There are husbands that are forced to pay absurd amounts of alimony and support so their exes should never have to work a day in their lives. The crippling of these men financially makes it almost impossible for them to remarry, as they cannot support a second household so long as they are chained and enslaved financially to their former wives. For all practical purposes, these men are nearly agunos. You'll never hear of anyone protesting such conduct on the woman's side, though. Demanding primary custody or full and full support seems to be par for the course. All is fair when it comes to family court, and if one side is given more leverage and rights by the court system due to their gender, then so be it. However, when the other side decides to exercise the only leverage given to the male in an attempt to force a more equitable settlement that will allow them both to move on in life, he is dubbed a monster. Life is not always so black and white. Two wrongs may not make a right, but it does puts a person's behavior in perspective before casting judgement without jury or trial.