16 PM »
I have seen people struggle with giving divorces usually for money, custody etc. But I struggle to understand this guy. Is it narcissistic behavior? What is he aiming to get out this? to get back together?
Dunno, maybe


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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #448 on: June 15, 2023, 04:46:55 AM »
I have seen people struggle with giving divorces usually for money, custody etc. But I struggle to understand this guy. Is it narcissistic behavior? What is he aiming to get out this? to get back together?
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #449 on: June 15, 2023, 09:00:34 AM »
I'm hearing that a warrant was issued for him today. Seems that he's the type of guy that'll literally sit in jail not to give the get though, not much to do about it if he makes that choice, unfortunately.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #450 on: June 15, 2023, 09:22:23 AM »

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #451 on: June 15, 2023, 09:29:58 AM »
I think he means that beating him up can be a last resort option
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #452 on: June 15, 2023, 10:06:37 AM »
I think he means that beating him up can be a last resort option
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #453 on: June 15, 2023, 11:42:10 AM »
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Didn’t age well for the last group involved in that business, besides for the Halachik complexities that come along with that.

Just pointing out there are other potential "options". I think it's fair to question their tactics. Regarding the halachic and hashkafik view on these, AYLOR.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #454 on: June 15, 2023, 02:36:58 PM »
to get back together?

That seems to be what he is claiming (which is itself an indication that he isn't all there).

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #455 on: June 15, 2023, 02:43:10 PM »
Ah
Didn’t age well for the last group involved in that business, besides for the Halachik complexities that come along with that.

See paragraph 3 in the psak din



They are not allowing anyone to do anything that is illegal, but if someone does that would not invalidate the Get.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #456 on: June 15, 2023, 02:49:03 PM »
See paragraph 3 in the psak din

They are not allowing anyone to do anything that is illegal, but if someone does that would not invalidate the Get.
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #457 on: June 15, 2023, 11:24:00 PM »
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Dovid Wasserman evaded the arrest warrant.

David Wasserman was located last night. The sergeant went to pick him up this afternoon. However Dovid's request for a stay order was partially granted. The appeals court ordered Dovid to pay $48,000 by June 27th.

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How does this help her? Is she hoping he won't be able to come up with the money and the only way to stay out of jail would be to divorce her?

Also, will they be following him every time he leaves his house? Or is this a pressure tactic?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #458 on: June 16, 2023, 12:08:11 AM »

How does this help her? Is she hoping he won't be able to come up with the money and the only way to stay out of jail would be to divorce her?
Yes.
Unfortunately, he's been getting financial support from somewhere throughout this.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #459 on: June 16, 2023, 01:00:15 AM »
Yes.
Unfortunately, he's been getting financial support from somewhere throughout this.
The Bassman's (his mother) are a wealthy family