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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #520 on: August 11, 2023, 10:03:51 AM »
Monsey Rav who sat all day Tuesday in Rikers to try (in vain) to get him to give a get passed away suddenly.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #521 on: August 11, 2023, 10:13:13 AM »

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #522 on: August 11, 2023, 10:25:09 AM »
I know not everyone loves DL, but he doesn't have an earring and he doesn't curse. She was on his show 4 (!) years ago.
 
http://podcast.headlinesbook.com/e/122819-show-252-prenutials/

She goes through the process she went through. Each rav, each BD. She speaks about very real issues in the BD system. Is that episode also rabbi-bashing, or is it a "legitimate" expression of her story?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #523 on: August 11, 2023, 10:34:20 AM »
no legitimate rabbi is backing her up here

This is false (or more precisely a blatant lie) as discussed upthread.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #524 on: August 11, 2023, 10:40:38 AM »
http://podcast.headlinesbook.com/e/122819-show-252-prenutials/
Side point: It's comical that that he's trying to showcase this to support prenupts. A prenupt is worthless for such a case.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #525 on: August 11, 2023, 11:17:29 AM »
Monsey Rav who sat all day Tuesday in Rikers to try (in vain) to get him to give a get passed away suddenly.
Crazy person. What posseses a person to not give a get is beyond me.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #526 on: August 11, 2023, 11:18:31 AM »
This is false (or more precisely a blatant lie) as discussed upthread.
Can you please provide these names?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #527 on: August 11, 2023, 11:19:51 AM »
Crazy person. What posseses a person to not give a get is beyond me.
A brain injury. Literally

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #528 on: August 11, 2023, 11:33:26 AM »
A brain injury. Literally

The big question no1 is mentioning is if he can give a kosher get.
This whole campaign might be a waste of time,he probably doesn’t have enough daas regardless.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #529 on: August 11, 2023, 11:35:52 AM »
The big question no1 is mentioning is if he can give a kosher get.
This whole campaign might be a waste of time,he probably doesn’t have enough daas regardless.
This gets into the kliever get contraversy...
AFAIK no one thinks were at that point. He has enough daas for a get.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #530 on: August 11, 2023, 12:12:29 PM »
This gets into the kliever get contraversy...
AFAIK no one thinks were at that point. He has enough daas for a get.

Says who?
He still nechama will come back and be happily married.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #531 on: August 11, 2023, 12:14:01 PM »
He still nechama will come back and be happily married.
Right. He is a bit delusional. That doesn't mean he can't give a get.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #532 on: August 12, 2023, 11:25:53 PM »
Can you please provide these names?

You could just look upthread, were a psak allowing ke'fiya, including against his family, was posted.

The two names that I recognized from the psak were
Rav Mendel Shafran is not a "known/prominent Rov"?
ETA: Rav Gavriel Tzinner is not a "known/prominent Rov"?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #533 on: August 13, 2023, 12:08:16 AM »
Was told by a relative of mine that a messy divorce in Lakewood gave a get mid last week sometime

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #534 on: August 13, 2023, 12:17:49 AM »
You could just look upthread, were a psak allowing ke'fiya, including against his family, was posted.
The psak was that a get given because of kefiya will be kosher, not allowing kefiya

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #535 on: August 13, 2023, 05:09:31 PM »
Was told by a relative of mine that a messy divorce in Lakewood gave a get mid last week sometime
Mazel tov

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #536 on: August 13, 2023, 08:14:10 PM »
Crazy person. What posseses a person to not give a get is beyond me.

Ruthless person seeking utmost revenge? I know some me'agen who vowed not to give a get as long she's able to bear children.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #537 on: August 13, 2023, 08:41:50 PM »
Today's daf

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #538 on: August 13, 2023, 09:47:55 PM »
Halachically does a women have a right to demand a get? (Disclaimer: I never learned anything on the subject)
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #539 on: August 13, 2023, 09:57:35 PM »
Halachically does a women have a right to demand a get? (Disclaimer: I never learned anything on the subject)
Sure (in certain cases).